Girls & guys please , Does she made me sick by ANAL sex?

[thedoctormsh]

Its all abut my sexual life as a straight man
I’m 32
In my life I have had 5 girlfriends
1st girlfriend in my life, she introduced me to anal Unfortunately I didn’t like it, Then we did anal 5times over 3yrs relationship just to pleasure her. I didn’t like it that time
I had a 2nd girlfriend over 2yrs we never did anal, even though she asked me once if I wanted to try but I refused
3rd girlfriend she never asked/never tried anal
4th girlfriend over 7yrs we did anal several times like 3-6/yr, because she was super aroused by butt foreplay so I thought she will love anal, I introduced anal for her, painful first few times then it becomes sort of maybe only little pleasurable for her

So now we came to the main story in which I feel really confused
I had a new current 5th girlfriend since 1yr
1st date ever with her, she surprised me asking for butt sex😱, for sure that was after a long foreplay, good oral sex
And surprisingly shit she was extremely screaming from pleasure, OMG what’s that 😱We continued many positions and she got many orgasms
2nd date also she started anal and I couldn’t believe how she love it like this.
believe that, now 1y we did vaginal penet only 3 times, she just gave me for my insist
She said she doesn’t want to get pregnant and doesn’t like OCP. So she prefer anal
We start every sex by oral ends up by anal
she refuses condoms and she don’t like too much lube, she wants to feel the friction to enjoy WTF
Aft shock, I felt happy as new experience to have girl like this
But unfortunately now wondering if she destroyed my life and my sexual behavior
She made me addict to anal. We do anal regularly & intense
Does she changed me from a straight man to ass only?
I’m still feel disgusting from anal but she mad me used to
Now wondering if that will affect my life and future because it exceeds the normal range (anal dominant vaginal)
I even got suspicious about STD and did hospital check-ups and thanks god negative.

I hope you understand my situation
Advice? Opinions? I’m really suffering

[nerms123]

I think you’re too worried for no reason. I don’t even think you’re addicted to anal. I think you just enjoy it with her because she loves it. I see no reason to worry about future relationships that don’t even exist yet. Who knows what future girlfriends might get you addicted to? You need to stop worrying about things that are no problem.

[thedoctormsh]

Thanks 🙏

[Justacatlady]

Having anal sex isn’t gay. Also, if you both enjoy it, who cares what others think. As for being ruined if you break up, you won’t be, you will just be a dude who likes anal sex

[thedoctormsh]

Do you like anal and doing it regularly?

[Justacatlady]

I do not. It’s a rare thing for me

[thedoctormsh]

Fine. Thanks and enjoy your life

[ChiPaPa]

So? People change. You're enjoying it, she's loving it. It's all good. Don't worry. If everything else is good, don't ruin it.

[thedoctormsh]

Thanks again

[Iron_Man]

Dont fool with her anymore she's bad for your head

[thedoctormsh]

I’m still only thinking about anal with her only. Didn’t reach the level for being gay, with all my respect. But still I’m heterosexual as whole of my life choice. But I mean for my life, she changed me like unconsciously and now I woke up and feel worried & stressed.

[Iron_Man]

she's a woman your in no way gay put that madness out of your head.

[thedoctormsh]

Your point is totally true. It becomes a headache 🤕

[Iron_Man]

Thamks for most Helpful Award

[AustinMan]

You're in complete opposition to where I'm cumming[sic] from. I'm a huge sodomite and a dominant sexual sadist. Your girlfriend and I would be perfect together when it cums [sic] to anal sex. I love it rough and I love it to hurt. I love it when she cries out and tells me I'm hurting her but when I ask her is she wants me to stop, she slams back into me and don't you dare. Just use that big, hard cock to fuck hard, fast, and rough up my tight little rectum!!

I enjoy vaginal sex but it's not an end in itself. If I don't get a good dose of anal I don't feel complete or satisfied.

Just go with it.

[NightFlirt]

If you both enjoy it what's the problem? Fill her Anal rose garden with your seed. Think of it this way, you know she's not getting pregnant this way.

