Did you lose your virginity to someone special?

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If so, are you still together now?

Mollynotgemma · Accepted Answer

Nope! Regret it as it’s not really that big of a deal! Had to get it out of the way to then be able to have sex with the guy I wanted too! The biggest regret most of us will have! Why are people so quick to want to lose their virginity! It’s the unknown! And ultimately... you can have sex hundreds of time and it still be rubbish with another experienced person! The best sex is the pure animal attraction sex.
Bad sex and the fear of not knowing what to do needs to be taught to all kids more than how to protect themselves!
Sex is something you can’t teach. It’s a feeling and when in the moment you just go with the flow!
Some people are good and those people are shot with someone else!
When you get older sex becomes something a couple do because they feel they have too and want a connection!
After the first time it’s never the same again!

Secret6620 · Accepted Answer

My best friend. So yes for me. We were never together. He wanted to after taking my virginity but we were only friends and I was young and curious. 🤓♥️

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Accepted Answer

Yes I did, unfortunately she didn't lose hers to me.
I truly loved her, but my lack of experience, care, knowledge, and perspective ruined what would have been the perfect marriage partner.

I didn't understand what my role was as a man and a lover. I know now.
She taught me so many things, I still love her for all the experiences she gave me, and for all that she taught me about myself.

crazy8000 · Accepted Answer

Doesn't think sex is that special, only something we do.

To many make as stupid fuss about it just like Americans with the prom shall be the best thing of our life like it doesn't get better, an other is wedding's that it is the best thing that will happen for the rest of the life (most common amongst females with idealist and Cinderella complex personality).

XRabbitHeartX · Answer

No and I regret it. It was never the way I wanted. I felt pressured and the guy turned out to be a asshole. Learnt some good lessons that I will carry through my life now.

SnowDrake · Answer

Yes my boyfriend at the time, we're not together anymore.

GreenPenguin · Answer

I lost my virginity 10 years ago to my girlfriend. Today I'm married with the same girl, and we have 2 beautiful children together. So I guess the answers to both your questions are 'yes'. (:

brandonk · Answer

No and no. Definitely a regret if mine but. If you're interested in the other person and you feel a strong connection to them. If you feel up to it then by all means.

Claireluvskaren · Answer

No, lost it on St Patrick's Day, he was drunk I was buzzed, he was super cute, he didn't last very long, and I remember thinking, wow that's it, so happy my next partner was a better guy.

LeahBaby · Answer

Nope, I lost it on a park bench on my 13th birthday with a boy from camp

septemberangel118 · Answer

Yes but we aren't together anymore

PondyPand · Answer

Lost to an ex boyfriend.

Wildflowerr · Answer

yes, and yes.

HOAAH · Answer

I gave myself to my husband and I am still with him. I have no regrets.

mooky06 · Answer

At the time it felt right. He wasn’t pressuring me and he was special to me. I wished i had kept my virginity for a little more longer though. No i’m not with him anymore 😂