I use strap on with my wife. How common is this?

I love using my strap on with my wife! It is so much better than my penis was and gives her better orgasms! I haven’t used my penis for sex for over 8 years now and haven’t looked back. We love it so much and I’m really curious if this is something anyone else does?
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  • Not trying to hate here, but... I would think that if you take away a natural penis, wouldn't most women rather have sex with a woman with a strapon vs. a man with a strapon? Visually and sexually speaking, the main plus of being with a man vs. with a woman sexually would be having sex with a natural penis, but if you take that away, a woman is much more visually and sexually attractive. To me at least. I think if you take away penises from a man, they are almost obsolete.

    • So a man’s worth is based upon his penis? I don’t think so. My wife is not into women. Using a penis can make a man distracted and selfish. Using the strap on allows me to focus completely on her pleasure and my love for her. What is so much better about a natural penis? A toy can be anything you want it to be and a penis is always the same. Granted you have to spend the money and buy quality. We love each other and that is what really counts. She knows also that I get immense pleasure out of pleasing her. I guess if you were into women and loved your partner it would be no different.

    • No it's not, like i specifically mentioned, I am talking about visually and sexually. A woman is obviously known worldwide as the fairer sex and is visually more attractive, even gay men say this. So, once again, strictly visually and sexually speaking, the one advantage a man had over a woman was a natural penis. But once you take that away, It's hard to see why someone would choose to sexually be with a man over a woman. Personally, i go both ways, but if you tell me that the man will have a strapon, i don't see why i would choose to sexually be with him, when i can get the same thing with a woman and so much more.

    • I understand. You find women more attractive and that makes sense. My wife does not. But what exactly is better about a natural penis? So many lesbians also have no desire for one. We’ve been so happy with our choice and never looked back. It is works perfect for her.

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  • A lady I work with uses extensions/sheaths with her husband, and they both like it. I don't know if they strap on or not.

    • Thanks for the reply!

    • Sure thing.

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  • I used an extension before, added a few inches and a bit more girth. I quite liked it made me feel huge... I think it was a bit much for her. I do know people who do pegging as well.

    • Thanks for your reply! My strap on is a good size for her. She loves it! It makes me feel very sexy with her

  • That kinda defeats half of the reason for having sex.

    • Well, we both love it

    • Whatever gets you through the night. If that's what satisfies both of you, have at it.

    • We do assuredly! You should try it! I think you’ll be surprised at how much better it is.

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  • How sad. What a ridiculous intimate relationship. 🤦🏼‍♀️!

    • I find it very intimate

    • Nobody is arguing that. It’s the ridiculous part. What a sorry ass life RIP to you little dude down there lol 😂 he must suck that bad.. you needed to have found a better wife perhaps. Anyway we all get what we deserve.

    • It is much better for her to be happy than for me to use my penis. She was happy using it but happier with the strap on. The penis is so unimportant and unnecessary. I would think you as a woman could understand. It is probably not normal but it is so much better.

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  • Fetish alert!

    • More like a lifestyle...

  • I would love to use a strap on a guy! :)

    • Would you like if he used it on you?

    • Let's go

    • No I’d want his wiener. XD. Where can I find more men into it! Hahaha

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  • I've seen it all now...

    • This is a new idea for you? You should try it!

    • I don't think so...

  • So, no children then?

    • Already have children

  • I usually hear more about her using one on him.

    • I also hear this, I would think it were more popular based upon how great it is for us. Hence my curiosity in asking this question. Would you ever consider trying this?

  • I'm pretty shore most/alot of men don't use that since they already got a Natural one between there legs.

    • I am curious.

    • It is better than the natural one cleaner and can be the perfect shape for her. Naturally we just get what we’re born with. It is much better for us. Would you try it if your man wanted it?

    • Specially if you aren’t born with much.

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  • Did she say why she prefers a strap on rather then you?

    • It is perfect size for her, no mess from cum, always hard and ready. She was surprised at first but she loves it! I’ve asked her if she wants my penis and always she says no. It is so much better for both of us.

    • message me bro I have good idea for you.

  • My fiancée fucks my ass often with her strapon

    • But do you use one on her?

    • I rarely fuck her I am the sub

    • I understand, do you enjoy it?

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  • And you climax from this process?

    • I get enough pleasure getting her off. My climax is unnecessary

  • I’m with ya man.

    • I am not alone then. Do you like it better like me?

    • It’s enjoyable

    • True words

  • It’s mostly for girl with girl

    • It’s good for them and good for me as well. It’s designed well. Have you ever had a guy use one on you? Would you try it?

    • I only had girl used it on me

  • That sounds pretty fucked up. But then most posts here are fucking stupid anyway.

    • It is something I am curious about.

  • It's not common at all, but it sure sounds like good fun.

    • It truly is! Thanks for sharing!

    • You're welcome. Sorry you got such rude replies on this question, but that's just GAG. I wish there was a better site to go to.

    • I expected some of course! No worries, some people can’t accept anything different than themselves.

  • Yeah what time it's the only way I can satisfy her

    • They are so much better

    • Well not so much for me but definitely for her

    • It is better for her to be satisfied though? I love making her feel so good.

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  • WTF? Boy? Are you ok?

    • Never been better

  • Cool story bro

    • It is true

    • Maybe true but you are pathetic

    • How am I pathetic when she gets so much pleasure? We both love our sex life