My boyfriend said he “doesn’t eat pussy” but I really like him? Should I let it go?

Question

I’ve been dating a guy for about 6 months now and we’ve gotten very close. We’re best friends and we have an amazing sex life; we have sex every day multiple times a day. He said he loves my pussy and can’t get enough and we’re always trying new things like anal, food play, etc. However, one thing that bothers me is he doesn’t ever eat me out. We talked about it pretty early on (cauSe I sucked his dick a lot and mentioned it) and he said that he has never done it and that it’s just something he “doesn’t do”. I left it at that, but we continued having sex and got closer. He eventually asked me if he could try it randomly while we were making out. He did it for about a minute and stopped. He said he just wanted to try it cause it looked “delicious” but that it tasted good. However, he didn’t do it again. I brought it up again and he said that basically it’s a special thing for him and he wants to do it for his wife. Should I just let it go and stop bringing it up? It just feels one-sided sometimes and I’m confused cause every guy that’s eaten me out has loved it

nerms123 · Accepted Answer

Every relationship has some problems. It only depends on how important the problems are to you. If this really bothers you then you might have to break up. But if everything else is really good then this might just be one small problem. If you date a different guy he might love eating kitty but he might have a horrible hairstyle or something.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Mah e he doesn’t like it. It’s okay. Sometimes people don’t like that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There can be various reasons why he isn't comfortable with it. If things are going well otherwise and you're happy dating him, by all means don't end the relationship because he doesn't eat your pussy. You might end up with some jerk who will eat your pussy but is an a&&h**e otherwise.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

I'd suggest you ask him to try it three times. Give him lots of positive feedback during and after and tell him how much you appreciate him trying it.

Alephus · Answer

Honestly, and no offense in anything im gonna say its kinda boils down to one of these:

-he doesn't like eating pussy. Very uncommon but ok

-(no offense) he doesn't want to eat YOUR pussy for any reason.

-he has some weird moral idiology of not eating pussy until .

In any case be direct with him. After all you are in a relationship

slatyb · Answer

Stop giving him head. See what happens.

reptocarl · Answer

He’s a piss poor selfish lover and it won’t ever change so you have a decision. Life’s too short for bad sex

Obscurecure · Answer

See if you can ease him into it. Also, finding out why he doesn't like it would help a lot too.

bangyourhead · Answer

If you’re ok with never getting your kitty liked, then let it go. If you need that, you’ll have to break up.

iFarted · Answer

Guess he doesn't love your pussy as much as he says ey?

Valnac · Answer

If he won't eat your pussy, don’t suck his cock.  Fair is fair.

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

Not really sure how it's one sided unless he ask you to suck his dick if so then yes it's one sided but if you're just doing it because you want to do it then is not one sided I would say just enjoy what you 2 are doing