[Lauren-green]

Anal sex is sooo good

[yucef]

This answer come out from ur heart , totally agree 😉

[Sitonmyface33]

You are not wrong

[Warmapplecrumble]

Don't do what you don't enjoy. If you don't like it don't do it.

[foriWish]

You're still a straight man lol. Trust me. The only thing what would make you gay or bi is if you were attracted to men as well.

I think you're just afraid to like anal. It's OK to enjoy it. You're worried over nothing. Again, it wouldn't make you gay at all.

[thedoctormsh]

I really appreciate your support. Many thanks 🙏

[foriWish]

Was I right though? I don't like making assumptions about people

[thedoctormsh]

You are right exactly. My wonders just needed some assurance which you and the others gave me. Thanks again

[foriWish]

Awesome then! And you're very much welcome :)

[bluehen46]

Couple things
"1st date ever with her, she surprised me asking for butt sex, for sure that was after a long foreplay, good oral sex" She let you sodomize her on the first date? Is this a hook up or serious? I mean i have slept with a girl that i dated for some time and might have married but it took awhile for anal and cumming in her mouth. I am far from a prude, but I always think girls should not serve every dessert right away. NOthing bad just curios. Did you know her before that?

"OCP" what the hell is that?

"Does she changed me from a straight man to ass only?"
You are still straight I do not think there is a guy i know who is not into it. If they are not its because their girl or wife was not into it. Nothing wrong with it. Second girl I had sex with after losing my virginity was a virgin and all we did was oral and fuck in the ass. SHe was not really into it at first, but ended up loving it. I mean to the point of when she was on top bouncing like wild.

"I’m still feel disgusting from anal but she mad me used to"

You probably missed out on an orgasm or two with the girls that wanted to.

now of girls who have had vaginial sex i am not aware of many that prefer anal with exception of older women who have lost some of the lube in their p*ssy.

[zoeadams3]

I’m not the person to ask anal. I find it repulsive.

[haleysalvigione2]

Anal sex is sucking

[couchweed92]

i’d be so stoked

[HereIbe]

So don't break up with her and keep fucking away. Problem solved.

[thedoctormsh]

Because it’s difficult now. Because I’m enjoying it meanwhile; but I feel regret myself because I wasn’t like that before. And I’m worried if this will be bad for me in future, ( like if I had another partner in future I ll face some difficulties with her, and maybe I ll not be able to find a girl exactly like her) she mad me addicted to anal. I feel from my inside thats wrong but couldn’t decide I’m so confused. Please I need advices supporting me.

[HereIbe]

Just keep fucking her and don't leave her. Problem solved.

[thedoctormsh]

Hahahaha I liked u man. Really I liked your simplicity of solving problems. Hope if all life problems could be solved simply like your way. Unfortunately it’s always complicated. 😂 If I stayed with her, still I didn’t solve my worries about my sexual life. And if I dumped her I might regret because she is so fu** sexy and hot, I couldn’t imagine there will be a wild girl loving anal as much as her. She is unbelievable man 😭 TBH I’m still couldn’t understand how and why becomes like this. This is sooooo unusual

[HereIbe]

You need to see a therapists. Your worries are bizarre. Good fuck is good fuck is good fuck.

[Joker_]

You're gay

[imma_short_pota]

I mean it could affect if you want kids but other than that I don't see a problem as long as you enjoy it too

[thedoctormsh]

Thanks for your comment I appreciate your support. To be honest. Now I can’t stop craving for anal. I’m worried If i changed my girlfriend in future she will find me craving only for anal more vaginal, which will be worried for her.

[Raynera]

Being straight, can’t be changed from doing a woman in the booty. I mean, if you like women. Then you’re good. 🤔

[Anonymous]

Yeah I think you’re right to be worried that you will only be happy now with a woman who wants all anal.

I’d suggest you marry her. Problem solved.

[thedoctormsh]

Thanks 🙏

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want to be restricted to anal, but as you see every woman is different. Whatever you are comfortable with.

[Anonymous]

likely, anal is wrong, and should be banned

I'm still all for lgbt though