A guy tried that on me once. I flat out told him no and started doing it in front of him.
Was he a controlling guy?
Yes.
I imagined so. Hope you got rid of him quickly.
Never heard of it but I can see how some abusers may do it
No never. I would never stay in such a relationship
Sounds very vile.
It is
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I have heard of this but I think a better reward for the abused partner is to leave.
Not in an abusive relationship, but our agreed upon rules state I have to ask and get his permission before I can masturbate. Depending on my behaviour recently he says yes (if I have been good) or no (if I have been bad). It is just a part of our relationship and makes met wet to think he has control over my desire to do so.
I am not sure how an abusive partner could actually force their girlfriend not to because that type of desire is nearly impossible to control when the control isn't mutually agreed on. I imagine it has to do with guilting her.
To be clear, the whole system was my idea. I am a submissive person and like that type of thing.
No. Im a Dom and sometimes i use it as a reward for my subs, littles, n kittens but they also ask before doing it and i almost never say no unless i have something planned for later
Okay but in your case it's a consensual sex game, not abuse
Yeah. They give me their power i give them more love kindness and affection then normal people can handle
I've taken a couple subs from their "doms" bc i saw it wasn't bdsm it was abuse
I have actually never heard of that...
Never heard of this before. Sounds insane. That would be a very short relationship for me. I rarely do it, but the point is, don't try to manipulate me.
One word. Cuckold.
I've never heard of it beyond a fetish.
Because realistically, nobody can control your masturbation unless you choose to let them.
Never heard of it tbh and i dont really think its possible
yes, in the bdsm community it's not uncommon, although I think its primarily for the femdom crowd, might be wrong there
People are just horrible. I wouldn't be able to put up with that.
That's insane
Masturbation, is an individual action for satisfaction, other partner is not required physical only imaging is enough so not abusive
I’ve never heard of this, but that doesn’t make it any less real. I mean I guess I could see why it’d be a bad thing, but sometimes people just aren’t in the mood. I don't know. Sounds confusing.
Did your bitch ex do that to you?
No, she took the route of extreme sexual aggressivity.
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