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Guys, how do you rate a woman’s skills in bed?

ok so the person I’m casually having sex with is not very communicative and my past boyfriends were very selfish when it came to sex. I’ve gained confidence in the sack over the years and feel im better at sex but this guy doesn’t say it openly.
i sometimes initiate the encounters, I give head without being asked (well he does tell me I’m great at giving head) I’m open to have sex with the lights on, do various positions, in missionary I move and touch him, talk dirty to him, when I’m on top I do circular motions, I go up and down front and back, I mean I go the whole nine yards, I’m very enthusiastic , we foreplay until we’re both completely horny, I kiss him very passionately, bite, suck his lips, touch him all over, kiss him all over, I know he enjoys it because he firmly holds my hands during sex, sometimes he gets mad he cums fast, we do it more than once and he says he does it to please me. He looks me in the eye and gives me such passionate kisses. After sex he cuddles with me, we kiss, chat and he touches me all over. He says I make hard, that I over excite him. The question here is, if I do all that why doesn’t he say if I’m good? Is it because we’re just casual and he doesn’t want me to think otherwise or is it because I’m not as good as I think I am?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Have you tried leaving a feedback form on his pillow after?
    Not everything needs feedback like an eBay purchase, it sounds like he's enjoying his time with you. If he's generally not very communicative then let his actions speak for him!

    • Just send an e-mail 1-2 business days later asking to take less than 5 minutes to rate your experience!

    • @Tannhauser lol

  • Damn girl, you sound like every guy’s dream. Why do you need to hear it, he probably shows it.
    Sometimes action speak louder than words.

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  • This is my score sheet:

    Confidence 25%
    Vulnerability 25%

    Initiates the session 10%

    Tease and flirt 20%

    Positions and skills 20%

    Total 100%

  • I don't rate. She is not with me for audition for an adult movie or porn. I just make love and make her feel great.

    But, an easy thing, if he want to spread your pussy and enter it again - you were good in bed. A simple rule of demand.

  • I think you're doing fine. I guess by rating I mostly account for how they communicate and try to figure how into it they are.

  • If I was to rate a woman in bed I would by how long and often the experience of her occupies my mind afterwards. Some women stay in my head and some I have forgotten or rarely enter my mind. That's about it.

  • >having casual sex

    Ok I already can't relate.

    But there's no real way to "rate" it because every man likes different things.
    What one man might love another might be completely repulsed and disgusted by.

    The only way to be "good"is to be with a person for a long time in a dedicated relationship and learn what they like, then you will be good to that person.

    • Makes sense. How come bimbos don't get this?

    • We’ve been seeing each other for more than a year, I know the casual thing is not for everybody or some people might judge or won’t see the point of it 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • So you've been giving your sex away for a year? Just think what you could have had if you had been charging for it all that time? In western culture whores get more respect than sluts. Just sayin'.

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  • You're an image in your own mind. The whole casual thing is a giant fail.

  • How sad! If I were to rate a girl, it'd ALWAYS be a 10!

  • He is simply explaining how the act related to HIS feelings and what is does to HIM. Sometimes we get kind of hung up about the results rather than complimenting the SOURCE (you, in this case), OF those results.

    Take this as a good thing, as long as he wants to come back for more.

    • Just a little P. S. This is more of a study in how someone SHOWS appreciation and not so much a formula for rating the gals’ “performance “

  • I mean everyone’s different, so it’s like you said... he’s not very communicative. If your confident you guys have been having great sex then I’m sure it’s been really good! Plus there’s been many times he’s cumming quickly? Then, that means he’s not being able to resist going on lol there’s been times I found girls amazing I’m bed but for one reason or another I didn’t express it either but that doesn’t mean I didn’t enjoy her or found her to be one of the best!

  • Hmm not all men are communicative, maybe he doesn't know how to tell or explain how much you were good! But think about his actions and if he will want you again that means you are good at it

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