POLL: Opinion? Sex on the first date... DEFINITELY! ... or NO WAY?
laurieluvsitMaster
What's your opinion? ... Be honest!
A. NO WAY! Sex after marriage ONLY!
Vote A
B. No chance with me, it would only be after a long courtship and engagement or a strong relationship commitment first
Vote B
C. Not on the first date but after I got to know them better after a few dates I would consider it
Vote C
D. No, I would use the first date to size them up, then maybe on the 2nd or 3rd date I would consider it
Vote D
E. If I liked them and our chemistry was mixing well, I don't see why not. I think that would be hot actually!
Vote E
F. I mean if the date is going well and the circumstances are just right, sometimes it just happens!
Vote F
G. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "First Date Sex" survey
Vote G
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Finchie40Master
+1 y
Yes , i would and I have , sometimes the chemistry between 2 people is Amazing, you are completly into each other , my thing is you should know yourself , you should know if someone is really into you , shit I have gone to parties and met a girl that we looked at each other and just knew we wanted each other just by eye contact then start having conversation getting to know 1 another then , end up making out with her then ending the night having sex , i still call the girl the Next day and plan another date , i dont have sex with Girls i dont want to see anymore , not who I am , I will bring her flowers the Next day to let her know i like you and would love to see you more. Sar to say a lot of Girls were thrown off by this cuz they instantly think all men are Players, which is not me at all , if i am having sex with u it means i really like u , for me to even get an erection i have to really like a girl more then just her looks , just how i am
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Finchie40
+1 y
Thanks for MHO sweetie
laurieluvsit
+1 y
You're welcome, thank you for a great opinion :)
Finchie40
+1 y
Xoxoxoxox
normaliceMaster
+1 y
I usually have sex with someone before I ever date them. Not because I'm some master player or whatever - it's just that i tend to attract introverts like myself, and hanging out as friends tends to lead to sex quite suddenly, before the topic of dating is ever brought up.
But even so, I would also date a girl I hooked up with randomly, if there was mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts. In fact, if we hook up right away, it is actually more indicative that we are sexually compatible.
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HomoFugeExplorer
+1 y
It depends upon the circumstances. If you knew each other for a very long time and then decided to go on a date I think it wouldn't be a big deal. If it's with a stranger, I think there is the likelihood that it could be interpreted as a causal ONS or hookup. That's not a problem if that's what a person is looking for but if someone is looking for something serious then it might not be a good idea.
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simplyaramdomgirlXper 7
+1 y
Sex is something very intimate for me and I don't think I'd be willing to share it with just some stranger. For me it's a no on the first date. We definitely have two have been together for more than a couple of weeks. So for me it's letter B or even A. I guess I'm just conservative that way.
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Bribree18Xper 7
+1 y
Why not? If the chemistry is going well then yeah. I think some people still have the mindset that women aren’t sexual creatures but that just isn’t true. Embrace your sexual sides y’all!! ♥️
This depends on what you are looking for. If it's just a hookup, sure. I will assume it's a relationship, so, I definitely don't have sex with someone early on if I plan that. In my opinion it just destroys everything if you have sex too early.. I've made bad experiences like that before.
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itzasekret17Xper 3
+1 y
If things seem to be going well and the attraction is mutual? I’d do it. I’m not ashamed to admit that 😂
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Daniela1982Master
+1 y
You know nothing about this person or what he may be carrying in the way of a STD. Only a dumb ass has sex with someone on the first date. You could be signing your death warrant if they have AIDS or worse.
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DizzykelliXper 3
+1 y
Great question/poll chic. I would like to think I'd wait until after a few dates but on a date night out who knows lol xx
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katiesmuffMaster
+1 y
I spent quite a few years using the attitude of F
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PondyPandMaster
+1 y
Depends on the date and what I want from a potential relationship.
