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Have you ever questioned your sexuality?

"Have You Ever Questioned Or Second Guessed it?"

Why or why not?
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  • Never, and two girls have attempted to kiss me.

    It doesn't gross me out, a womans body is just too like mine lol.

    I already have the same parts and dont like our smell as women - its so distinct - I gag if too many women have used a public restroom I walk into.

    Not particularly arousing lol.

    Boys have always fascinated me, captivating actually. They are just big and kinda scary, and can overpower me - but are so gentle and kind.

    Something about that mysterious part of them we dont have, just makes me want them so much.

    you're definitely born gay or not.

    No one can just wake up and suddenly be straight or gay lol

    I think there's confusion in that people assume everyone is bi curious at some point, just for looking at the same sex naked or somethin - but honestly, it doesn't even cross your mind if you're straight.

    If you are actually gay, you obsess or try to reason about it - as explained by my LGBTQ friends.

    • Thanks so much for sharing and being open. 🌸

  • Yes growing up I've always been a little bit attracted to girls but didn't really know what or why that was till i was older. I have urges to kiss girls before and been sexually attracted to them. Everyone else has kind of picked up that im not 100% straight without me even confirming anything about it, especially my mum, she just kinda guessed.

    I love women's bodies, hair, perfume, style etc but all i can ever be is physically attracted to them. I make better, meaningful relationships with men and i like to feel like the women in the relationship with a big strong man to protect me, im can be sexually and emotionally attracted to guys a lot more than i can with girls so i choose to stay straight. One half is fare but people i care about will hate and disown me for being with a woman the other side doesn't want to waste a womens time, if she wants a serious relationship, i don't want her to have to deal with my sexual confusion

    • Im pretty sure im like 70% bi

    • @DJZest okay maybe i worded that wrongly i choose to date men only. Maybe if i was aware what a lesbian was when i was younger maybe i wouldn't feel so confused but i also know there's still a lot of prejudiced towards lesbians even more than gay men. Gay men are stereotyped as fun and fabulous and are starting to become accepted in pop culture and treated equally yet lesbians get stereotyped as uptight, men haters. My dad told me if i ever came out as gay he'd hate me as i wouldn't be able to give him grandchildren naturally and I'd bring embarrassment on the family, i didn't want to argue with him as i didn't want him to think i was gay so i just left it at that.

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  • No. My sexuality is what I find sexually attractive , not much to question. I'm attracted to feminine (and thus straight), I've seen some very attractive transsexuals but that doesn't change the fact that I'm attracted to femininity and so their was never a moment of "oh my god what am I", nor would it really matter because I really don't care to much about things like that. As the old internet adage goes, "If its pretty, fuck it.", though I'm not inclined towards masculine traits (body hair is disgusting, so is muscle, etc. etc.) and men, I really don't see any reason to "question" it even if I was, it is what it is.

    • Thanks for responding 🌺

    • Thanks for asking.

    • Might I ask why you asked the question?

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  • Not even once. I'm so straight I could give laser beams lessons.

    • Lol🌸

    • this made me chuckle lol :D

    • Even laser beams are slightly bent by gravity though... don’t mind me I’m just teasin’ 🙃

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  • Nope. It seems too straightforward in my case. I even wear pink shirts and sing Bananarama in the shower, but there's no aspect of me that finds men remotely desirable sexually. I can say that guys are attractive (I think Jude Law is a handsome devil), but that's more an expression of admiration (I don't want to sleep with Jude Law, I want to be Jude Law).

    • As for why not, I'm not sure. I just seem wired to be heterosexual. I don't have anything against homosexuality or bisexuality, but I simply lack any interest. Maybe there's a reproductive component there in my case? Like I wanted children. I don't know. However open-minded I try to be on the subject, I'm left with only a sexual interest in the opposite sex.

    • Thanks for sharing 💗🌸

  • Yes, I appreciate the female naked body, its really attractive. But I do not have urges or fantasize about women. I thought i was bi for a long while until i realized i am only a admirer :D

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  • Growing up I definitely had a small bi-curious phase and did some minor things.

