Sounds like he is acting like a kid. As your boyfriend, he should be taking care of you. The truth is if he realized you are in pain and didn’t force sex/bjs from you now but instead was sensitive and sweet to you, in the long run you will feel that love and remember it when you start to feel better. That means even better love making for both of you.
Under the circumstances, it was completely understandable, and you should not feel bad or guilty for not doing it. I get that he was horny, but he should have been more understanding.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You should take care off him, as he should take care of you. Not in a mood for a blowjob, ok... Just tease him a bit with your feet, touch it with them over his pants, give him a hard on. Then just bit your lips, give him a look like you gona rock is world. Then get more close to him, grabe his thing and pull it out. Give it nice strokes with your hand and let him finish in your boobs. 30min blowjob? Something is not right, usually a nice bj makes a guy cum in 5 to 10 min.
He can never cum from a handjob and with blowjobs it takes him 20-40 min.
Humm...🤔.. it only means that he doesn't get very excited so easly. It can happen when a man gets a bit tired of the same standard procedure. Did who try watch porn together, something that really turns him on, watch a fetiche that he may have but didn't told you. I can tell you that almost every guy can cum from masturbation, so try give him a handjob while watching porn together. And see if he can really hold it so much time without shooting his load. While you are doing it, watch his face, his reactions, so you can know when to go faster, slower, more soft and gently or more hard. If you can't see it, then ask him, let him know you wanna do it properly, and in the same time you want to be good at it. It's important that you show some joy to him while you are doing it, thats the most important, if you can't do it with pleasure then you will contunue to give 40 min. blowjob, and that sucks, its to much time, its try hard with low excitment. Watch some video of models giving head, watch their faces and their reactions, you will notice that the ones doing it with pleasure can finish the guy in no time.
I think it depends on the guy, I have asked a question regarding this topic before and there were both those who say they finish quick and those who generally take a lot of time to finish from a blowjob regardless how good it is. It does seem to me that he gets excited fast and during sex he has no problem finishing. I have watched videos a lot and he says I give great head, I never do it if I'm not in the mood cause I know I would not be able to act excited. Regarding handjobs he just told me it's useless so I don't really do it, just as warming him up.
I see this as a mutual failure. Yours for getting sunburned in the first place. Have you ever heard of skin cancer? It's not some abstract issue. It damages your skin much more than you think.
He should have been more understanding Men are pretty much animals when they are expecting sex and don't get it. Basically, we act like children.
DON'T GET SUNBURNED AGAIN!!
Yes I have heard of skin cancer, I have the most sensitive skin type too. Actually we both got sunburnt, the weather didn't look too sunny or hot either so we realised it when it was too late.
Always, ALWAYS wear sun screen no matter what your highly skilled solar observations may be. ;)
You didn't have to be burnt or have any other limitation. If you don't want to do it, don't do it. It's that simple. It's not something he's entitled to get, so he should man up.
Guys like him makes the men as sex maniacs, when they seem to forget that partner is not a slave and it is not always that she is willing to obey your demands.
Let him pissed off, he should realise thst you are not a thing to play whenever he wants in his own way.
If you would manned up and do his desires everytime, you would end up being his unpaid personal mistress.
Jeez, if you dont feel like it, you dont feel like it. WHy would your boyfriend want you doing something you are not keen on?
(Plus 30 minutes seems so long)
I know right? It's not like I can magically make myself want it especially when it takes him so damn long.
You should never feel bad for not wanting to do something sexual. It's really shitty of him to try to make you do that sort of thing after you said you didn't want to
He is bad boyfriend for forcing you and not respecting you, you should never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or things which you don't like. If he truly loves you then he will respect your thoughts and treats in a better way. That's so immature from him to get mad over Something like this, don't let him manipulate you.
how do you know she was forced?
@esotericstory because she didn't want to do it and probably doing it just cuz he wants it. Also he got mad when she refused to do it instead of understanding her...
Thats still not forcing though.
What a crock!
So what does he do for YOU when it's that time of the month? Or are you just expected to pleasure him, with absolutely nothing in return?
Yeah, pretty much, it's blowjob time for him.
Sounds like he's the bad partner, not you.
Well there is nothing he can do really, I'm not up for period sex, at least not on the heavy days.
No you are not in the wrong for saying no and not letting him bully you into doing it 👍
There's plenty of other ways you could help him get off. If he just wants to fell your mouth on his cock, or cum in your mouth... give him that brief pleasure for a few seconds... not 30 minutes.
He should feel lucky you would be willing to help him get off at all!
There are some who are just not into oral.
You got a sunburn and you’re in pain, you shouldn’t be expected to give your whiney boyfriend a blowjob. He has hands, he can masturbate and he can live without shoving his dick down your throat for one week while you recover.
No, but he's a bad boyfriend for badgering you about it. He's pretty lucky you are ever willing to give him 30 minutes of oral sex. I hope he reciprocates.
you're not a bad girlfriend, but thankfully you're not my girlfriend. blowjobs aren't the only way to please a guy.
No you should never feel pressured or guilted into doing something you don't want to sexually
You should only do what you like. And even for the guy, the best bj are the one women enjoy to give.
Definitely not at fault, not everyone enjoys oral! Has he ever gone down on you?
(please read the caption in case you haven't) Yes he has, and I usually do too but not in this case.
Sorry I read and responded early this morning. But in any case, he shouldn't always expect it, everyone's allowed an off day.
He sounds like an overgrown child for whining about that. If you're not up for it you're not up for it.
NO, only if you refuse your side bad boy.
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