Nothing bad about it. However you might have problems with confidence if you are in a group of friends, who have a different opinion.
If you gain your confidence from elsewhere, for example your career or your relationship to family, or you are convinced that saving yourself for marriage is good for your religious practice and you are serious about it, you shouldn't see it as a problem.
It's easier for woman to do this however, since they are usually passive in courting. Men have to be active and thus - confident.
You will do good to actively seak out a woman, that is also saving herself.
I think, that the best reason to save yourself is if you want a qualitatively better relationship. You want it to be based in friendship and mutual care. So sex should be a part of that and not a distraction from it.
If that's the case, you should try to train your ability to show care, confidence and a giving attitude in conversation and gestures with women (everyone actually).
Then if you win her over with conversation and gestures, you can talk about your ideology and commitment to your way of life.
But not the other way around, since that might scare her off.
If a woman is infatuated enough, she might even consider following you in your way of life, if she was against it before.
Don't wait it too long though because when you wait too long your confidence will get weaker and weaker you will turn into weird guy that has no idea how to approach women or how to fuck.
Confidence is key in order to women want to have sex with you and if you become over 30 years old or even worse 40 years old virgin you will not have a healthy relationship with women and women don't like virgin men to be honest.
They want experienced, a good fucker. And you need to find a woman exactly like you and i don't know can you find it or not.
Women love sex even more than you do. They get it and doing it all the time. If you wait too long they will not be interested with you, sorry dude. Because they will think there is something wrong with you.
There's no definite right or wrong, unless one is religious and strongly stands by their teachings and beliefs/values, to where it influences their views on sex before marriage.
You are entitled to your views. But for myself personally, I find sex to be a sacred thing, but not necessarily something that I care to limit and save for ONLY my future husband. I'm not one who can see and know my future for certain, as I love to live in the moment. I view physical intimacy as a step and part of trust in a loving relationship where I care to share myself in the moment of consenting to be vulnerable with the person whom I love (am dating) - will the guy I'm dating be my forever partner - maybe, maybe not.
It is COMPLETELY about what your ethics are. If you've decided not to have sex before marriage, then stick to your guns and remain celibate. One thing is sure. You will not accidentally have a child with someone you don't know well or contract an STI. You can certainly kiss and make out before marriage to see if you're compatible in general. Foreplay is enjoyable without full on sex. Keep your clothes on and tell your partner your principles. You'll find someone who lines up with you eventually.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Depends on what you personally believe in, as well as your culture and potential religion. Everyone is going to have a different opinion on this but only you can decide what you feel is morally right for you.
I personally don't believe any kind of sex before marriage is wrong. In fact I'd rather be sleeping with someone before even an engagement.
I won't propose before 3 years and won't wait more than 2 years for sex
I dare you
@Ashalia To what?
Dont get a hooker to loose lose your virginity my gawd. You're going to open up a huge can of worms that many of which will make you undesirable for a good woman. There is nothing wrong with waiting until marriage it's an admirable trait. Just be aware that men tend to look down on Male virgins and up on Female. So who are you trying to impress... your friends or future mate?
Not trying to impress anyone. In my country premarital sex is considered wrong. So i dont feel like doing it.
Then you shouldn't. I'm in the USA and I waited. There is no shame in virginity. There is a lot more weight put on a womans and shame when not but that's my country
I would very much discourage prostitutes or photography because it warps what's natural between a man and woman. But that's just my opinion
I absolutely agree in sex only after marriage. I am of the same mindset, and there is nothing wrong with this mindset. It is admirable.
U belong to which country
look at my picture... which country do you think? ;)
India
It is totally up to each individual to choose what they want to do. Is is bad? No I don't think it is bad. I do believe that the majority have had sex before marriage with or not with the person they end up marrying and the marriage goes just fine.
I see nothing wrong with sex before marriage. I don't think it's a sin or anything.
However, if you feel that it's wrong then don't do it.
premarital sex is a sin ! wait until your honeymoon with your wife to have endless , hot sex ! Thanks
Casual sex before marriage is fun.
If that is your belief then stick by it. In general, there is a risk of STD.
Ultimately you do you is my answer, but if you are struggling with this situation and looking for other options i have some things to say. Marriage is fabricated to serve an external advantage. The classic arranged marriage and two families gather force's and go to war with another family of families of another power of force. Power struggles and ways of cementing that alliance.
Even if we go with the more modest peasants. A guy wants to marry a daughter, he offers 2 pigs to the father. Then ultimately the guy in hesitates from the daughter's father the land and pigs. It's all legal mumbo jumbo that's not necessarily with safe sex.
That's my understanding of the legal system history and level of grandeur of marriage that we have today. From that who the fuck cares about sex except perverts in power wanting power over virgins.
Not options but opinions
It's a personal choice, but if you want a sexually "pure" partner then its best to practice what you preach.
I say no as long as everyone is tested and protected from pregnancy. 🌸💜🌸
As long as everybody involved is consenting to it, there's nothing wrong with it.
What's considered wrong is based on a person's individual morals. That's your decision to make
Bad? In what way? Most people do not wait for marriage. At least not in Western culture. And they don't regret it.
Im not from a western country. I feel that if i do it, that would be cheating on my future wife
That's illogical. If you are disease and child free when you meet her then the past is immaterial.
There is nothing wrong either way you choose to go.
No sex: your wife has no worries of you being tainted by another woman she deems unattractive. But on the other hand your inexperienced.
Sex: your woman may be weary of who you’ve slept with. (Only If conversation goes that way). But on the other hand you have experience to blow her mind sexually.
I'm not somebody who judges people's decisions, and it isn't something to be ashamed of. I believe there are circumstances that people have sex before marriage, for example, having a long term relationship, a person who doesn't really want to get married, etcetera
Before I drive a car in public - I need driving lessons.
Sex before marriage is fun. I personally have never used a hooker, but I don't think it's morally wrong or anything.
So is sex after marriage.
@Holy_Ghost_Fire I've never been married, but I imagine it's even more fun
Casual sex is for shallow impatient people...
Waiting until afters is His plan
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4
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