How common was sexual experimentation at your high school?

I don’t think most people are having sex or dating a lot in high school, but people usually seem surprised when I say I’ve never done anything, including kissing, or had a boyfriend. I don’t think it’s that uncommon.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It was absolutely the norm when I was in high school.

    It wasn't "sexual experimentation" so much as... Everyone having sex with someone.

    I guess I can't know whether or not your situation is uncommon or not. I really have no idea what's going on in high schools these days.

    But I hope you're right. I hope that your situation isn't uncommon.

    There's a lot to be said in favor of holding off until you find someone who actually means something to you. Don't even get me started 😉

  • I don't think either one is weird.

    I was having sex in high school, and I knew plenty of other people that did, as well. I also know plenty of people that graduated as virgins. It's all perfectly normal.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Kids would make out in the hallway, and talk about what their body counts were. There was an incident where a girl gave someone a blowjob behind the school. A lot of people saw it.

    Kids talked about it but I don't know how many people were actually doing it.

    • @Just_a_human did u see it?

    • @jason222 No, I didn't see it. Kids started getting out of their seats and going to the windows. I didn't.

  • It was very common at my school. The teachers even had to start patrolling classes after school because there were too many cases of students having sex, giving head or playing with each other in empty classes or the back.

  • Only two of my friends were even remotely sexual cause all my friends were conservative and most of them were religious.

  • Pretty common among my friends, but there were plenty of people of both sexes who didn’t do anything.

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  • I'm sure that there were some students having sex in my high school but it was rarely talked about publicly.

  • Everyone is too loaded up with homework and organizations to actually go wild for kinky stuffs.

  • When I was in high school, it was relatively common.

  • Nah not really much.. just holding hands and a little kissing
    The teachers would usually break it up... so yeah 🙄

  • Extremely common to be honest. Probably at least 50%, if not somewhat higher I knew were active.

  • I went to a private christian school so the furthest anyone "sexually experimented" was giving blowjobs beneath the stair case because apparently it's still "saving yourself till marriage"

  • a lot of people do it in highschool

  • Your not alone. I don’t do any of these things. In fact, not really thinking about guys right now.. I’m too busy with reading on things. The only exemption is this guy that caught my eye a few months ago. No, it’s not uncommon.

    • @straightshooger why dont u do it?

  • Fairly common. Sex and oral were rare but skin to skin and wet intimacy were common.

  • It is very common.

    • @Stefanie4U you do it?

  • Everyday

  • About 70%

  • varies greatly! to each their own!!! woot!

  • When I went to high school ( about 10 years ago.. i know I'm old ) nobody was actually having sex. With our phones and social media I can see how things might've changed but just keep in mind that high school is really just kindergarten before life happens. People change you have no idea.

  • In high school girls were already experimenting with their sexuality. Some more than others. Those were the ones you took parking.

  • Very common.

  • Go to Queendom. com and look at poll for age of virginity loss. You will see that the vast majority of girls had sex before they turned 18. The poll has thousands of responses so it has a relative accuracy to it. Most people I know had sex in high school.

  • Iv only got kissing and had 2 girlfriend in my liftime so in my school it is low case of the way it is ran

  • Honestly you are a young lady so if you haven't done anything yet is a good thing it means a lot more than you think because nowadays there's young ladies getting pregnant and wishing they waited because of the money and time you have to give that child... meaning they wanted a little more time to be young and beautiful and free but they can't get time back after throwing it away by doing something stupid when they are not ready for the outcome

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