What is your opinion of guys that look at girls as objects of sexual pleasure and breeding machines and nothing more?

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And don't say that this mindset does not exist, in fact there are entire cultures where the males believe that females are nothing more than personal property to do with whatever they please.

The politically correct elites in America do not even allow us to discuss this fact when it comes to these cultures... why is that?

To me it is disgusting and despicable!

And there are certainly guys in the US that think this way as well, since some have replied to some of my posts and may reply to this one.

If you want to remain anonymous just select an option from the survey list.

Good guys, please don't get your panties in a bunch, this is not a post for radical feminists who hate men, that is not what this post is about at all, although, I could easily see why any female could hate a male of the type I am describing. But I am not talking about guys that respect females, only about the ones that don't.

I know this question may sound odd to you, but there really are millions of males that think this way today from around the world.

Share your opinion with us... please?

What is your opinion of guys that look at girls as objects of sexual pleasure and breeding machines and nothing more?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Men who treat women as mere sex objects and breeders are an embarrassment to the male gender and the human race.

I will admit, though, that when I was young, beginning in my teens and through my 20s, I had a typical self absorbed teen age attitude and was primarily interested in having girlfriends just for the sex. I would go from one monogamous relationship (friends with benefits) to another. Let that be a warning to young women. It's just the way things are. Learn to respect yourselves and enjoy sex for sex sake. Have fun, but don't imagine that young men want much else from you. Remember that two can play that game.
Kids can fall into deepest infatuation. They call it love but they know nothing about actual love.

It wasn't until later in life that I began to appreciate women's other qualities and respect them as human beings. Now I have the greatest respect for woman. That isn't to say that my appreciation for their sexuality diminished. But women have wonderful qualities and can match or exceed any man in anything except physical strength.

As far as those other cultures that you eluded to, they are anachronistic and backwards. The are designed for men by men.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

In an ideal world, I want my girl to have a brain and to be a good partner with me and to work on things together. I want her to succeed and to have opportunities and so on.

HOWEVER, in the bedroom, I want her to be my submissive, dirty little whore who begs for my cock.

In my mind, one has nothing to do with the other - I don't have any less respect for her because we're kinky in the bedroom and are Dom/sub, and the girls I tend to attract feel the same.

The girls I've dated would describe me as being a great boyfriend who took very good care of her, paid lots of attention to her, and worked to make her happy - there would be no complaints about any lack of respect. But someone who saw us in the bedroom might think something else.

TarrAva · Accepted Answer

Yes, I have come across that type of gentlemen.

This type of profit oriented mentality is not something new, It already existed in the time of homo sapiens and homo erectus where women were considered nothing more than the exact term used in your question. However, in those days, the prime goal was the continuity of the species while nowadays it is solely limited to sexual pleasure.

But it is unfortunately not the only prerogative of men. There are also a number of women that take advantage of the other gender and treat them as milking machines up to the last cent.

Once they are empty of money, they move to the next victim, just like a good bee does.

Everything revolves around the sexualization of the female body and the egoistic monetary profit at the costs of the male provider.

I voted D because it is the sad truth that there are also ladies that take advantage of men but to a lesser extend than men do.

HomoFuge · Accepted Answer

I like to believe that this attitude is held by men who live in less progressive societies compared to the west where women still have no rights to men.

However, the red pill movement proves that this view is still held by a lot of men living in the west. Of course, these men are still in the minority and most men value women as human beings with individual thoughts and ambitions.

I don’t have any respect for any person that treats a human being horribly. This isn’t just about gender. Some women also treat men as their personal bank account.

We should all treat people as how we would want to be treated. I do not have the time or energy to deal with vile people.

wildflower27 · Accepted Answer

it is widely true. most cultures glorify men and take full advantage of women and need them to be multipurpose. they expect men to be flawed but crucify women for the tiniest mistakes.

Steffy33 · Accepted Answer

Well if they say it or pretend it in a fetish kinda way it's hot af but if they truly feel that way they get my boot

SuperSWC · Accepted Answer

I just want to say, I like the pics you posted, where did you find them

AustinMan · Answer

I won't read a treatise question. Learn to be much more concise.

ChurchOfIron · Answer

I think there's a dangerous mindset that people tend to have.

