When you have a crush, what do you typically fantasize about?

When you have a crush, what do you typically fantasize about?
I've never had a crush
Vote A
I've had a crush but I don't fantasize about being either sexual or romantic with them
Vote B
I typically only fantasize about being sexual with my crush. I typically don't fantasize about romance with my crush
Vote C
I typically fantasize about being sexual with my crush, more than I fantasize about romance
Vote D
I typically fantasize equally about romance & sexual relations with my crush
Vote E
I typically fantasize about romance with my crush, more than I fantasize about sexual relations
Vote F
I only fantasize about romance with my crush, not sexual relations
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • For me it began with fantasizing about being romantic and intimate. Like deep hugs, cuddling in bed, laughing together, bathing at the beach like a mature couple. Later I began thinking about what it would be like sexually. Making out, seducing, getting naked. Later came standard sexual activity or vanilla sex. And finally ended with hardcore stuff I see in porn. I think that's a normal process. Progressing over time.

  • I voted E. I had a crush couple years ago. She was taller than me, red-hair, and chubby. She was one of the PETA workers to help animals. Always on the corner of a street. I wanted to talk but couldn't, a Introvert here. I daydreamed me and her on dates. Kissing her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • /crush is for grade school xD
    Five million years ago when I used to get crushes it was never sexual because I didn't even know about sex... it was just i liked someone and imagined maybe kissing. That's all.. oh and talking on the phone. lol dreaming he would call me ha! :D!

  • It's hardly even romance, what i fantasize about. It's cooking together, hearing him sing in the shower when i'm in the next room, maybe holding hands while walking. Just spending time together, really.

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  • I typically fantasize about doing stuff with her. Movies, vacations, activities, hustling together and general life stuff. I also start thinking about marriage and kids to see how I feel about it.

  • 90% romance (talking, holding hands, hugging etc), 10% sexual.

  • Usually Sex is what I'll fantasize about. You fantasize about the Romance you are setting yourself up for a huge let down.

  • Great question!

    I usually daydream about what I could imagine doing with them (pertaining to their personality or what I think of them), for example; sitting with them in the back of their car watching a movie at the drive-in, lying outside together side by side on the grass looking up at the stars.

  • Being able to snuggle her in bed every night and feel her warm body pressed up against mine

  • I fantasize about them healing the aching emptiness of my soul with their love. Usually doesn’t work out though 🤔

  • I voted E

    Good question

  • Sticking her head in the dryer and doing her from behind while yelling "DON'T LOOK AT ME" over and over again

  • Just having closeness, leaning next to each other, sharing each other's days

    • Yessss

  • I’m a guy who thrives in making someone feel special, so I tend to just think of her and I doing romantic things but occasionally a kiss is fantasized but never do I make it to sex in my fantasy.

  • I imagine doing things together! Like skating, holding hands and walking, cuddling, playing video games

  • Giving her ground shaking oral.

  • Mostly romantic things.

    • Did you vote?

    • I did, I voted F.

  • Going on dates, holding hands, CUDDLING for sure are the big ones. But sex is also up there

  • I voted F... Personally, I really try not to think about anything Sexual with my Crush... I find it very disrespectful, and dishonorable... I typically try to think of ways I can make her happy: A surprising hug from behind, maybe plan a special get-together involving flowers, etc.

  • I would say it's about equal.

  • Its always romantic.
    Holding her in my arms, kissing with a beautiful landscape in the background, her running into my arms, getting married, what are kids would look like.

    I never fantasize about women sexually, I don't know if thats weird. I enjoy sex and want to have it but, its not what I fantasize about

    • Same here, bro.

    • @Jamie05rhs yeah bro, we got pure hearts 😂 We are too good 😭

    • Lol. Well, , somewhat pure.

  • I fantasize about buying a new rifle... then I do it. That is the sort of fantasies I have. Aa far as crushes go, I effectively talk myself out of them by the following day so they are always fleeting.

  • I voted E

  • I don't fantasize about things I make them reality

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