Will a man still respect a woman who gives him a blowjob on the first date?

[UnknownGagsUser]

[OlderAndWiser]

I think that many men would like to receive oral sex on a first date and many of them will say that they would respect the girl, but that doesn't mean that they would really respect her. Ask whether they would take that girl home to meet their mother or whether they would consider marrying such a girl.

Unless a guy wants to just bury his head in the sand, he must be thinking, "If she gave me oral sex on the first date, she's probably given fifty other guys oral sex on a first date. Do I really want the village blow job queen to go with me to my office Christmas party and meet my boss? Do I really want her to become the mother of my children?"

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[pizzalovershouse]

most guys won't marry a girl who they feel is easy they want a girl who makes them wait

[pizzalovershouse]

mh thanks

[Anonymous]

What's the rush to do anything sexual with someone you know NOTHING about. If someone sought sex with me so quickly, I'd be wary. I'd wonder if the hookup was all they were seeking to begin with.

[Anonymous]

A very excellent question but the most obvious sensible answer must be no because it only goes to show that the person who is giving doesn't respect herself.

[alderoth]

I can't speak for other men, but I most certainly do. Even friends with benefits. I think blowjobs are more intimate than actual sex, but i'm sure that is just me lol.

[AustinMan]

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[chrissykerdock]

everything has a variable... for some guys a blowjob on a 1st date is bliss for some they think about their mother's... I've done both gave them on a 1st date to guys I liked and also guys I didn't intend to see again either... sometimes giving a blowjob is just chicken soup for the soul and I enjoy giving them so what the hell.

[Daniela1982]

So you think a fuck ass cunt should be respected?

[alewis8]

I think most guys would just view her as someone to hookup with after that instead of date seriously

[Alistar88]

Youd have to ask the guy you gave head to, everyone is different and everyone thinks differently. If the question matters ask that guy, not us

[hellionthesagereborn]

Not really. That seems really early and if she was willing to do that (which I would decline to begin with as I hold myself to the same standards I hold others) then it makes you wonder whom else has she done this for?

[Red_Arrow]

If you hit it off really well and talk enough to really get to know the person, you probably are safe doing so with that person. There have been only a couple of times that I have gotten close that quickly.

[Sonorous]

Depends on many variables.

[SarahsSummer]

I think he'll be too busy telling his friends about his first date bj than to think about respecting her or not.

[Optymistyk]

Having sex of any kind binds. Having good sex binds men like nothing else. He will not just respect you, he will love you just a little bit more for it. And if you keep giving him good sex and not be a bitch in general guess what - he will want to have a relationship with you!

[Apple1996]

Yeah I did for my husband and he still respected me

[jjj101010]

He’s a lucky guy

[Kelly6]

I have done it in past

[jason222]

@Kelly6 how many times lol?

[John1972]

Depends on is this date the first date then it's a 90% chance he would not 10% he is a good person and would. On the other hand I'm my opinion is if you knew him before the first date then yes he would.

[nextdoorguy]

I will always respect her. No matter what.

[slatyb]

If they won't, then you are better off without them.

[Kaneki05]

I would. Even sex i would cause it all depends on the hit off and how it leads there.

Plus i am uquine person so if this girl is giving me a Bj probably means i would cling to her a lot. I don't just let any girl give me on you know.

[Minnie97]

Depends on the man. My current boyfriend respects me completely and I gave him oral on our first "date".

[jason222]

@Minnie97 did he ask for it or did you just go for it lol?

[Minnie97]

It was my decision, he didn't ask.

[jason222]

@Minnie97 i bet he enjoyed it! What made you decide to do it on first date?

[Minnie97]

🤷‍♀️ I'm an impulsive creature.

[jason222]

@Minnie97 where were you?

[Minnie97]

I dont remember honestly

[jason222]

@Minnie97 thats hot tho im jelous! how did he react?

[Minnie97]

He was surprised, but he thanked me after.

[jason222]

@Minnie97 i bet! how fast did u make him nut?

[Sevenpointfive]

i'd respect you even more and you'd get a second date!

[ManOnFire]

Love this question🔥 If she's a nice girl and really likes me and is good to me with good intentions even after the blowjob, then I will definitely always respect her.

[Neeceeb7]

Probably not