Women are objects (not in a dehumanizing sense)--they are acted upon, they do not act

Men are "agents"--they act, they are not acted upon.

And I think a great many of our perceptions about the world revolve around those two concepts. I think a lot of people tend to default to the idea that women are objects (again, not in a dehumanizing sense), that they are incapable of action; and, that if they are in an undesirable situation, that is because a man acted upon them.

Likewise, I think it's a common perception that if a man is in an undesirable situation, it is the result of his own actions.

It is kinda fucked up when you think about it. Because the presupposition is that men are all-powerful; and, women are nothing but malleable and weak children who cannot do anything for themselves and are controlled and "acted upon" by men. I don't believe that.

Elliegirl · Answer

Omg! I’m a person, with feelings and opinions! It’s so terrible that some people and cultures would think of me as property and nothing more than a baby making machine or sex toy!!

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

They are simply backwards and disgusting.

Pamina · Answer

What other opinion is there to have about them other than that they're trash?

Jjpayne · Answer

It is a shallow view for sure. Girls do encourage sexual pleasure and are involved in reproduction but they are much more than that. They have done so much for society past those ideas. I get it, in terms of biology that is where are natural desires go. But girls have just as much to give to the world other than those basic ideas. In fact, many have not and I think we call them nuns :) but many have also lived that same life and have done a great many things.

BeMuse · Answer

It's not my problem. They can think however they want and express those opinions. If girls don’t want to sleep with them because of it, oh well.

sawno · Answer

My answer is more complicated because there are a lot more dimensions and variables involved here.

Easy one first, from a society perspective i think its dated and sad if women are treated as just objects for the men. It leads to things like slavery and rape and i am not a fan of that.

But from an individual perspective its different, because you have people who do consider or at least pretend that women are just sex objects and not anything more. And there are women who Love to be threated like that. They love being degraded, used and dominated. And i think this is something that should exist and should not have to be a taboo. But it needs to be exclusive to the people who enjoy this, consensual and ideally limited to the bedroom.

Outside of the bedroom i'd find it sad if the couple even if its just friends with benefits do not see the value that is right in front of them by seeing girls as more as pleasure fulfillers. Because girls are so much more, they can be smart and a great sparring partner for idea's, they can share great moments and do fun things as a friend, share genuine love, be a companion in a time of need, etc. And it would be a shame if its lost on someone because he has such a low view of women.

But bottom line that does leave me with the answer to the title of the question that in part i don't mind it if its individuals who hold this opinions. I'd find it sad for them if they see this as a whole, but cheer them on if its a kink in the bedroom. Ultimately i want people to be free to be themselves and do what works best for them as long as they do not harm others in doing so.

CarpetDenim · Answer

I think they’re really gross

modeve · Answer

They are perv and don't deserve any respect.

Saffygirl · Answer

Sexist idiots

Finchie40 · Answer

Very disrespectful , i honestly can't have sex with a girl without feelings being involved, but i know guys that can just use a girl to get off on and I Think it's crazy , i guess i wasn't made that way

Dav1ss · Answer

I've had a guy call me his property its a no the Moment someone says it I'm running

ShadowofRegret · Answer

I vote A.

God made us both human, whether male or female, we are all human beings with our own personalities and feelings.

So that kind of thing is disgusting to me, I want a (female) person to be with, talk to and enjoy the companionship of, not something like that.

JosyJosy · Answer

Waste of time. Then again there are women who think the gold digger way, kind of the same thing

TonyBologna25 · Answer

Well a lot of women advertise themselves as sluts so you can’t really blame the men for taking the bait.

Also, it’s your biological role to birth a child and fulfill a nurturing role towards your husband and children. Just as it’s a mans role to provide and be that rock that everyone can lean on. It’s not demeaning in my opinion.

Women who are offended by fulfilling their basic gender role can do as they wish. I’ll just avoid them.

Милашка · Answer

Lol so you are complaining about veing a sex object when you have had lots of hookups. Stop being a slut then

winterfox10 · Answer

I know a few guys who think that way. It gets more than a little creepy.

worldscolide · Answer

Honestly its sad.. but here is the weird part. Most feminists equate male sexual desire as the same thing you're talking about.

Grond21 · Answer

While it is and opinions some guys hold, I don't know that you could say there are millions. But you may be right. there are many backwards cultures that have existed historically, and some still exist to this day

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