If a guy had jerked off a few days before getting a blowjob/handjob, is it normal for him not to cum as much?

[Anonymous]

So about 2 weeks ago, I was giving my boyfriend a handjob/blowjob. And he came for the first time (since we’ve been dating). I’m also the first girl he’s ever came with even though he’s gotten head and stuff before. He didn’t cum as much as I expected. He told me jacked off I think it was the night before he came over. Is it weird that he didn’t cum as much as he tell me he normally does (this is when he jerks off by the way). Is this normal? I’m pretty sure he was enjoying it tho because his leg was shaking and I could tell he was trying not to moan/make any noise. He’s also told me I’m the best head he’s ever had, which I believe because I trust him. He also the only guy I’ve ever given head to. Please help me and also take my poll 😂

[7p3ue7]

Maybe he just doesn't cum as much as you want him to or he says he does, time will tell. He may not be the most sperm productive man you will ever meet, all guys produce sperm in different quantities, thats why you get very virile/fertile men and those that unfortunately for them "fire blanks". Having your cock sucked is always nice but I like a good handjob, and like to see where I'm shooting my load. Definitely tho if he wanks often then that reduces the stock and he has to re-stock, but I would think a normal healthy guy could reload both barrels within 24hrs. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

major props for being the only girl to get him off duing a bj and also him being the first guy u sucked! do u enjoy sucking him or just do it for his pleasrue?

[Asker]

Lol thanks! I mean I like it because it turns me on and I like making him feel good... it makes me super wet which he likes because it turns him on when he gives me head. And makes it easier to finger me.

[Opinion Owner]

no problem! wow im suprised you get wet from it. did you think you would like it that much lol? maybe thats why u got him to cum bc u actually enjoyed it unlike the previous girls that sucked on him

[Anonymous]

If guys masturbate/have sex excessively, they might not cum.

[Seket]

It's normally replenished to full capacity every three days and gets thicker if left after two weeks.

[Drowningkingfish]

Yeah, we produce X amount of sperm in X amount of time depending on testosterone levels. So we do run out if we jerk off to much in a small frame of time.

[markscott]

It's normal. However, don't be surprised if he exaggerated how much cum he usually has.

[Asker]

Honestly I don’t think he’d lie to me about that

[Asker]

I always tell him he’s got a big dick even though he doesn’t it like super super big. Average but still pretty big for average

[markscott]

Asker: I didn't mean to say he would just lie to you, but being a male, there is a tendency to exaggerate about anything to do with his dick and balls. Just like you say he has a big dick, but it's actually big for average. Also, keep telling how big his dick is, and how much you like it. Guys love it when their girl tells them he has a big dick.

[Asker]

Lol yeah nah don’t worry I didn’t take any offense by the way

[Asker]

by the way don’t to be invasive but do you get morning wood? And would you like it if a girl sucked you off or fucked you in the morning?

[markscott]

Asker: Like most guys, I get morning wood. And of course I'd like a bj or a good fuck in the morning.

[Asker]

Would u like it if a girl woke u up with a blowjob or wakeup sex? Like wake u up from sleeping. Or is that kinda considered rape? He tells me all the time how bad he wants me. by the way we haven’t fucked yet because we both want to be ready and not regret anything. I’ve also given him permission to give me wake up sex but I don’t know as of right now if that’s a one way.

[markscott]

Asker: Like most guys, wake up sex would be great.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

It takes about 24 hours for my well to completely refill

[wankiam]

hours maybe but certainly not days... it is possible that blow jobs aren't really his thing though.. not all men want them more than anything else or ofcourse its also a distinct possibility he had a wank before seeing you

[Asker]

I mean I know he definitely prefers sex to blowjobs bc he tells me he wants to fuck me so bad (but not in like a hit it and quit it type of way) but we both want to wait a little bit to have sex because he told me he wants me to be ready and feel comfortable and doesn’t want to do anything to quick that either of us could regret. Also I’m a virgin so that obviously plays some kind of factor in all this

[wankiam]

ah yeah well thats all good and actually does suggest he has a lot of respect for you but its still true he may well have just been wanking before he came to see you

[Asker]

Lol thanks :)

[Asker]

He did tell me he jacked off the night before (probably late at night)

[Asker]

He also gets morning wood so maybe he did jack off in the morning but that never came up in conversation

[wankiam]

no worries... just so he doesn't worry that he some how offended you by not cumming hard you could put his mind at rest that its ok if he masturbates and he doesn't need to hide it if he does

[Asker]

Yeah lol I don’t think he was offend tho bc he didn’t seem like it and was actually really happy that I was the first girl ever to make him cum (like ever sexual or orally)

[Asker]

by the way I hope I’m not coming off as defensive lol I know you’re not being mean lol

[wankiam]

yeah maybe offended was the wrong word but you know what i mean hopefully

[Asker]

Yeah no ur fine lol

[BeMuse]

The average guy makes 1,500 sperm per second… How many do you need? About 20-300 million are released per ejaculation. So if you do the math 37 hours is 20 million for a typical full load. If you have back to back sex sessions it will look like mostly prostate fluid after the first load, but their will be sperm in the ejaculate. After a couple of hours though there should be noticeable sperm even if it isn’t a max payload.

[TadCurious]

You seem to be worried about this for some reason. The amount of semen a guy ejaculates depends on a few things. One of those is how long it's been since he last ejaculated. Another is how long he was super hard and aroused and receiving stimulation before he finally cums. If either he or his partner "edges" himself almost but not quite to the point of orgasm several times that's going to result in a bigger ejaculation. So if he masturbated the day before he wouldn't probably shoot as much cum as he would if he'd gone longer between ejaculations. And then overall health and hydration play a part as well. But you should believe him when he says you did a great job. As you get more experience with his orgasms you'll get to see him ejaculate different amounts. So don't worry about this.

[Dargil]

Day before? Maybe less.
Several days before. Hus tank should be full.

[Asker]

He also told me he jerks off about everyday or so. So I don’t know if that could have something to do with it

[Haelaeix123]

Totally normal, the more frequent a guy cums the less he will produce

[Robertcw]

Yes. This happens. If you want to see what he’s capable of, full stop, ask him to NoFap for a week or three and try again.

His load will be huge.

[Asker]

He’s done no fapping for a week but he said his balls hurt too much and needs to. We live far away from each other but if I lived closer to him I go suck him/jerk him off

[Robertcw]

That’s stupid. If he waits longer he will get over it and the feeling will begin to be pleasurable. It boosts testosterone.

[Asker]

I just feel bad bc we only see each other once a week

[Robertcw]

The only way to fix the problem is for him to stop orgasming and reload for a few weeks. If he can’t handle it, well...

[vald9inches]

it takes a while to build up if you want a really huge load

[Valnac]

It’s only about a teaspoonful every time.

[Anonymous]

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