Have an opinion?
To get rid of your sexual urges is almost impossible, unless you use a medication, which I would advise against. The other choice is to fully embrace them and go for it. "Females can get more of what I have with what they have, than I can get of what they have with what I have"Translation to that: "Females can get more cock with their pussies, than males can get pussies with their cock"If you think about it it is very true.As a male, when younger I "TRIED"to have sex with every female I could. Notice I said tried.You on the other hand being female could have sex with every male you wanted to, unless he was gay.As I said you have the two options.
I don't want casual sex
How do you know? Have you tried? If not why not?Do you think you are so bad?Post a pic and get a poll on your looks and your way of dressing and your body!!
I don't want casual because the only way I can be attracted to people is if I have feelings for them
Masturbation is one way though the effectiveness of that varies. I wouldn't say your going to die alone for sure so keep an open mind. Casual sex is also another way to relieve it. I'd say ignore it but that clearly isn't working so the above methods i'd say are your best ways.
I don't want casual sex though, I want intimacy
Then you'll just have to get into the dating game and go through its motions, those are the only real two ways of getting sex. Casually or you go through a relationship to have it intimately
That's not an option. Maybe there are some pills I can take?
You don't know you're going to die alone. You may feel like you do, but you don't, and you probably won't.As for the urges, it's been a year for me and I still have them. I don't think you can get rid of them. Just need to find ways to control them.
I do know that I'm going to die alone. I don't talk to people and I don't feel like changing that, so by default, I'll die alone
Some do it with alcohol or drugs. Get out there and date, just for the fun of it.
Dating isn't an option
You can put your energies and thoughts in to things that are productive and that you like to do. You can engage in helping others, and have some of your social needs filled that way, and of course, by having friends. None of this will stop all sexual urges or thoughts, but you can decrease them. Also, you can simply re-direct your mind, if you make a habit of it. But you are a sexual being. And as well, many millions of people have had happy, fulfilled lives, without sex. Sex is not a prerequisite to being happy and having a good life.
About the only drug that has shown ANY hope at killing sex urges is a "GnRH agonist". This will help curb the pituitary from making hormones in the body. I would think this should be considered ONLY in dire circumstances. Another possibility is that you have Persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD).A joint meeting of yourself, your medical doctor and a counselor is in order.
You just basically have to stop thinking about it. Stop listening to those who say to masterbate and go find someone to fuck because those don't work long term or at all. They are just like this short burst of pleasure and sometimes leave you hanging. And instead of thinking of those things, I say you fix yourself. Find yourself that you love. That'll help you become more confident about yourself. If you want someone to help you and talk to. You can talk to me.
you're saying find a hobby to take my mind off it?
Basically. Find something that help you make the you that was once before you were needing and or wanting those stuff
I can't do it by myself?
You can do it by yourself😊. But, I am just saying that if you need someone to talk to and stuff about it. I'm all open ears and open arms to you if you need a good friend
How about this. I have no idea of you have any kind of relationship with God and the only religious advice I’ve seen here is female circumcision. Have you prayerfully discerned God’s Will for your life? Maybe you are called to Religious life as a celibate Nun? I have a few friends that are in cloisters and they have truly Divine Intimacy with Christ. Something that very few are called to in being a true bride of Christ’s. If you are atheist, still, pray about and maybe check out a few Convents online. It certainly won’t hurt.
Awww! You poor thing! Sexual frustration is VERY difficult! Here's something that might help:Throw out anything that promotes the desire. (Movies, books, trinkets, etc.) And fill your life with things that make you forget those topics. I hope it helps! If all that doesn't work, find a Man who'll give you His heart! (If that's something you want)
I don't have anything that promotes desire, unless I can throw out my mind
I see... It's just a feeling without reason. I don't want to push things at you, but for me, I get those feelings very often, and the urge to satisfy those cravings don't cease... Unless I masturbate. (Perhaps something that would help?)
Oh no! I'm afraid I don't have much more in mind as far as help for you! Maybe a certain food? Maybe a massage? Something relaxing, or perhaps hard work to help you forget about it? I want to help!
Well, if it helps, I can buy you some cats, so you won't die alone.Nah seriously now, you are young, stop overthinking, the more attention you give it the more it'll eat you up, trust me, I've been there, just tell youself to shut up, find things to keep yourself busy.
I'd say get on tinder and start banging your way through the site, you might have some good times and bad times but I'm sure you'll satisfy your needs at some point!
