Does sex feel better than masturbation/toys?

[Anonymous]

[Sangita93]

Is this a trick question – for girls or guys? My first reaction is - masturbation is one of the many forms of sex, and same for the toys. It is, for many people, like asking “what do you like better: an apple or an apple or an apple?
I just asked it to my friend and her response was - The first time I had sex I remember thinking that I liked masturbating better. The second time I had sex I changed my mind, and after that I have never thought of other things, sex with him is much more pleasant than anything. I believe that the orgasm you have from sex is significantly larger than the ones you get from masturbating, - much more dopamine is released. It is also intimate. You have someone to kiss and cuddle with before and after. Also, while vaginas are less dexterous than your hand, their texture and feel is, I think, much nicer. I would almost always favor even mediocre sex over masturbation, and truly excellent sex is the most pleasurable thing I have experienced in my life. Sex is orders of magnitude better than masturbation 1:100000 or add any number of zeros behind it. I have enjoyed only vaginal sex, and that is after our marriage only. I can tell you that the inside of a vagina feels way better than your hand or toy ever will. An orgasm from masturbation for men is almost entirely felt in his penis and closely surrounding areas only. An orgasm from sex is whole-body experience.
There is a certain thrill that a woman gets and men get from the fact that she has totally surrendered her body to her man, and you each complement each other's feminity and masculinity in a very private way that no one else on Earth can match just now. Sex affirms your identity as a man and shows that there is a woman out there who thinks you are good enough to see her at one of her most vulnerable times. It smells great, too.
For guys too, the feelings of PIV sex and masturbation with or without toy are never identical even if you do them right, with masturbation you do not have another live, fully grown woman moaning very unladylike things at you and pressing her naked body and lady parts against your body. You can not feel her getting wet and her vaginal lips opening up to accept your cock or her pubic hair brushing against your body. Neither can you get the emotional charge out of knowing you are giving her the most pleasure she is apt to have experienced in her life.
Sex is more than just the carnal act of intercourse. You probably have some memory of an activity, like a great meal or something, that happened under special circumstances and you've got fond memories of it, and while you've tried to recreate it under different circumstances, it's just not the same? That is the closest way I can think of describing the difference between sex with another person and masturbation. It may feels great, but it is not the same.
Part of the difference is that you are not completely in control. When someone else is involved in this, it is not completely up to you, and sometimes the orgasm can feel much more intense because someone did not know that it was getting too intense and did not hold back, or slows down and lengthens the process, which makes it all the better after anticipating for a while. Having sex with another person may be exciting. You can feel the warmth of their body, their excitement, their attraction to you, and vice versa. It may be rewarding to give someone else enough pleasure that they spasm and scream, and vice versa. It may be a whole different experience and really difficult to describe to someone who hasn't had it, since there are so many things involved. I'm having a hard time putting feelings into words as it is.
I did not have sex until our marriage, simply because of family and social traditions. Now I enjoy it tremendously, it is closeness and bonding with my man that I need more. The emotional and relational aspects of sex are incredible, and they magnify the physical making it seem far better.

[bekalen]

Dick is better than a toy

[Secret6620]

For me it does. 😊👍

[BrendaMay]

Sex is the best.

[LuWe22]

Way better