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MrNamelessGuru
+1 y
I'm definitely open to it.. But I will go on dates with people I see in the long term relationship. I don't go in thinking I'm going to get laid or forcing out sexual stuff/comments, and I wouldn't try to touch her becuse I don't want to risk her feeling uncomfortable. It's only if she started throwing sexual jokes at me and threw herself at me, and if I was feeling it, I wouldn't mind. But I dunno if I'd do that with someone I just met vs friend I've known for a while
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MissDawn7961Guru
+1 y
save it for the honeymoon
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SuperSWCXper 6
+1 y
Generally not, unless I don't care about having a relationship and just want sex. If I am interested, I usually wait for about 6 months to make sure and then do it
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Lliam
+1 y
What an interestingly nuanced answer, SuperSWC. I can't remember ever hearing it expressed. It actually makes sense even though it is counter-intuitive. Guys would have difficulty understanding. I mean, if you slept with a guy right away it would be natural for him to think you really liked him. Alternatively, if you didn't want to sleep with him, it would be easy for him to think you weren't attracted to him in "that way". I wonder how you would communicate your feelings/intentions with guy #2.
SuperSWC
+1 y
@Lliam The best way i can explain is if you watch Suits there is an episode after Rachel and Mike hook up and then they are about to go all out, and they stop, saying they want to do things right.
Kazzza
+1 y
I agree with this too
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Lliam
+1 y
The woman I wound up marrying did this. I didn't marry her because she did, but I respected her point of view. I wouldn't have done it if I hadn't been at a point in my life where I was interested in finding a stable life partner. So I agreed. She believed that to engage in sex immediately caused infatuation that resulted from hormones. That infatuation blinds people to everything else. But it only lasts for a few months, after which people finally begin to see each other for who they truly are. But by then they are already invested and somewhat addicted. She felt it best to get to truly know each other first. We wound up holding of on sex for three months. It wasn' t easy. :-)
Kazzza
+1 y
That’s exactly right and not all guys but most guys once you have sex with them you turn it into only sex
Lliam
+1 y
@Kazzza, that's what I did when I was young and wanted nothing to do with marriage. I do have to say that I will always to grateful to the girls I partnered with, except for one who turned out to be a psycho. :-)
Guardian45
+1 y
Well-said!
esmeralda21Xper 1
+1 y
I fuck on the first date to see if his any good with his dick
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e-Ghost
+1 y
Nice.
vald9inches
+1 y
Sex is 50% of a relationship so if has a small dick and doesn’t know how to use it then yea it very important to know that as early as possible
EdenT123Xper 5
+1 y
No way. It must be more interesting, so After few dates or After marriage
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lightbulb27Master
+1 y
Sounds like a great idea, it's a terrible idea due to the many risks. It's a no eventhough the brain (both of them) may say yes.
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bekalenXper 6
+1 y
I've had sex on first dates. I was just desperate and horny and needed to get off. I couldn't help it. Not the best choice.
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Guardian45
+1 y
But nothing wrong with it, if that was your choice.
bekalen
+1 y
@Guardian45 it was my choice and It only paid off a couple times with the sex being good. Most were not that impressive
MichelleshalleyXper 5
+1 y
Sort of depends... if I think I might want a long relationship with him I'd try to be a good girl and resist him until I give in. If I already decided I don't want him but he's ridiculously hot then I would
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Guardian45
+1 y
Very common thinking!
Michelleshalley
+1 y
@Guardian45 thanks lol
lindseycreampieXper 2
+1 y
yes i fuck on the first date
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Guardian45
+1 y
Why?
lindseycreampie
+1 y
@Guardian45 if a date goes well you go on another than start hanging out what if at that point your not sexually compatible? its the most imprortwnt thing in reltionships
Bond94
+1 y
Please date me ;)
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Guardian45
+1 y
True. Well-said!
Kenzie971
1 y
@lindseycreampie ever had sex with a girl before?
Onepiece_fan2000Xper 7
+1 y
It really depends on how the relationship
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BCA6010Master
+1 y
Absolutely not on the first date.
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ElliegirlGuru
+1 y
I fall somewhere between B and C. More C for considering giving a blowjob and more B for vaginal sex.
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Yammy
+1 y
How often do you do something sexual on the first date?
Elliegirl
+1 y
@Yammy Never. I wouldn’t do more than kiss on a first date.
Yammy
+1 y
Oh okay, I misunderstood
Jean-Marie_CélineMaster
+1 y
Won't do it. And not even the second, third, fourth, fifth... it will just ruin everything, I know that from experience.
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