Just get out there and find someone, it's going to be hard and you'll be disappointed more times than not, but in the end you'll find someone and be happy, and if not, at least you can say you tried. So go on! take the responsibility for your happiness into your own hands and make something out of yourself!
I'll just die alone
Everyone dies alone. We arrive here alone, and leave here alone...
Just saying, the truest phrase I've ever heard is that life is what you make of it, if you can really accept that then you'll be on your way to happiness. I forgot something in the original comment though, what do you think is holding you back from getting what you need?
@Therisinghero12 what do you mean?
You say you're frustrated and crave intimacy, but what's holding you back from getting what you want? What keeps you from getting into a meaningful relationship and being happy?
I didn't say I wanted a relationship.
Well whatever you want, just in general
There's no way that I can get what I desire
Why? What's stopping you? Or are you just stopping yourself?
In order to get what I desire, I would have to make someone care about me. That would be impossible
Trust me, it isn't, you just have to get out there and try to reach that point
It is impossible. I'm unattractive, boring, and have a terrible personality. There's no reason for anyone to be interested in me, and no, I'm not going to change that because I don't feel like it.
Then you can't blame anyone but yourself, I hope you have a long and happy life.
Not once did I blame anyone, like I said, this post isn't about finding someone
Have you thought about, I don't know, lowering your standards? There's someone for everyone.
When did I ever say that I had standards? This post isn't about dating
You think you'll die alone. You're telling me there is no guy out there for you, not even one in a wheelchair?
Probably not, but I'm not going to look, so by default, yes, I will die alone
You're female, meaning you can find a guy. It isn't hard. He may not be Prince Eric or whatever, but many guys will have sex with practically any female.
I don't want casual sex
... There's no such thing as "casual sex." There is sex and there is not-sex. That's all. And why are you talking about sexual frustration then if you don't want to have sex? I'm not understanding.
I was seeing if there were any ideas for how I could get rid of it, like pills or something
You have the option of either 1) stop thinking about it, which won't work unless you occupy yourself immensely with doing other things, or 2) having sex.
Ok, I'll go with option 1
I still think pills would a better option though
So frustrating isn’t it. We need that release but detest casual sex. Catch 22 if ever there was one. It’s a shame most guys don’t want to be a steady boyfriend at your age since that’s all we want. Yeah, it’s sucks. Just be patient and find a guy that wants to be your boyfriend and get the maximum enjoyment.
Go on tinder, take a good picture of yourself, make a good bio and literally wait an hour, you’ll have at least one guy in your messages
I don't want sex, I want intimacy. There's a difference
Yeah well me too 😐You can probably find a guy wanting a relationship on tinder, try going out someone with friends and see if you can meet someone or ask your friends if they know anyone nice
That's not an option
I’m sorry, why not?
Because it's EXTREMELY rare for me to be attracted to someone and it's IMPOSSIBLE for someone to be attracted to me, so that's not gonna work
Is it because of your standards you’re not attracted to most people or something else? And that’s not true at all, there’s always a guy out there, there’s roughly 105 boys per 100 girls in the world so you’re in luck to find someone out there
It's not because of standards. I don't go around saying, "this guy isn't this... Or I don't like this about them..." I'm simply just not attracted and it is true. There's nothing appealing about me, sure there are billions of guys on this planet but none of them like me
Oh my mistake, hmm…maybe you should try going somewhere and trying to meet someone, exposure to someone actually make you more attracted to each other. And that’s not true are you fit? Do you have a few extra pounds? If so then there are plenty of guys who would want you
My weight is fine. I'm just hideous and have no sexual appeal. Trying to find someone is too much work. Maybe there's a pill I can take that will take away the urges
I doubt it, do you think it’s your face? If so then most guys can over look that with a good personality, Ik I would. Lol sadly there isn’t any pills like that or else I would have then them 😂 it’s not that hard, just put yourself out there, someone will come your way
That's just too much work. I'm sure there's a pill that takes away urges
Ok, well there’s not much I can do sadly, I would gladly come cuddle with you if you’d like 😂 I don’t know if there are any pills like that but if you find any tell me cause I’d want them too
I know how you feel gurl. You gotta go get urself a boy.
