Why do so many guys try to stick it up my butt without asking?
So yeah, I drink and party a lot right now and when I work, I'm in that same scene. I've had quite some drunk hookups. I'm having the way too much fun for my own good, but honestly, the attitude of some guys worries me. Last week I had three hookups and yes, all three times I was really drunk. I do realise that it's normal that the sex in these situations is rough and emotionless, but all three of them at a certain point just started fucking me in the ass without asking or even warning me. Luckily I can take it and at the moment enjoyed it. But afterwards I felt really bad about the fact that they just assumed they can do that and didn't need to ask for my consent. I honestly feel a little used and disrespected right now. When a drunk girl let's you come home with her to have sex, you can't just do whatever you want. If they asked, I'd let them anyway, but it just seems a little fucked up all three of them just went for it.
Why do guys do this? Am I overreacting? Is it maybe so common that anal is on the menu during a one night stand? I haven't known the "single life" for a long time, so I'm pretty new to this.
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