I can’t FEEL anything in doggy style?

[Anonymous]

I’ve just met my first boyfriend, but I cannot feel anything in doggy style. Don’t get me wrong, his d*ck is pretty big, wide too. But I can’t feel anything. To the point where I’m thinking, “is it in?”

I know it’s not my boyfriends problem, because when I masturbate I can’t feel anything in that position either. My boyfriend seems to enjoy it.

So my question is, how do I mention this to him without him getting insecure and feeling like he is the problem, when he’s really not. I don’t want to fake it. Advice would be useful!

[markscott]

How you just said it is clear and without blaming him. So, if you say it something like you did here, he should understand. It does seem that a compromise is needed. As he enjoys doggy style, and most guys do, then some of the time he can do doggy, and other times use a position that gives you more feeling.

[mystomachissick]

What you just said... say that to him, especially the part about how you can't even do it yourself and make sure to emphasize that he's big and thick, and it'll be fine. Maybe even save that position for special days for him because you know he likes it.

[Asker]

Yeah to be honest that’s what I’ll have to do. Cheers

[cuttl]

"Hey, I know you really like doggy style, but it doesn't do a lot for me. Could we do it for [a reasonable amount of time] and then switch to [position you prefer] for [similar amount of time]?"

"Do you think we could try some variations on doggy style?"

[Rachelfire]

Adjust your angle of your hips. Arch your back more. Trust me. You'll know when

[Elburolo]

Switch position, or tell him position you like.

[Asker]

Obviously. But how do I tell him I don’t feel anything like this without hurting his pride? Because I don’t want to continue doing it when it’s boring for me.

[Elburolo]

there's no right way. You'll hurt it no matter what. Just dont beat the dead horse with axe.

[Agape93]

Get a new position

[Asker]

Obviously. But how do I tell him I don’t feel anything like this without hurting his pride? Because I don’t want to continue doing it when it’s boring for me.

[Agape93]

Just tell him. It’s an equal partnership. Just if anything, tell him you want to try a new position.

[_dude_]

Just tell him that position doesn´t do anything for you, and suggest other positions that do.

[Nayrr]

Everyone's boyfriend on GAG has a big penis 🤔

[Asker]

Well I haven’t exactly got out a fucking measuring tape but yes I’d consider it a decent size... Now can you answer my question please lol

[Nayrr]

I don't know, your problem makes no sense to me.

[Asker]

Then why even comment?

[Nayrr]

Because I can :)

[Jerre]

Try riding his cock. Bet that will make you cum hard and you’re sure to feel his cock.

[Valnac]

That might be a question for your gynecologist.