That's too hard
Life is hard. Everything we want we must work for, there are no handouts in life. But we’re lucky because we’re girls and we have it easier than guys. Go meet people. Talk to people at work, make friends and then go on dates with guys you think are cute.I read some of your comments by the way... have you really never liked anyone? How is that even possible? I’ve had tons of crushes and I’m ultra picky. I’m not experienced in that love field (not because I haven’t been given opportunities) but because I haven’t found the right person and I sometimes run away when I get too close to someone because all these feelings scare me.
I've thought a lot of guys were cute but never had a crush on them. I don't know why, I just never saw them in a romantic way
Hm that’s interesting but I kinda understand. I can “have a crush on someone” or like them more than a friend but then wonder why I like them in that way since (in one particular case) I can’t imagine actually being romantic with him. I guess it depends on that person (whether they’re immature or too comical or even too serious).
Meeting someone just isn't an option
I don't want to put myself out there. My self esteem is too low for that
Just try it. That’s how I became stronger in my confidence. I asked out a total jerk in grade 12 to go out to prom with me and he semi-rejected me and I felt absolutely terrible at first. But then I overcame it and was proud of myself bc every person I’ve told about it had been astonished of my bravery to do something like that. And how do you know no one has ever liked you? Maybe you just haven’t noticed the shy guy who always stares at you lol
Trust me, I know. No one stares at me
Don’t be so hard on yourself, someone will come along.
No, no one will come along. But it's OK, I've accepted that
You sound so depressed. Try a dating app or something
No, I don't need to, I've accepted that I'm going to be alone
Just get on with someone to have crazy sex lolIf not then play with yourself
Those are obviously not options
Oh why notI can understand the first one but why can't u play with yourself
Because it doesn't feel good
Hmmm i see
So you are a religious person then coz mostly those persons would say it doesn't feel good etc...If that's true then i am very wrong person to leave any suggestion honey coz then as per those beliefs i am not a good person (even though everyone i know will say otherwise) because i work as a stripper and prostitute
I'm not religious at all
Ohh then why do you think its not good
I've been thinking that maybe it doesn't feel good because my body knows it's me touching it
Oh no honey its still fun trust me
Well I don't know what the problem is then
There's no problem darling you just got to give it a try
I have though
Oh greatAny progress?
No, I've been trying to masturbate since I started puberty. It's never felt good
Thats strange tbh
Yeah, I don't know what the problem is
Well i hope someone can help
It’s called hormones, you don’t turn them off.What I suggest is lots and lots of masturbation.It will get better, give it time.
It doesn't feel good to masturbate
Do you take your time and get aroused, or do you go right for it.
I take my time and get aroused
What doesn’t feel good?
Does it hurt when you touch it?
No, it doesn't hurt, just doesn't feel good either, it's like.. Neutral if that makes any sense
Are you insecure about the way it looks?
I don't really look at it
I think your problem is not sexual urges but being single. Why are you not letting anyone in your life.
Sexual urges are the problem
Did u try masturbating
Of course, it doesn't feel good. That's why I'm so sexually frustrated
Try using dildos or vibrators.It should work u out.
I want physical touch
U don't want boyfriend or husbandThen who do u want to be touched by?
A guy but it's too much work to find someone
U mean if that guy is a stranger you are ready for it.
For kissing n getting touched?
What about it?
A full hysterectomy. Once your ovaries are gone you'll lose your sex drive.
Hmm, I guess that could be an option
Frankly I do not recommend it.
Oh why not?
It likely hurts like hell for starters but it will cease other drives as well.
What other drives
Motivations in general.
How? Look at an ugly guy or girl. i mean hideous. or take a cold shower.
What do cold showers do
With the number of thirsty, desperate men out there, I find it hard to believe you are worried about dehydration.
I would want someone that actually likes me
Then you need to become the person you want to attract through self development. The garden does not worry about a lack of Butterfly.
I don't want to change anything about myself and since I won't do that, by default, I'll die alone
Besides, I don't know what I want to attract
date blind men , it worked for rocky Denise ''MASK'' BUT IT WAS A BLIND GIRL until her dad seen him , poor guy.
@highjinx how do i find a blind guy?
google how to date blind guys?
@highjinx never mind, I just realized that I would have to have a good personality, so that won't work
well I tried , sorry , good luck, being around other people is overrated embrace being by yourself.
@highjinx I know, this post isn't about finding someone
I understand how you feel I haven't had sex in over a year
You don't. Play a game of have a handful of diphenhydramine and try to diddle the skittle before you fall asleep. Win? Great. Lose? That works too.