    I'd consider myself straight though, even back then I knew it was only any sort of half-romantic attraction and never a sexual attraction. I'm interested in in girls, my little phase basically ended with me realizing I wasn't into guys anyways 😂

    • Thanks for being open and honest. 🌺

  • No!
    At the youngest age that i learned about sexual orientations and more, I was confident about who I was :)

    Another great question Ms Secret!

    • Yay!!! Thanks for responding 🌸💗

  • Not really no. I have always been attracted emotionally and physically to men. I find women are gorgeous and will complement them, but I've never had any emotional and sexual interest in them.

    Mind you, I have made out with a female before (I was slightly drunk), there was not emotional chemistry however and it felt more awkward than anything

    • Thanks for replying 💥

  • Question is the best way to know about anything that is mysterious, unknown or unresolved; but for me my sexuality is crystal clear and I know I am straight and can not be anything else.

    So, I never questioned, otherwise my mind will call me stupid :-)

    • Totally understandable 💗

  • I guess when I was teenager and had a crush on my best friend who's a girl, I thought she was the only girl I was attracted to and that's about it. So I thought I was completely straight still. But as the years went on, I realized that I'm really attracted to both men and women. However, I want kids with my partner and that's impossible to do with a woman so I've only dated men so far. But I'm still attracted to women and I've been with women "for fun" as well.

    • Thanks for sharing your story 🌺

  • No I always knew I was straight even if I got weird, random dreams of me with another girl. I just wanted to wake up and that short lol 🤦‍♀️

    • Lol🌸

    • Cut that short * haha

  • No, never had reason to. I can't even tell which guys are supposed to be attractive most of the time. Seems girls like a weird variety

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  • Yes. I thought for several years that I was entirely asexual. Then I learned that I'm actually demisexual.

    • Thanks for being open and honest 💗🌸

  • Nope. I know that I like feminine people, women or feminine sub bottoms, have always been that way and I don't expect I'll question it.

    • Thanks for sharing 🌸💗

    • You are welcome 🧡

  • Yes. I am bi. Women are very beautiful.

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  • Nope. Never questioned it because I don't care about what I am. I'm just attracted to whoever I'm attracted to, and leave it at that.

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  • No, never. I've seen thousands of naked women and things that always sexually arouse heterosexual males. Those things were either disgusting to me or I was indifferent.

    • Thanks for responding 💗🌸

    • How have you seen 1000s of naked girls?

    • @Paige90 not yet lol 🌸

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  • Yes. Before I knew that I was pregnant, I had intense sexual dreams involving me and women. They only lasted through my pregnancy. Women are beautiful but I'm not sexually attracted to them (except that one time that I was pregnant).

    • Thanks for being so open and honest 🌸💗

    • Of course!

    • Of course a woman could share a story or say something hot that I'd get turned on by. But ultimately if I were to pleasure myself from it, I'd be thinking of my guy.

  • Ha, lol. As a full on lesbo, yes. There was a point where I was confused why I liked girls instead of guys. The concept of homosexuality was nonexistent to me at the time, being like 12.

    • Thanks for the honesty and openness. 🌺🌺🌺

  • There have been times that I ask myself why I am how I am, but never if I'm wrong for what and who I like

  • Yep. For a while when I was younger, I was afraid of being gay. That was pretty dumb of me, as it's fine to be gay, and anyways I've found out through dabbling in porn that I am indeed straight.

    A few days ago, I took a survey on here that is meant to indicate asexuality with a high enough score. I got pretty close to that score, and now I'm wondering if maybe a lot of my in-person hangups are due to just not being as interested in sex as most people. (it's fun, but doesn't seem worthwhile without some intellectual connection too). That's been something I'm thinking about...

  • Nah, I'm only attracted to humans with the D. lol

  • Never. I recall being repulsed by males wondering how females could be attracted. there was a time girls weren't that attractive when younger, they were ok. This question/issue wasn't even a question it seemed at that time, at least for me.

    I once thought I was a monkeys uncle...

    • Thanks for the honesty 🌺

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