Immediate reaction: bad decision. No couple, especially married ones, should use sex as a weapon.
Then I'll try to patch up and resume sex.
If over a prolonged period (like 6 months), ill tell her to have make up sex or I'll fuck another girl that night.
That's an ultimatum.
I could deal with it in the short term (if she had to work through some feelings or whatever), but longer-term, that would be a deal-breaker and relationship-ender.
I decide those things, but I would end it directly. I don't believe in cheating. Just be honest
In other words, if he broke up with me? I'd be very sad, obviously.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If there's something specific for a short time maybe but out of nowhere or as a power play/exchange medium for whatever I'm out.
If it's like she is taking a break, then I might consider being with her still. If it's for long, bye bye.
No more us.
Leave him
First off all id teach her to spell realise correctly with an S not a Z then id dump her.
I’ll give him space. He will come around.,
No if he doesn't
Leave
I’d tell her that I was under no obligation to maintain loyalty to her, then.
Yeah, well, it's never lasted. Sometimes it gets weird. There was one time when she followed up a couple days later with this enormously long screed of how I was going to get what was coming to me from jumping onto "that personals site" right after the fight, so I asked her which one. I offered to help her go through everything to find it for me and show me what I had been doing. Of course, there was nothing to show, since I wasn't doing a damned thing. I think she thought herself SO FUCKING SMART. All she had to do was make irate accusations, and I'd "break". Sorry, nothing to "break" about. A few days later, she started apologizing to me...
I'd respond with..
NO MORE RELATIONSHIP!
Generally, it's women who cut sex as a punishment, because they know most guys will crack.
I stopped letting females use sex as a weapon a LONG time ago.
If they stop it... I will simply get it elsewhere.
If they don't like that, then they can grow the fuck up and stop acting like a child taking their bat and ball and leaving because they don't get their way.
Why do guys crack from not having sex?
That is a bit weird. Why should sex be like some sort of bargaining chip? I want to have sex with my partner when we both want it, desire each other and enjoy having sex. If she thinks she's 'giving' me sex like a gift, then I don't want it. That would just mean that she doesn't want to have sex with me but 'gives' me sex in exchange for something.
I can understand that after a fight or because of some disagreement or tension there is no mood to have sex, but it shouldn't come to a point where that is part of negotiation or a sort of blackmail.
Buh bye baby.
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