Kinda referencing Wedding Crashers joke- didn't translate into being relevant- NM
I have the same fear... I'm here if you wanna talk about it.. I control it with smoking weed...
Why do you call it a fear
Insecurities and stress
Just how can you not get any? How's that work for a woman? Or are you just ultra picky?
I don't want casual sex. I want intimacy
Again, how is that hard? Sounds like you don't have a clue on how to deal with men, so you keep throwing yourself at sleazebags.
Um, I don't throw myself at anyone. I've never liked anyone and no one has ever liked me
What's so "fake" but no one liking you?
You just need to find a nice thick huge cock to pound you for hours! (;
I don't know
Why don’t you know? 😂
I don't know if that's the solution
Masturbation is the loneliest way of loving someone
What's your point
That's how lonely guys tend to cope is what I'm saying. I agree actually with an earlier opinion. Take up a new sport or hobby that might get you mingling with other available people.
I don't think that's what he meant. I think he meant that it would just be another way to release pent up energy
I agree, but I think the social benefit would be good and help solve your issue naturally 😊
I would workout alone though
Why is that? A new sport or hobby kinda forces you to meet people and learn new things.
I'm not very social. I prefer to just hang out with myself
What if someone approached you though?
I would talk to them but I wouldn't try to be friends with them
Do you want physical intimacy? Just curious as it sounds like you are challenged by your introverted nature.
Isn't that the same thing as sexual intimacy?
Yes, the same 😁
Then yes, I want it
Got to get brave then and go get it. You're actually lucky, women have the upper hand when it comes to decisions about sex.
That's just too much work. No one likes me
I find ya likeable 😁
No you don't. It's impossible. I'm just going to take some pills
That sounds like a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I'm sorry I can't help more.
Well it's not really temporary if it happens all the time.
Don't be stupid... you're how old? You're not going without sex the rest of your life unless you're completely hideous and disgusting. Is that the case?
Yes, that is case
I don't believe you.
And why is that?
Hideous is rarely the case... and you can always alter your appearance. Send me a pic... message me for my e mail. I'll bet you're FAR from hideous.
I'm one of those rare cases. I don't know why people don't believe it when a person says they're ugly. I think they would know
message me for my e mail and send a pic. I just don't believe you.
No thanks. It's fine if you don't believe me, it doesn't matter
So you think I'm lying then
YOU might think you're hideous, others won't. And there's hundreds of ways to make yourself look better.
Doesn't matter, I don't care enough to try. This post isn't about finding someone anyway
Very well then. The only way I know of to rid yourself of sexual urges is "mind and spirit over desire". You must transmute your base thoughts into higher energy. Hmmm... did that help? Oh, and stop masturbating.
Why not date and have fun? Perhaps you won't die alone.
It would be too much work to try to find someone that's willing to date me
Why would you say that? Dont sell yourself short
I'm just being honest
there's someone out there for you, just be open to meeting people.
I don't think so
What makes you feel this way?
I'm not going to try to date because it would just make me sad since people would constantly reject me. So since I'm not going to date, but default, I won't ever find anyone
I'm not negative though...
You can't get rid of them. everyone desires intimacy and sexual release... except if your ace
Muslims have an solution for that, it's called female circumcision. :)
How does that help
It helps to put things in proportion, you sure that you want to lose your sexual urges? :)
I don't but I can't fulfill them so I don't have any other options. I want to be touched so badly
You find companionship of a person but set boundaries. Find a guy who knows his place and his hands
You could use toys or something. Nothing beats human contact
Get a guy who uses his tounge
I want a way to satisfy the urges without needing a person
Use a vibrator or clitoral stimulation in a fast circular motion
Masturbation doesn't do anything for me
I want to feel a body on mine, a vibrator can't do that
So you get off on penetration? Use a dildo
Okay so find a guy to hold you set boundaries let him hold you kiss you satisfy your needs without having to go to far
I don't want some stranger touching me
Then get someone to understand you and date take the time best wishes for you
It's not easy for me to find someone that likes me
Not that hard
It is hard
No it's not I'm sure you are a very beautiful woman
Not even close
I'd say pm if you want to continue this
Why not just say it here?
Why would you die alone? Is it a religious commandment or something?
