Girlfriend wants to lift and carry me while having sex?

[Atrocity]

Hi, Since a year a have a girlfriend and it works out really well. I love her she loves me... Only there is one think I never told anyone about, since it is a kind of embarrassing fort me. Since a week I know she told a friend about it... and well i do not feel good about that. When we met we had great sex, but after a few months she started to do strange things with me. Ok I am a rather skinny guy, but she is just about my size... but during sex play she always wants to lift and carry me in different positions, even having sex with me like that. She encourages me to do so, like picking me up naked in her arms, throws me over her shoulder and stuff... she does not want me to that with her since i would that consider more a normal kind a thing. She says she like to feel dominant, and that it is a turn on for her to play in the bedroom like that... I am not really sure about it... it feels kind a weird but at the same time although I feel ashamed, it also turns me on if i am honest. I was wondering if anyone is sharing the same experience, it this is ok to to and so on... Sorry tho bother, but i am kind a uncertain about it at this moment.

[ashishr21]

Well it's totally upto you dude. I mean if you're getting turned on with it then it's fine. Personally I can't relate to it because I am really tall and broad for even a tall girl to be able to lift me up. But if it's fun for you then you shouldn't care what others think.

[Atrocity]

thanks

[Berethor]

Well it's weird, basically she is the man in that relationship.

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[Anonymous]

Its hot. Woman should become stronger and taller in the future, so there will be more Equality in General.

[Atrocity]

You do this too?

[Cusswords]

I agree. My girl has lifted me before. One of my favorite times was when I was lying on the couch. She walked over to me, kissed me, then told me to wrap around her. Then she lifted me straight up and we kissed as she carried me off to the bedroom

[Cusswords]

5 ft 10 175 pounds

[Vik257]

Atrocity, you are the most luckiest guy. I really envy you for this. Been searching to have such a soul mate for myself. When girl wants to lift you, it’s nothing but pure expression of love… Agree it may sound wired just because it’s doesn’t go with general societal norms but at the same time we talk of equality and gender neutrality. We all are driven in different ways as long as it’s not toxic. Your partner has taken a lead ( bless her), you just go with that flow of that love…

[yaboiziek]

I think she might be slightly dominant? like she gets aroused by being the one in control over certain things? though I've never heard of such activities before

[Atrocity]

That is the kind of thing she says indeed...

[yaboiziek]

dominant kinks are normal in both sex's, but it can lead to bdsm and shame kinks

[Iron_Man]

how much do you actually weigh

[Atrocity]

Hi I guess my weight is around 60 kg or 130 lbs, she weighs about 65 (145 lbs) and is a bit taller than me

[Iron_Man]

No wonder your so light

[MysteriousDarkness]

I say go for it since it turns you on and that it is legal. You may interact with someone who has a fantasy that you might think is beyond weird but never know about. It is not lije other people that know you have to kniw about it.