Girls, Is moaning during sex involuntary?

Question

I've started seeing a new woman and yesterday we had sex for the first.
I live with some roommates so I tried to not make to much noise. But my girlfriend appears to be someone who likes to moan during sex and I know for sure the whole house would have heard her.

I was just wondering if its a voluntary thing or if you literally can stop yourself moaning?

I dont mind it. Im really just curious about why it happens.

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Women make noise when they are having sex over and over again as the sex gets hotter making all those sounds of ‘aah’s and the ‘umms.’ When having sex, we use so many of our senses to enjoy it. Moaning gives a rhythm to sex. Women moan out of pleasure, moaning is a natural response to pleasure that a woman gets during sex. As she gets to climax and feels pleasure, she moans involuntarily in ecstasy.
Many people associate moaning and screaming with pain. Why, then, should people make these noises while experiencing sexual pleasure? I and my husband – both moan or make sound frequently to indicate what is feeling good. It depends on how close to cumming we are and how good the sex is. I tend to moan with pleasure consciously, and then as I get near the vinegar stroke it becomes involuntary. Moaning is not animal noises emanating from the bedroom.
It is very difficult to differentiate between voluntary and involuntary in case of moaning. Actual moaning that comes after extreme and immense pleasure when your partner give you tremendously fabulous sex is beyond voluntary control, it comes as appreciation of your partner's great act of sex. You just want to moan like you never want to end that such fantabulous sex.
From beginning to end, I love the sexy voice exchange – including erotic talks, whispers and purrs with heavy sighs of intensity and the sweet moaning of pleasure. Moaning is a way of reassuring your lover that he or she is pleasing you. A major benefit of sexual noises is that—if genuine—they demonstrate that the partner is not indifferent; any noise is better than complete silence. It is a sudden declaration of "YES!!"
I LOVE when my husband moans! - makes noise in bed. Every little involuntary noise he makes when we have sex is solid gold. Moderate noise is bliss, while complete silence is toxic. When it comes to sex, silence is far from golden. Moans are quite beneficial for enhancing sexual satisfaction. Moans not only increase the excitement of the partner; they can also increase that of the moaner. In this sense, they are valuable self-fulfilling prophecies.
In profound love, actions speak louder than words, and “well done” is by far better than “well said.” Unlike sex, in profound love, where the heart leads the way, moans are of lesser weight, it is not the case that the more noise you make, the better sex you will have.
A moan with a painful sound can give him the message that he is causing the discomfort and he needs to go slow and careful.
When a man hears soft moans of pleasure, he gets an idea that the woman is enjoying what he is doing. The sounds of your moans give him make him interpret that you need more time in bed and he need not hurry. This helps women extend the act longer if they anticipate the man is going to have an orgasm soon. It is the tone of the moans that set the rhythm of sex. If a man can correctly read through the sounds a woman makes, the couple can have better and enjoyable sex. Moaning helps them to get their brain where their bodies are.
Since women are more expressive then men, they have taken the lead on moaning too. Their moans and sounds makes sex more enjoyable for both the partners. Sex becomes more exhilarating for men when their women moan with pleasure. Moaning is considered to be a sign of good sex.