How easily do guys get boners?

I’m curious, because obviously I lack that particular “equipment!” Like, do they just have to look at a picture of an attractive woman or see one in person to get a boner, or does there have to be actual physical contact?
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  • I know why you're asking this, and I'm going to give you the honesty you're looking for. You're absolutely stunning, and from the moment I zoomed in on that sexy picture of you in the bikini, looking to see the outline of your hard nipples, I had a massive throbbing tribute to you in my pants. And the fact is you turn me on any time you show me pictures, and even times when you write something a little teasing, or when it's a hot situation, and especially when you talk about something sexy that's happened or you're thinking about. You're candy for my dick, and I know I'm not the only guy who gets turned on by you here.

    I've stroked my dick to you many times, blasting wads of sticky hot cum looking at your pictures or thinking about fucking you. You're a deeply sexy, sexual, beautiful woman, and you deserve every bit of admiration you get.

    So yes, when I see you, I get turned on, your pictures are hot as fuck, YOU, are hot as fuck. My dick doesn't respond that way to every girl or every situation, I'm very attracted to you.

    • I don’t remember ever posting a pic of myself in a bikini. Are you sure you’re not thinking of another girl?

    • No, DEFINITELY you, I'd never forget you, it was your profile picture before. You were laying back with this little skimpy bikini top on, with that sultry, seductive, daring look in your eyes, inviting the attention, bathing in it, daring something to happen. My dick got hard the moment I saw you, I looked for more pics immediately, trying to catch more of you, to glimpse more of your beautiful body and adorable angelface, looking for a hard nipple poking through, or more of your beautiful soft skin. I'm also certain I stroked my throbbing hard veiny cock to your pictures that night.

    • I'd love you to take more pictures like that. Show off a little, be naughty, be admired and enjoy the effect you have. It's obvious you enjoy it ;)

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  • In High School, sometimes some classes you sit in a circle. Sometimes, across from you is a girl you like, or think is cute, and she is young, and wearing a short skirt!! Yeah, and she doesn't know she is showing, but you can see the flowers on her panties!! :) :)
    Sometimes, just kissing someone I LOVE, just wow, and loving her so much!!
    As you get older, not so much, sadly!!
    Thankfully, today's fashion still has these yoga pants, leggings, and tights!! Some women are all about their comfort, and I ADORE THEM!! Visible panty lines, because she is comfortable, and couldn't care less that someone sees her and loves her perfect bottom, and the panty line! Maybe? :) :)

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  • I find it terribly intriguing to know just why you feel the need to ask such a thing, given your background in nursing, your age and the fact that you are a married woman, you of all people should have the answer already.

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  • Pretty easy. They pop up for no reason at any point in the day. For the most part I've kinda learned how to control it by flexing certain muscles and all but also mentally I am able to one in a while which is cool. Wish I could do the mental one all the time.

  • I do i often watch girls in tennis skirts etc and also videos while being completely naked and those combinations really go well together.

  • I have to wonder why you ask this, because I think you are in a position to know. You are married, so you certainly are familiar with the workings of your husband's dick. At your age, you have not been out of the dating scene that long. As sexy as you are, you must have seen many guys pop boners over you. So you must already be aware of how easily a guy can get hard. But to answer the question, he does not have to have physical contact to get a boner.

    • Well no, I haven’t SEEN guys get boners over me, I know my husband gets hard when we’re making out, touching, etc, but he doesn’t exactly announce it if he gets a boner just from looking at me, so I have no idea.

    • I bet you'd really get into and enjoy laying back and touching your pussy with an audience, stroking length hard and fast and watching and being driven crazy by your hot little body and those smoking hot come-to-bed eyes as you slide and push in with your fingers. Surefire way to know exactly the effect you have, ability to rise and make a dick grow big and hard and throb and pulse, just for you

  • What's the equipment your talking about cause girls come with quite a few weapons they can use ahaha

  • First thing is depends on the mood and your age matters - A teenage boy can see a tree and get a boner - I would say for an adult male some mental stimulation can happen and may start stirrings, it is unlikely to get to a boner before physical contact but we will include extreme teasing or mental stimulation and it may happen but most likely part of the stimulation is no physical contact (I am thinking being tied up etc)

  • Whenever an attractive woman catches their attention. You would qualify

  • Boners are unpredictable. Sometimes they happen when you don't expect them. Just looking at a girl can give a guy a boner, but obviously, there are a lot of girl's around, and guys don't go around with boners all the time. A guy can't control when he gets a boner, though he can do some things to help get one, or to help not get one. Probably every guy has been in situations where he has gotten a boner, and really doesn't want to get one, but can't help it.

  • It differs by mood, age and if the situation get them to think about sex. In the teens extremely easy, the hormones make you horny a lot.

  • Wait, you think it's the same for every guy?

    • I get them really bad when im naked and looming at girls in satin skirts, tennis skirts. Especially If their topless i also check out none porn videos on you tube and i start stroking away after an hour of watching pics and video s. Sometimes even better if im seeing an girl and imagining me having sex with here really helps me i hope this was different from other people.

    • @Hacienda95nature Thanks for the unsolicited info, weirdo.

  • When you're younger or you're not used to being in physical contact with a woman a lot of things can cause it. If I'm having physical contact with a girl I find attractive I'm likely to get one whether it's her putting her legs on my lap or leaning on each other, a picture too if I'm alone but it depends on the picture and my mood, or just the thought of certain things.

    As you get older though I'm aware it's harder for guys to get one, but they're still able to. Plus, with experience you get used to physical contact for example and that doesn't get you hard right away. Then also when you're younger you tend to get a lot of random boners.

  • depends on the attraction for me, i mean if i feel attracted to a woman then yep... up it goes... getting it down is not as easy though lol

  • After looking at your picture, not very long

  • Depends on the mood and the sex drive most tof he time but we can get boners out of the blue just like morning wood , so i say easily if we are in the mood and turned on

  • I'm surprised that a married 30 year old would ask this question. Is there a reason you're asking? If so maybe we can help you answer the real question.

  • It can be from simply looking at a photograph, thinking about something, touching it, or sometimes "He" just simply comes up for no reason! It's all very interesting, intriguing, and sometimes a bit frustrating. It's hard to conceal an erection! It can happen in even the most innocent of times: Talking to a Girl you like, or dancing even!

  • Seems odd for a 30 year old married woman to still be clueless about this.

  • Depends on the Guy!
    Some need Physical Contact..
    Others just need to think about it..

    I personally get easily a boner, if i see, touch or dirty talk with her about her butt

  • Boners are a funny thing, everyone knows about morning wood and I'd say for me personally when I'm tired I seem to get them but they can be a bit unpredictable sometimes. And I guess everyone is different in terms of getting aroused through pictures or physical contact, depends on how horny I am for a picture to give me a boner

  • If you put your hand on my leg i will get boner for you.

  • As easily as you get stiff nipples.

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