No, I'm going to die alone because it's rare for me to be attracted to someone and no one has ever been attracted to me
Well... I'm attracted to you 😘So, you're half way there 😉
Like I said, no one has ever been attracted to me so I'm going to die alone
I know I don't know you and have no idea what you look like. But there's no way there could he anything that bad about you. I'm willing to bet anything on that. Now me on the other hand... Even if I pay women to find me attractive, they still can't do it. So, that part I won't argue with. The only way you can be a turn off is if 1. You completely have no sense of hygene. 2. You have a sadistic cruelty to all forms of life. 3. You wish harm and desolation upon other people. If you possess none of those three, then it doesn't matter what deformity you have, or blemish, or weight, or color, or disorder, etc... You ARE absolutely f*cking stunning. And hotter than hell in August... And I mean it... Don't make me repeat myself... 😘
I really can't stand when people lie. Please keep your absurdities to yourself
Lie about what? I even gave you a detailed explanation about the way I think and the principles I live by. I've dated a bunch of women that I was judged for, including by my own family, and I was only 15 then. You may chose what you want to believe. But, you can't call me a liar. Like i said before, I am and always was damn ugly (like... Scary ugly, and fat). That might have something to do with my principles, i don't know. But, I did not lie to you about anything. If you want, maybe we, can exchange pictures and see who feels what and how.
I just don't like when people feed me nonsense about my looks. I know what I look like.
I didn't feed you nonsense about your looks. I told how how I'm gonna feel about your looks because of "me" and certain things about me. Because, that's how looks are perceived. How you look to yourself, isn't how you will look to someone else. I would be more than happy to exchange pics. It wouldn't be the first time someone vomited at the sight of me. I'm used to it
See, I don't see a reason to exchange pics. You say you're ugly, I believe you. I say I'm ugly, you should believe me.
My god, you're so frustrating. And, it's really turning me on. You anger me to the point of wanting to have hard sex with you up against the wall with my hand over your mouth while I bite you all over and grunting loudly in your ear
Umm, the question is why you think you'll die alone?
I know because I've never liked anyone and even if I did, there's no way I could get them to like me
Why haven't I liked anyone or why can't I get someone to like me?
I don't know why I haven't liked anyone. That's not something you can force so it just hasn't happened & and I can't get someone to like me because there's nothing to like
How is it weird
How often do you fantasize? And have you talked with your partner about it? If you have one, that is.
a lot and i don't have a partner
Then the only thing I can recommend would be masturbation or find a potential partner to quench the desire.
Neither of those are an option but ok
what about some kind of pills?
Why would you even consider anything of substance?That isn’t going to cure anything.. It might numb it for a brief time, but that’s it. It’s not targeting the real problem.That’s like slapping a band-aid on a gunshot wound.If it’s a self-esteem issue then apply some makeup and find an outfit that will accentuate your figure.. or find someone who will favor your natural appearance and appreciate you for just being you.
I can't do that. I guess I'll just ignore it then
Then let the issue persist, I guess.
Seems to me like you just need to figure yourself out and decipher if this is just a temporary phase you’re going through.
I need to figure out if sexual urges are a temporary phase?
In your case, it’s becoming more of a habit.
Well it's not like I'm consumed by it on a daily basis
Then why is it worth such urgency?
I didn't say it was. I just wanted ideas for how to deal with it when it does come
We gave you ideas, you shot them down.
What ideas? "have sex" "get a boyfriend" those aren't ideas. Those are obvious choices, they're not outside the box. Now, for the people that said get a hobby to take your mind off it, that's a good idea
What did you expect?How is a hobby going to get sexual fetishes out of your mind? I don’t oppose this idea, but it’s completely unrelated to what you’re trying to rid yourself of.
They’re ideas, depends entirely on your perception of “ideas” and if you agree with them or not.Doesn’t make them any less of an idea just because they don’t appeal to you.
Well it's the best idea people have come up with
I mean, when I said "I'll die alone" in the post. I thought that people would take it as a hint, that having someone isn't an option
Then buy a sex toy or a blow-up doll to satisfy yourself? Simple.
There's no guarantee that it would work but I guess I can just get a refund if it doesn't, plus it would be some years until I can afford to get one
They don’t cost very much. Some adult stores offer most effective toys for dirt cheap.
I know, I literally can't afford to spend money on anything that's not essential
I rather think it's an emotional thing. A craving for emotional intimacy, not necessarily sexual intimacy.
What makes you say that
I have the same craving and I often want to throw up when reading of sex orgies or such.
I want emotional intimacy but I also want to be touched
Yeah, me too
Go through a divorce and find out your ex was cheating on you.
Stop asking for a relationship and let a virgin guy have you..
