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If a guy ask a girl for a rimjob does that mean he doesn't respect / like her?

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  • Like all things of an intimate nature, communication is key - I hope that we are in a situation where we respect each other to ask about things and we can say yes or no, we do/don't like that.
    To me in intimacy, anything goes once both consent and the basic rules of respect, looking after each other are followed. I could give a long list of criteria and boundaries but once nobody is harmed/abused is probably overriding principle

  • I lick my girlfriend's asshole, and enjoy it. I would like it if she licked mine. She hasn't yet, but I hope she eventually feels comfortable enough to do it to me, but I won't force her. It's not demeaning orca lack of love. Just like sex is not a single position, licking an asshole is just a different part of a relationship.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That is how I would interpret it and that would probably be the last time I talk to that guy.

    I don't want to be associated with perverts and those that like to demean girls for their sole sexual pleasure, regardless of the looks of the guy.

    • Thank you

    • Almost everyone has kinks. Sexualitly is a very normal and common topic and having certain preferences in corelation to that, doesn't automatically make someone a pervert who disrespects one's partner. It's fine to ask but bad to force. I love giving oral because I love pleasuring my girlfriend. Now, she's usually too embarrassed to do that but even if she asked me to lick her, that would not be disrespectful in the slightest. We're partners and should be able to be open to one another. Wether I'll do it or not is always my own choice.

    • Sorry.. Wanted to write that as an opinion, not a reply to this comment.

  • What? No, it doesn't mean that. It means he likes his ass licked.

    • Who doesn’t

    • @Dantheman101 You say that as if I should know or care.

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  • never had a desire for that, even in my sexual dreams, hence I wouldn't ask for something... I consider such a question as degradation attempt

  • No it means it feels good to him. Just wash first.

  • Not necessarily but it depends a lot on context

  • Not at all

    • Then?

    • It’s just his kink

  • no it litterally means they wanna eat your ass, cause they're into that sort of thing. that's it.

  • I think the more pertinent question is, did you do it?

  • Does this sound erotic, or romantic to you?
    YOU:
    "Hey baby... would you lick my anus crack for me cuz I really like that? I promise I'll wash it really well before you do, and it will be nice and clean. What do you say?"
    I think not. Likely response:
    HER: " Get the fuck out of my house and don't come back"

  • Maybe, maybe not.
    What it DOES mean is that he likes having his butt-hole licked.

  • Nah he's just into you and rimjobs lol.

  • No, it means he wants his ass eaten.

  • Nope. The girl should let him do it of she feels comfortable with that or not of she doesn't feel comfortable doing it. There's no respect or non respect here

    • He wants me to do it to him

    • Do u not want to

    • If you're comfortable with that do it. If not don't. But it has nothing to do with respect

  • Yes and no. If he just comes out and asks without being a subject then yes it is disrespectful. If the subject was sex and you were talking about what he wanted then he must have a fetish and wanted you to do it.

  • him first and eat some corn , it is always second time around.

  • That can go both ways... true love... or disrespect. Depends on the relationship

  • You mean you wanna do it or have it done to you?

  • That’s disgusting, all that fecal bacteria 🦠.

  • No. It means that he wants to find out if she's fun ;) But again, if she's gonna do it, so should he.

  • Possibly but not necessarily.

    • nah.

  • No, it means he likes it!

  • Nothing like that

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