What was the size of the first penis that penetrated you? & Was it painful to be penetrated for the first time?

Also please answer: What's your body size? & Was it painful to be penetrated for the first time?
If you've never been penetrated by a penis, choose the last option.
By the way, this is in regards to consensual intercourse.
What was the size of the first penis that penetrated you? & Was it painful to be penetrated for the first time?
Small (4.5 inches or below) but it was painful
Vote A
Small (4.5 inches or below) & it wasn't painful
Vote B
Medium (between 4.6 inches & 6.5 inches) & it was painful
Vote C
Medium (between 4.6 inches & 6.5 inches) but it wasn't painful
Vote D
Large (larger than 6.5 inches) & it was painful
Vote E
Large (larger than 6.5 inches) but it wasn't painful
Vote F
I've never been penetrated by a penis
Vote G
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  • I'll speak on behalf of my girlfriend since I'm not a girl clearly! Here's what she told me:

    "I didn't know what to expect the first time around and it made me nervous when we were caught up in the moment which I felt is a normal reaction. My boyfriend is 7 inches with a girth that's comfortable in size. He was very patient with me, ensuring the experience the first time was slow and comforting which I appreciated. I expected it to hurt slightly but honestly, it felt more pleasurable than expected! After that, it felt like I could keep going from the sensation of penetration I was feeling. I could feel him tugging into me; it was a feeling I wanted to embrace for the longest time after waiting 4 years for the moment to happen. For when this moment happened, I'm happy to have a caring and thoughtful boyfriend to guide me during that intimate moment! For every woman out there, I hope they enjoy their first time as much as I did."

    That's what she wrote. Honestly, I was afraid that my size was going to be too much for my girlfriend which gave me anxiety but after that moment happened, everything turned out alright! If you're patient and adjust accordingly, it shouldn't hurt as much or if you're lucky, it may not hurt at all! This is why I don't envy porn stars who have a monster sized penis when you can see discomfort in the woman's expression on her face. This is why I always appreciated women here letting us guys know that size isn't everything, from all the insecure men out there who fear they may be too small to please their girl.

    If you find the right man who'll treat you with love, great care and respect, his size will make very little/no difference to the overall experience for the first time you lose your virginity during this intimate moment. Hope this helps with what you're looking for!

  • I am 8 inches. I have never been penatrated. I have penetrated girls but upon first penetrating it has never been painful because I do a lot of foreplay. They can get pretty obsessed and addicting to my size. But at certain angles I have hit the cervix and caused pain a couple of time in my life. But usually I would stop right away, switch things up, and then they would orgasm a different way. The girl i am currently dating like how big I am and wants me to hit her cervix and go very deep harder and fast. It is pretty surprising to me.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 7 inches. It was a bit painful, but not terribly because it didn't fit or go all the way in! At the end of the night, he got the head in and that was it. We were both virgins, and I remember he said something like "uhhh, so are we not virgins anymore?". We both love each other, and I had to stretch myself out a bit, but we were willing to work through it. It was a weird first time for both of us.

  • This girl is a virgin, but I hope the man I lose it too makes it at least special.

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  • I didn't measure it.

  • My first boyfriend had it below 4 in, and I didn’t feel pain.

    • Could you even feel it?

    • @Jooying Did you vote? @BigOleMatt Probably. I can feel my finger when I finger myself (and by the way, my foot size is the size of a child's, so my fingers - which are smaller than my feet - are probably also the size of a child's). If I can feel my finger when I finger myself, despite having fingers so small that they are the size of a child's, then surely most women can feel a small penis.

    • I did vote... I've never been penetrated. And I'm just asking... some guys have a very skinny dick.

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  • My first was between 6 or 7 inches and was not painful at all. He was very careful to go very slow every step of the way and checking continuously making sure I was ok with it.

    • Did he go down on you first

  • I would say Small and it was pretty good for me.. at least considering it was my first time.

    • Have you had bigger since then?

  • First consensual sex cock was 7.25 and it was not painful at all. Mind you though this was after years of childhood sex abuse by an adult male.

    • I am sure you felt very tight

  • I believe he was arpund 6 and it was painful the first time.

    • Did he go down on you first?

  • Yet to have that happen to me yet

  • 8.5 inches and thick. Hurt like heck, but I was so excited I didn't care. Now I want bigger.

    • Was it a black cock?

    • If you're in Cali you can try BIGGER! Go to Reddit and search VikinginSF That's mine! I love turning chics into SIZE QUEENS! hahaha

    • @VikingWarLord Get in the gym.

  • Me I like the medium sized & large too. Those really feel great.

    • How LARGE? Go to Reddit and search for VikinginSF That's me, tell me if you've had that size yet!

    • @VikingWarLord okay

    • Do you enjoy being eaten out before taking a large one

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  • My first penis I didn’t even know it was there. My second penis was the size of my forearm and I bled! I consider that losing my virginity

    • ouch, so why didn't you feel your first penis?

    • It was tiny. Like, it barely fit in my hand

    • Oh damm poor my guy

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  • 7.25 inches length and 3 in girth. Was not painful. He was very gentle.

  • I don't know the exact size but it wasn't extremely large or small. I found it to be uncomfortable, but not really too painful.

  • I think about 7.5 inches long. No, it didn't hurt.

    • Have you taken bigger since then?

    • Nope

    • thank you for replying

  • I don't know how big my boyfriend is, maybe 6-7 inches, and it was slightly painful, but very enjoyable.

    • all white penises are small by the way

    • @NatalieKeller95 not white, he's mexican lmaoo

    • @NatalieKeller95 I'm white Go to Reddit and search for VikinginSF Tell me if that's SMALL ! >;-)~~<

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  • Small the first time and it hurt a bit since I was inexperienced and he just kinda shoved it in hard without telling me at first. So I was sore the next couple of days, that kinda sucked. I'm 5'2" and weigh 56.245 kilograms.

  • Painful but pleasantly surprised by size. His body size is 5'10 140 lbs. but upper body strength is surprisingly low for his size and good health. So pain was the only unwelcome.

  • No idea. Never measured it.
    That was the furthest thing from my mind at that point in time.

  • I voted C

  • I , the Texaskid1, have never been penetrated by a penis. Nor do I have any plans or desires to be penetrated by any penis whatsoever. Not today , not tomorrow , not in this life or the next.

    So help me God.

  • Sorry did not have a ruler lmao

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