I wasn't asking for a relationship
Well then I presume you don't live around human males
Why do you presume that
Because men don't have standards..They will adore every women.. If she lets them.. Every women has her personal beauty advantages.. But there are always deal breakers. Like they are too religious.. Not medically fit.. Etc etc..
I don't live around human males
Okay i am guessing you are stuck like me..Have really low standards.. Okay with an average girl.. But you want it in a short term relationship.. So your first time is memorable even for your death bed..
Can we talk on personal message
I'm not like you
Get a male sex robot. They'll be here soon if they're not already in your local shops.
I hope they have customization options. The ones I've seen online aren't even cute
Calling BS. A robot won’t provide intamacy.
@Jackson8650 no but it's better than nothing
No female on the planet has to live without sex unless she chooses to.
This isn't about sex. It's about intimacy
Lower your standards.
What makes you think I have standards
Because you are a female who can't seem to find a guy to give her intimacy. That means you are a 4/10 who won't settle for less than a 8/10 guy. 7's and below are invisible to you.
Wrong. I don't look. I don't ask people out. I don't date. I can't reject anyone if no one is interested in me, which I understand. I want something I'll never have, which Is why I said I'll die alone
Besides, not once did I ever insinuate that I can't find a guy to give me intimacy
Then what was the point of your original question?
How do i get of my urges, any pills or something
Probably Xanax. But a vibrator would be cheaper.
I guess I could always return it if the vibrator turns out to be a waste if money
Right, there’s plenty of dick to choose from.
@Ninjazzed lol that's not what i meant
I know exactly what you meant, just make yourself accessible and start considering your options, especially at your age.
Whatever justifies your odd celibacy.
@Ninjazzed I don't want to do that
I'm not going to put myself out there just to be rejected
If you don’t take risks, then what’s the point of questioning yourself?
@Ninjazzed what do you mean by questioning myself?
why not have a few friends with benefits and then u can get as much attention as you need?
I don't even have friends
follow me for a chat?
Chat about what
hate others butting in
No one has butted in
they prob would when we talk more personal anyways up to u your loss
If they do then just ignore them. But how is giving advice a personal issue?
first question?do you masturbateand if you don't why?
It doesn't feel good
what lol so you don't like rubbing your clit?im sure that would feel good look if you can't hold it in go find someone you like a friend at least
It doesn't feel good when I rub my clit and I don't like anyone
then good luck hun the day you actually look at us men as human beingsis the day you will find someone you like
Huh? Of course I look at men as human beings, why wouldn't I?
It doesn't feel good when I rub my clit (AND I DON'T LIKE ANYONE)hmmmmmI wonder why?
because you women look at men as a resource not a human being and that has been proven
What the heck does masturbation have to do with men? And I don't have any men in my life so how can I look at one as a resource?
wow you don't even understand your design?
Well can you explain it to me
you are designed to like men in a sexual way
ok, I never said I didn't
She’s biologically hard-wired to find men attractive, of course.. but then again there’s a slight chance that she could very well be asexual and she just doesn’t realize it yet..Or maybe she’s just waiting for that certain decent guy to come along.
But I wouldn’t jump to conclusions and automatically assume she’s materialistic. Men shouldn’t be this delusional, jesus. Take a hint,
@Ninjazzed I don't think I'm asexual. I'm attracted to guys I just haven't been attracted to one in person
well clocks a ticking
Oh my God, everyone seems to have the same problem. We need to find cure for this i mean it. I had that problem when i was your age. The best way to stop feeling frustrated is internet dating. Fake life but it feels better than nothing
Have lots of sex! Need help?
Become someone's girlfriend!
No one wants me to be their girlfriend
Did you ask EVERYONE?
No, but the answer would be no :(
You never asked me.
It doesn't matter
You can always become a nun or get a sex change! Or both!
Why are you going to die alone?
Because it's rare for me to like someone and no one likes me anyway
Most are rarely aware of everyone that likes them.
Maybe other people don't
This is the second one I’ve seen from you and to be honest I don’t know why you post on here because you are such a pain in the ass to try to help.
How? What did you suggest?
Just say “okay thanks for the feedback” or something instead of being “I’ve tried that” “I can’t afford that” “nobody likes me” when it seems like you don’t try to get somebody to like you.
Okay thanks for the feedback
I just kind of expected suggestions other than "get a boyfriend"
Grab big dick. Fixed.
It doesn't have to be big
Doesn't have to be a dick either. :)
Why do you think you will die alone?
