Have You Ever Experimented With The Same Sex?

Question

Have You Ever Fantasized About Sleeping With Someone Of The Same Sex?

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Nobody is going to believe this one, but I can get sworn testimony. Years ago - my girlfriend and I have been living together for just over eleven years and now have three children - my girlfriend went through this thing where she thought watching gay sex was kind of hot. I count myself straight, but I kind of played along and we would watch some gay porn or something.

Then at a Christmas party, a gay co-worker of her's happened to mention that he thought I was kind of cute. girlfriend got an idea and asked if co-worker and I would have sex so she could watch. He loved the idea, but only if sometimes he could just have sex with me without girlfriend watching.

They thought it was a brilliant idea and came to me. I was not exactly enthralled at first, but after several weeks, and I mean weeks, of back and forth and nagging and pleading and girlfriend offering me all sorts of sex, I agreed, and for the next seven months - !!! - I was in a gay relationship (at the same time still having sex with my girlfriend.)

To my surprise, it took getting used to but I actually started to enjoy it. I was both top and bottom - and even liked being the bottom. We actually got sort of intimate, especially one week when my girlfriend went out of town on business and her co-worker stayed with me. It wasn't like we had sex every day or anything - we both had to work, we had other things going on - but we did spend time together. We got along great and the sex was actually pretty good - both when we had it in front of my girlfriend (which actually really turned me on) and when it was just the two of us. (Although I will be honest and say that my preference is still much with the ladies.)

It actually ended on a somewhat sour note. It became fairly obvious that the guy was getting pretty involved with me and we decided to end it. He took it pretty hard and it got a bit uncomfortable. My girlfriend felt especially bad and tried to set him up with another guy, but nothing really worked. Eventually he got another job and we lost touch.

Suffice to say I would not want to repeat the experience, but there were things about it that were good. Sexually, a guy has a good sense of what makes a guy feel good in a way that girls might not always know. It was different sex, but it was good sex in its way. Also, we found we could talk about things - sports, sex, etc. - and I actually remember laying in bed with him one afternoon, we were both naked, and yes, cuddling, and just having a great conversation.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Accepted Answer

No but I really want to. I can't say I'm particularly attracted to men, but I do fantasise about giving oral or even getting fucked. I'd love to do it with a female fuck buddy present who is open minded to that sort of thing. Everything's hotter with a hot chick involved lol, plus she might give the extra push to go for it, especially if she gets turned on watching. Where can I find such people? lol, I'm thinking there might be couples out there who wanna bring in a third for MMF bisexual play, but I don't know where to begin finding them

Claireluvskaren · Accepted Answer

It has been a few years, but I have been with many women, to many to count. Always had fun, senior year in HS through college, and a few years after school, I always had a boyfriend but girls on the side made for some extra fun. I will never be ashamed of my past. My husband has been with a few men too, not as many Bi experience as I had, but enough to smile at the memories.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Yess Im always fantasizing about kissing @PrincessGrail 💋💋💋

St0rm · Answer

No i haven't experimented with women. I just have sex with them.

SSam23 · Answer

No and I would never

CurvyPryde32 · Answer

Yes I often fantasize about being with other women.. this of course is in between the nights that I actually spend with other women.

StingRayxoxo · Answer

Yes, in college.

Boppy · Answer

Nah, I've considered it. A mutual pleasure thing (like giving back massages to each other) may be nice but I'm not attracted to the male form at all.

To be fair, I haven't 'experimented' with women yet, either.

tonymitchell · Answer

when I was young, yes.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Fulfilled the fantasy. :) I retired those "experiments" already.

JackSmy · Answer

Not with the same sex, but a really delightful lady that showed me some things that are just AMAZING, switching roles, and letting her 'love' me, like never before!

21browngirl · Answer

I have kissed a girl once.. she was my friend and we were jus playing games.. but nothing happened.. for me. i guess.. not my part of hot

Alicia257 · Answer

Yes with my best friend. It was very fun :)

markscott · Answer

Never have, never will.

Pieter1984 · Answer

No. I have tought about it trying it once, but I'd feel way too uncomfortable actually doing it. Doing it with a male I don't love or feel attracted to would feel super awkward.

curiousgurrl · Answer

No :( I want to experiment with a girl so bad

PrincessGrail · Answer

A couple times. Do you count masturbating with another girl but not making out with her as experimenting?

Elliegirl · Answer

Once in college.

DevikaButts95 · Answer

Sitting on my girl's face rn. Lmao.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, and never will.

Just_someone23 · Answer

Oh God yes. Part of me wants to and the other part don't. Have mixed feelings.

Bluebot · Answer

No never, its a huge turndown for me and imagining myself in a position like that makes me sick even. BUT, I have no issues with others going gay/bi to each their own. Just nothing for me personally.