When i had sex with boyfriend #1, it felt good but my body never actually reacted to orgasming. Like i was always extremely wet but i didn't know when i came. The one time i saw it was when we did this closet trick and he shined the flashlight on his dick. I freaked out cause i assumed he came but apparently it was mine. 🙈 After we stopped having sex, at 17 my friend guy talked dirty to me on the phone and tried to teach me how to masturbate and introduced me to my clit lmao. My body shook like crazy and i squirted and it felt good but i didn't wanna do it again. 🤷♀️ So i waited til age 20 when i watched hardcore porn for the first time. I started masturbating and it felt hella good and i couldnt stop. I did it like everyday for 2-3 months straight. But i could squirt when doing this. Then i didn't want to do it anymore because i thought it would make me loose 😂 Anyways, i discovered nipple play some months later and used that as my masturbating technique instead of clit/vaginal play. Plus clit play does nothing for me aside from that time at age 17. 🥺 i still couldnt squirt but i rolled with nipple play til age 22. I returned to masturbation briefly by phone sex with potential boyfriend and squirted a time or two. Then it was back to nipple play until i broke my 9 year celibacy and had sex with boyfriend #2 🥺 Damn we was fckin like rabbits. I tried to go back to nipple play after but it slowly decreased and became harder to cum from it. It used to help me cum in like 2.5 mins compared to clit play that took like 10-20 min. And ugh my orgasms get interrupted so easily. I mean i can cum easily from my guys moans, but nipple play and masturbation alone dont do shit for me. Even porn isn't working anymore... i fall asleep. Phone sex isn't really my guys thing so I don't know wtf to do. Guess i gotta allow myself to get dicked down 😔😂🙈 by the way this is a general question so answer based off of if masturbation still works for you (not for me). #StoryTime#FeelFreeToList
Actually the more you do it, the more you get use to it, similar techniques gives you less pleasure next time, and it continues to decline, until you try something else new and exciting, I think why we see the more creative techniques and ways of pleasuring in porns because usual techniques doesn't work like before, that's why people often take steps to bdsm and fetish things, but there is always that one thing in you that can work for you forever, everybody has that secret pleasure trigger, I am not very use to masturbation but what use to work for me before it doesn't even make me hard now, and I have found a very weird pleasure trigger of mine, that makes me feel instantly fantastic, but I think real thing is best in every way, and exploring each other is way better to do it together, although I have no experience and I am still a virgin, added my two cents to this.
No this makes sense 👀 but i dont care to finger myself and nipple play has gotten old. I don't know whats left but i def ain't doing anything with toys nor anally
You don't necessarily have to use toys, I hate those things, and honestly I don't ever need someone who use them, but there are other ways and secrets hidden in your body, you need to keep exploring it trying different things whatever you like, once you get that, there is no going back again, I have found mine and that could be extreme fun anytime, you know single thing, I had lots of time to find that, lol. I think you should work in that. Or just take a long break until everything start pleasing you back again.
I don't mean disgusted by your body, I mean when we get use to something too much, it just doesn't feels like before, what is your favorite dish that makes your mouth water in a second? Try eating that everyday everytime and soon you don't find the same pleasure eating that, same happens with body it needs the different kind of excitement and sensations to be triggered always, me too like and want someone else exploring me but I don't have a choice, but you have a boyfriend so what are you waiting for ask him to explore your body, it's obviously the best for you.
I hope you are not only eating spaghetti all the time, aren't you? You have been eating other things too, I hope you understand what I said, and you have heard the story of a girl who got stuck in apple island and all she had to eat was only apples? Try to get my point.
WalsallGuy90 | 146 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Masturbation is fun, but it's never going to be as good as actual sex. It's like the difference between having supermarket brand cola, or proper Coke or Pepsi. Both are tasty but nothing beats the brand name :P
I can get myself off on masturbation... especially if I have either my dildo or vibe... I'm good. As far as sex, my sexual experience only goes to giving a blowjob and eating another girl out. I haven't had my lady parts entered my either a real life penis or with a strap on. So I have nothing to compare it to.
Both feel really good, but sex is better if the guy knows what he's doing. If he doesn't know what he's doing, you might as well be painting your nails.
EpicDweeb | 647 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Yeah, sex and masturbation are just very different feelings. It's not like one is the mediocre version of the other. It's like the difference between pie and cake they both make your mouth water and are delicious but they're also fundamentally different.
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TripleAce | 6.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Omg shined a flashlight to show who cummed omg lol you’re too too funny 😂
The thing is i dont give all this that much thought, so everything always just works lol. If you try to forget all this stuff for a bit. Focus on whatever else. And when you naturally feel in the mood. It will just work
Because your mind could be getting desensitized making it harder
Dargil | 35.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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When it was all I had and when sugar was rare, fapping was pretty exciting and productive. In a later self-imposed drought that I thought might never end, I experimented with some risky things to get hotter outcomes and had success. With use of technology sweetened by internet AV, I have gotten some whopper orgasms.
toddthemod | 313 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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I love sex with partner always good when we do what we know makes other get off but always fun to find new triggers But if my partner wanted me to save my urges for her and not please myself as wanted I'd have a problem with that Jerking off is a gift to oneself
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Jamie05rhs | 6.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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I don't know because I've never had sex, but I have masturbated before. But I think after I get married and start having sex, I will probably not want to masturbate because I would prefer to just have sex with her. The only exception, I guess, would be if one of us was away on a long trip and we masturbated separately while thinking about each other. Or we could also just wait and have a big "reunion" as soon as we're both back home, because that could probably be pretty intense and satisfying.
Cammy137 | 2.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Sex is better but the two acts are different. I'll almost always take sex over masturbation, but its still fun to masturbate every now and again. But I've never had the situation where I've turned sex down in order to masturbate.
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