Because no one wants to be with me
Get a boyfriend or husband.
That would be too much work
You're kidding right? A woman your age can get a boyfriend within minutes if she wants.
It's too much work to find someone I would like
And if I managed to find someone that I like, then my heart would be broken when they tell me that they're repulsed by me. So it's better not to go through all that
My gosh, those are awful feelings to have. Someone out there will appreciate you.
No because I'm not going to let myself like someone
You can't. Its hormones.
Is there a pill I can take to get rid of it?
Don't know, but don't do that. Just go find a man to marry.
That's too much
What's wrong with taking pills though?
Have you tried masturbation?
I know it's not the same as with a man , but how is that going?
I don't know what it's like to be with anyone but it doesn't help since it doesn't feel good
Masturbation doesn't feel good? Why?
I don't know the reason. Maybe my body knows it's me doing it and that's the problem
I don't think so. You're not relaxed enough. Have you tried doing it while watching an erotic movie or romantic one. Or reading an erotic book. Or porn if you think it might work.
I've tried all that. It doesn't do anything for me
Find yourself a man and you know from there...
That's too much work
No it's not. Men are simple. As long as you give a man food and pussy he'll be yours forever.
I don't know how to make someone like me
Read on the internet about how you can make yourself wanted by men. There are loads of suggestions.
That's just too much work, I'd rather get a sex doll
Good. Get a sex doll them.
I guess I'll be 57 when I actually have enough money to spend on one 😂
So basically nothing works for you?
What do you mean
No friends no boyfriend no sex doll no masturbation
I didn't say no to the sex doll. I'm just saying that it'll be awhile until I can afford to buy one, if I had the money now, I would buy one
I got that. But when the time comes you're probably going to spend it on something else that you'll find more important at that age. So still... No sex doll
No sex doll then, at least not yet
So what is your plan? What are doing with your life? What's next now?
My plan regarding what?
I don't have any plans
You just go with the flow like? Don't you have a a career progression plan? A life plan? Husband? Children? Stuff like this.
I just go with the flow & no to everything else
Ok then. Good luck to you
Masturbation for one.
Do you have any suggestions that might actually work?
Look, Humans are social creatures, and like all animals, the drive to mate and breed are very strong and baked into our genes.So unless you are one of those folks who for some reason doesn't feel that urge, it's there.Some psychotropic medications affect it, almost like it has something to do with brain-chemistry!Other than that, burning the energy, and relieving the sexual tension - working out, masturbating that kind of thing.And don't focus on the issue - that will bring it to the fore of your attention and encourage dwelling on it, not helpful.
Any woman can get laid any time she wants.
I don't want to get "laid" I want intimacy, to be intimate with someone that I care about that cares about me
Work out. Get into contact sports
We all have our own fate
What's that supposed to mean
You want a new partner
Like I said, I'm going to die alone
It's all depends on your fate
That is my fate
Why do you say these things?
What do you mean?
Why do you say that you going to die alone?
Because I am
Only you can change that. Whatever your reason is for saying that.
It's my fate
Will you be my gf? I will help you with it
then make me your husband?
I don't want to get married
then how would I fulfill your sexual urges without making you my girlfriend or wife?
lol you are very obstinate girl... You aren't allowing yourself to have some pleasure... this is normal to have urges...
There's nothing that you can do for me
alright have a good day babe...
Anti depressants shuts that shit right off.
what makes you think you're going to die alone?
I just will
na you'll be fine. now me I may just do it.
I'm not going to try to date, so by default, I'll die alone
Why would you want to get rid of it?
Because I can't do anything about them
Just put up a profile on a dating or sex site.
I don't want that. Is there some kind of pill I can take?
sounds like the real issue is low self-esteem.
How is that the issue
Why do you think you will die alone?
Because no one likes me and I don't like anyone
then, there you go.
That's not the issue though
sure seems like it. and not to pressume-but i kinda get the sense you might be trying to deflect the real issue-particularly when you talk about dying alone.
I thought about buying a male sex doll
That might solve the problem
going by what you've already said-it won't be enough. this reminds me of an episode of walker, texas ranger-it dealt with a class with low opinions:
I don't know what else to do then. I know people have suggested exercise and other things to take my off it but when I get those urges, in the moment, I don't want to take my mind off it, I just want to be touched
you need to do something before tthis controls you.
I don't think it's going to control me. It's not like it affects my daily life.
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