My boyfriend said he loves me less. What should I do?
However, yesterday I slept over at his place. Suddenly, I woke up and heard weird noises from the bathroom. It sounded like him when he is usually cumming. I was very angry and I immediately asked him if he was mastrubating again when I'm in the other room. He denied and he got very very angry. He was accusing me again of not trusting him and he got a bit verbally aggressive. I got scared and offended and left his house at 5am in the morning. He didn't even try to stop me. This was the first time I saw him being so indifferent. He didn't even try to stop me from leaving. This is not how he usually is.
We met later to sort things out. He said he is really tired of our fights (even though he causes them). Then I asked him is he loves me less and he said quite indifferently "Yeah, if I am thinking so long about it, I love you less". I started crying and I was really upset. I told him that I can't live with someone who just suddenly loves me less. I told him that I don't like his behavior and that this might be the end of our relationship. He got emotional and cried. Then he said he was really sorry for saying that and that he is the cause of the problem. He even planned an appointment with a psychologist. What should I do? I can't handle this inconsistent behavior.
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