A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.
Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.
And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.
Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.
Also, look into videos for:
A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).
That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.
Let him face fuck you til he cums. That might help. My girlfriend lets me do that and I then cum each time.
Thats what a friend said too.
Try different techniques. Watch some pirn. It's about sucking the top half and use your hand at the base. Swirl your tongue around the head. Also when going in and out use your tongue along the underside
Some guys take longer to cum. But try the different stuff I read here or just let him fuck you so he can cum. I had a boyfriend like that too.
I did that a few times and he did.
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Slobber up your index and middle fingers, push up into his as--e and finger it good. Works well.
Or you just throw down and give him a rusty trombone.
Stare up in his eyes while your sucking his cock and talk dirty to him while you do it. Also it on your face and gag on in. Beg for his cum and ask for it all over your face. At least that's what I would want
Oh no! All you have to do is apply pressure to "him": Grip it tightly with your lips, to simulate your (other) lips. Suck it! Increase Negative pressure, like a straw! Don't worry, it might take a while, but He'll cum! It's all about stimulation!
Oh yes! Give it lots of spit... Friction is uncomfy... Drool on it, it helps!
Ya I get what you mean.
You could try massaging his prostate well you do it but if he started taking aintidepresants or another medication that can infect it
Play with and suck his balls. While you're sucking play with the balls and jerk him off. work on the tip
Tongue action on the head of the penis and especially the frenulum (where the head meets the shaft on the bottom or front of the penis) is the only thing that makes me cum and even though it feels amazing, it still takes a while. Giving head does not stimulate the entire penis like vaginal sex does. in addition, the thrusting involved in intercourse adds to the tension in the man's body and the overall sexual tension. Just remember that Orgasms don't have to happen every time you do something sexual. Especially if one or both of you are tired. Just spending time making each other feel good has amazing benefits.
Suck and rub in the same time. It should help
Blow while stroking at the same time... make it all feel a long throat he goes through ;)
Play with balls, fondle them, lick them.
When his cock is in our mouth, moan deeply... the vibration will go right through him.
Ask him what he likes , what feels good to him , in short , communication , that is the key to a great experience,
Stimulate the head of his penis by sucking on it. Not even the up and down motion will be needed. Just put your lips on it and make the them tighten and loosen like your are trying to get something through a tube. That is guaranteed to make me finish and probably him too. Ask him what movements make him come from getting a blowjob. Lick and suck on his taint and balls too. It feels awesome.
I'll cum for you, ha
If you've asked and he says it's fine, then it is. You can ask him if there's anything else (different) he likes that maybe you aren't doing? But, having said that, for a lot of us it's simply not enough to get us there that's all and is nothing to do with what you're doing. It's more foreplay. I wouldn't take it personally. Especially if he does with other things and your sex is great otherwise. But yeah, just ask him for more specifics. Or if other girlfriend have done it, ask him what they did. But only he can tell you what he likes. Because like you women, we are all different.
More attention to the head while stroking with your hand
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