Would you let your guy friend give you a massage?

Question

Recently a guy friend of mine invited me to his house for an overnight. we were supposed to play video games and watch movies the entire night , but sadly i was tired and laid flat on bed while he was playing games... soon he came to me and starting requesting me to play more (we were playing PUBG in PS4) , but i said no and i was really really tired. he then placed his hands on my stomach and started caressing it /massaging me... he said -lemme help you out then...(he told me a month ago that he had a fetish of woman's stomachs) ... but soon after 10 mins he pulled up my tank top all the way up to my neck with my stomach completely exposed

he starting moving his hands all over my ribcage , belly button , and my sides... he promised me that he won't touch me anywhere else or will ask for sex... and he had stomach fetish so i let him do anything he wants to do with my stomach , for stomach ain't a big deal like the boobs or the vagina where i would not let him touch me.

so , back to the question , what would you do if you were in my situation? would you let him continue?(he promises you not to touch anywhere else except the stomach and won't ask for sec either , and has a stomach fetish)

tbh it felt really really good , and i loved it , it was very cute of him to try to ease me off , but was that a wrong step by me that i didn't even say a word?
nothing more happened that night , and we slept

Would you let your guy friend give you a massage?

Sensmind · Accepted Answer

It is the way I answer the friendzone/friendship question - Is everyone on the same page and there are no unrequited feelings going on - It may work then but how sure are you this is the case even his stomach fetish, could that be a pick up line etc etc
Okay 95% of me feels this is weird, if you have feelings for him follow it through to see if anything there. If you don't , how sure are you he doesn't have feelings for you because you know in your heart that if he does, it will get messy and he will possibly both of you will get hurt.
So to be on safe side I would shut it down unless you feel something.

xkildy · Accepted Answer

A lot of people have difference of opinions for obvious reasons but if you're friends with him and you trust him and he says he will not touch you sexually on the breast or other sensitive areas only on the stomach yet again you trust him I don't see any problem in it. to you he's pretty much just like a girlfriend right. You would let your female friend do it right !!

Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

honestly depends on the friend. Some friends genuinely aren't interested in you like that, you trust them like a brother. Then there are some friends that would use that as an excuse to try to create something sexual. And I don't know if that makes them less your friend or an opportunist but it can make things uncomfortable for you very fast if you're not interested in them like that and aren't good with boundaries or they choose to not respect you. I would say it a case by case basis. But I would lean more on the no side unless I really trusted him to not try anything, or if I wanted something also.

Felinegirl · Accepted Answer

I would let guys massage me, but not like that if I wasn't interested. Your story sounds very sexual to him.

I've let guys massage my shoulders or back if I had sore muscles. It's really nice then, but not as sexual as a stomach.

HotJealousy · Answer

I mean, if you enjoyed the massage and he enjoyed giving it then why not? As long as you both are enjoying it and consenting it doesn't matter what other people would do/think.

EriFrancis1994 · Answer

Sure that's innocent enough

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You should not trust the promises of a 17 year old boy when you two are alone and you are in a horizontal position.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

Nah I wouldn't let him touch me unless I wanted sex and a relationship with him

lightbulb27 · Answer

place holder...

Secret6620 · Answer

Vote A 🌸💓🌸

SueAnon84 · Answer

No I wouldn't. I let that happen with me and a "guy friend" and one thing led to another and that is how I ended up sleeping with the person! DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES let your "friend" do this to you! Trust me! You will NOT have any self control left! If you're asking for my opinion, this is it! DO NOT LISTEN to the dumb asses on this site telling you that it is ok! I am warning you!!

Truthatanycost · Answer

The fallacy of male / female friends continues...

PrincessGrail · Answer

If I was single and I trusted him to keep his word, sure. In fact, I have done that. If I was in a relationship, no fucking way.

Levin · Answer

It's what you want really, not what he wants. However, if I was doing that, I'd probably want more. He's already sexualised it. I'm quite interested in healing, through massaging and touch. You keep boundaries if that's what both want..

Just_someone23 · Answer

I would be very uncomfortable with the whole deal

TeenSA · Answer

Mine have given me a massage before next thing he was sitting on my ass but i could feel his dick hard, my bra was already unhooked, i just told him to get off and go masturbate in the bathroom,

Paige90 · Answer

I would have absolutely no problem at all if a guy friend wanted to massage me. If I told him upfront that I didn't want to have sex I would OK with him touching anywhere. I love massages!!

boredguy01 · Answer

I don't see any problem with it as long as you're both single

LMNOP123 · Answer

I’d be super weirded out either way.

supercutebutt · Answer

You probably should have requested some anal pleasure in return for him getting his jollies rubbing your tummy.

BestUserName100 · Answer

Hell fcking no.. Get the f outta here..

MajesticTwelve · Answer

I don't have guy friends. I find it just misleads them, and if you have a guy, and you're spending time with another, even as "friends" that's totally disrespectful, never mind letting them touch you? Whole other level.