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What else aside from pussy do women bring to the table in a relationship?

I'm really asking and I want it to be something that will fill the hole in my soul but I don't think women bring anything like that to the table. It's somewhat suffocating. I don't see much except pussy. It's not like I want to be like that. I love women. But I just don't feel anything that would make me want to be with one for more than a night or two. I've had a lot of women and I never feel anything deeper than fun. I just need to know. What are the benefits a woman brings elsewise?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, behind the best "pussy" is an incredible woman. What I mean by that is that the best sex comes only when men have a real connection with a woman. When he sees her with his heart above all instead of just his lower head. Get to know a woman on a level where you fall in love with her personality and her zest for life. They exist. You will be on cloud 9 having a best friend and person to confide in. You get on that level with a woman and the sex will be out of this world beyond just seeing a woman as only offering a "pussy."

    • For lack of better terms or ways to explain it, when the objectification of just a body part (pussy) is no longer the factor and real connection to the value of the person she is comes into play, her pussy becomes a port on the physical end of the spectrum to both feel her love, and share your love and physical substance back. Its the icing to an already strong foundation.

  • They sure don't bring the value they used to.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You’ll never know until you stop going for the sex. Seriously. The gals that’ll give you sex for the first couple nights, don’t have much else they want to give. The ones who want you to actually give a crap about them before they do that... totally different type of person. So stop going for women who are loose with their bodies, unless of course that’s all you want, cuz that’s fine. It’s just not gonna be successful in the arena you asked about.

    • I feel like people want to believe there's these hoes out there who will throw themselves at any guy nearby and they're the only ones who would have quick sex. But most women aren't like that at all. It's not like I plan it that way it just happens. You'd probably be surprised the kinds of women who will put out quick.

    • Yeah. That’s what I mean. They’re in the minority. But if the only girls you go for are like that, then 100% of the girls you go for... will be like that. It’s like saying you don’t want to date dangerous men, but being attracted to only dangerous men. Are most men dangerous? No. But if the only way a girl is gonna date you, is if you’re dangerous, then she’s not gonna experience anything else.

    • Ahhhh. Okay. Decent theory but I don't think it applies to me. Promiscuous women turn me off. Somewhat ironically. It's common for the women I'm with to want waaaaaaaaay more than sex but I don't even though sometimes I want to want more. They end up giving it to me anyway.

  • I really think it depends on the particular guy what he gets out of it. Like some get emotional support. Some have a financial partnership. Some just want a companion. Some want validation. Some want a live in femdom to tie him to the kitchen table. But if you just want hookups I don’t really think there’s anything wrong with that.

    • Thank you for answering the question. Do you think amount of independence has anything to do with it?

    • Do you mean that you feel very independent? Yeah I think that could. Sometimes people are uncomfortable with emotional intimacy. Especially if their parents aren’t close or if their parents were really critical of them etc.

    • Yes. I had very co-dependent relationships as a teenager but as I aged I became extraordinarily independent. Ironically trying to be more appealing to women now it's like I stopped caring but not enough to where it doesn't feel empty. Weird right? Spend all that time trying to obtain a goal and when you finally get it you don't even see why you wanted it in the first place. Mmm. Maybe that's it. I try to be a stoic but I guess there's downsides to that. You definitely gave me something to think about. Thanks nermsy. :)

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  • That's a good question. That makes me wonder, what do men bring to the table?

    • Not defensiveness and evasiveness.

    • okay, so what do they bring to the table?

    • I'm the one who asked the question. If you want that answer, ask your own. I'm looking for answers, not questions. Unless you're making a larger point revolving around my question in which case I'll play along.

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  • Same thing men do, depends on what you're looking for.

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  • Plenty of women own dogs instead of cats

    • So you're saying I can get her dogs in the deal?

    • R/whoosh

  • I think you need to get the fuck away from pick up artist advice and incel culture.

    Dude women are human beings, not sex objects.

    • I don't view women like sex objects man. Not at all. Of course they're human beings. At least 3 weeks out of the month, they're definitely humans.

  • How can you say you love women when all you think a woman can provide is access to their genitals. I think you may have some self evaluation you need to do to find out why you can't answer this question on your own.

    • I like spending time with women. I enjoy their company. I understand them. But from the women I've been around I don't feel anything deeper that would make me want them long term. Or even medium term. It feels like they're all copy-paste. Believe me I do plenty of self-evaluating. I need some help on this one which is why I'm asking.

    • Well it kind of sounds like you haven't met a woman that you've actually made a connection with. It's a out having someone that you feel you can share everything in your life with and wanting that person to share everything in their life with you.

    • But you are also almost asking "what is love" which is a very difficult question to answer and one that people have been trying to figure out since forever soooooooo I'm not sure you're gonna get a gratifying answer here lol

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  • Some women can cook, also I don't believe that you ever had much feelings for a woman.

    tvtropes.org/.../FeminineWomenCanCook

  • Boobs obviously

    • Don’t see what they bring to table we’ll stop thinking about them as women for a sec and tho k of them as people what does another person bring to the table a lot

    • Tbh I feel like the reasons so many people want to be in relationships besides sex is to have someone who cares about them looking over there shoulder I mean as we get older our parents fade more and more but that does not mean we truly want to stop feeling as if someone is there for us

  • Nothing

  • Nothing really.

  • They're humans. They bring a romantic relationship. If you are just in a sexual but and aren't attracted romantically you may be aromantic.

  • Gets easier when you have children. You learn how to work together.. to take care of another living thing

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