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Why do guys make me stop sucking them when they cum?

Why do guys always make me stop sucking them when they cum? When someone is giving me oral and I cum it’s intense, but if they keep going I can usually cum again. I try doing this to guys and they actually pull me off them and of course they are stronger than me. What does it feel like? What would happen if I tied them down and kept going? Would they cum again? Would anyone let a girl do this? Why or why not?
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  • Pardon the clinical sound. I'm not an expert but I can observe and think things through. The penis has 2 regions with completely different needs and timing.
    The head receives stimulation for arousal. In particular, it is the ridge (corona) and the valley behind it (sulcus) that respond to bobbing with pursed lips combined with sucking. When arousal is high, stimulation is complete and the area becomes very sensitive. Too much contact will deter orgasm. If anything, do it less when orgasm is approaching.
    The shaft is the opposite. Early on, it isn't responsive. But when it is fully hard, the half-round "vein" bulges out on the underside. This is the direct pipeline to the prostate and vigorous stroking and partly pressing on it sends pressure waves to it inducing ejaculation. So early on, the head wants attention. Later on, the shaft does and the head needs less. When ejaculation starts, stop all mouth motion and don't resume it. But continue to suck. Slow down stroking but keep going in til the squirts stop. Continue to suck with no motion until he unplug.
    If you want him to cum again, give him refractory time and start over.
    The tie-down and keep going would be an irritation.

  • Most guys get hyper-sensitive after an orgasm. Almost to the point where continued stimulation is more painful, than pleasureable.

    It's simply that their nerves are dialed up to 11, so they are on overload. If you tied him down, and kept going, it would almost hurt, in a way. Some guys can do it, and some can't, but that's generally the reason.

    Most women don't have a refractory period, which is why they can keep going. Most men do, however.

    • So if I kept going and it hurt but I didn’t slow down and they were tied up would it eventually feel good again

    • Eventually, yes. Even with continued stimulation, they would eventually recover. Depending on the guy, though, that time period would literally be agonizing torture, so I wouldn't recommend it, without his permission.

    • It’s my fantasy. I just need a consenting partner.

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  • Most men have a refractory period in which they can't cum for a certain period of time until they reload their sperm. Women don't have this, because they don't release any sperm during orgasm.
    Also, it's possible his dick gets super sensitive after cumming, which would make it uncomfortable to continue to be stimulated there.

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  • For a couple of reasons. One is that multiorgasmic males are quite rare. One a man comes, he's literally shot his wad and the reload time, or refractory period, is measured in minutes as the absolute minimum to as much as a day. His genitals become hyper sensitive. The combination of those two things are why they require you to stop.

  • Found my way to another question...😁

    Well a lot of guys have their glands get hypersensitive when they cum. More so if they are uncut. Apparently it’s sensitive to the point of pain.

    Personally, i enjoy when a woman keeps going while I cum. Typically if they keep going while I cum I can stay 100% out of the refractory period and just keep going. I’ve been able to cum a few times in the past without stopping, but it requires constant stimulation.

  • The tip feels really sensitive after cumming so continuing to suck would feel like over stimulation.

  • We Need Rest for 8-10 Minutes

    • What if you didn’t let you rest? What if I tied you down and kept sucking or riding you or jerking you off? Would it hurt? Would you cum again?

    • Ouch ! You Naughty, Never do that, Our body and Mind Needs a break for at least 8-10 Minutes, Otherwise it Will hurt too Much especially if you keep on teasing the dick after ejaculation😭😭😭

    • I wouldn’t be teasing hun I would keep going full speed and pressure.

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  • I know why because it gets really senstive but on my part i would LOVE her to keep going just because i can see that pain turn into pleasure

  • I actually want the girl to keep sucking when I cum, and grip my wrists to keep me powerless.

  • It can feel uncomfortable but that passes pretty fast. Then it just doesn’t feel much and even if you try to keep going it just feels numb and the erection fades. It might feel good or bad being gently sucked.

    The refractory period mentioned below is
    NOT a time between orgasms. It’s a time before he can get another erection. Most men cannot keep a post ejaculation erection or get one again for a period of time... without drugs.

  • *Reads through the comments after finding the question through my feed*

    (I hope I end up with a woman like that...)

    • Like me? Why?

    • I think I might be a little masochistic...😅 Something about the idea of a woman tying/holding me down and having at me even when it starts to hurt on my end actually seems kind of nice...

  • Please, for the love of everything holy, don't stop being who you are. That's a great quality in a woman. We never want to push you off but it's almost a primal reaction. I wish it wasn't that way. It fogs the mind due to it's intensity. I wouldn't mind getting tied up a forced but would never tell my friends with benefits that. I feel like that's a dangerous move.

  • because after ejaculation there's this weird sensation, its hard to explain but its not pleasurable so now you know

  • Agreed. Plus, most men can’t ha e multiple orgasms like we can so it would be difficult for them. Give him a recovery time.

  • They are very sensitive after cuming.

    • So are girls but if we work through it it’s great.

    • They don't like it. But i know few that enjoy it. It's a preference🤷‍♀️

    • Has a guy ever let you do it until he cums again?

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  • its very uncomftorable, its like a tickeling sensation times 100.

  • I would let a girl try, but guys are biologically built to need a reset, unlike a female orgasm

    • What if you didn’t get one? What if I tied you down and kept sucking or riding you or jerking you off? Would it hurt? Would you cum again?

    • It takes a bit of work but yeah I would cum again, I would let you try, done it once with a girl and it was super intense the second time, then tried it the next time with her with me standing and felt like my head exploded, so just tie me down to try lol

    • Most guys physically pull me off them. I’d have to keep going even if you begged.

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  • More than 90% of guys can't cum again moments after cumming like female are able to.
    As for why you've been stopped, probably over stimulation or not the "right" stimulation at the time.
    Never had a girl who'd let me cum in her mouth, so I can't answer the rest.

    • Maybe not moments after but I’d want to keep sucking and make him cum again even if he begged me to stop. Girls like that are dumb that’s the whole fun of it. Nothing turns me in more than feel a hard cock throb in my mouth and hear him breath heavy and start to moan as he explodes.

  • He did his job.

  • if you were sucking on my whole huge cock i would let you suck on it as much as you wanted for as many hours as you wanted!! i would let you swallow as much cum as you wanted!!!😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤

  • When we are done cumming we don't feel anything. Except After 10-15 seconds we climax.

  • It gets overly sensitive.

  • just because you can, doesn't mean someone else can

    stop stereotyping

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