How do I tell him that I orgasmed?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been regularly hooking up with this guy since mid May, and I had yet to orgasm with him... until today.

bit of a backstory, he’s the first and only guy I’ve ever had sex with. He’s very nice and makes me feel comfortable and isn’t selfish in bed. He always pleasures me first and then I do him. However I’ve never had an orgasm with him. Even when I masturbate in front of him on my own I haven’t been able to reach climax. I’ve only ever done it by myself.

Anyways, We have been talking about what new things to try, and I said I had a vibrator that I’d like to try. And he said he wanted to try to make me squirt. Turns out I can indeed squirt and it felt pretty good but I didn’t orgasm. However, we had sex right after I squirt so I was extra wet down there and we were just in missionary, but I actually orgasmed! For the first time! We actually both orgasmed at the same time which was actually really fast lol. But I’m not loud or anything so he didn’t noticed that I finished. And then I didn’t wanna just blurt out “hey I just orgasmed too” and now it’s too late so I don't know if I should text him “btw I did orgasm” or like I don't know what to do. Pls help lol. I know he really wants to make me orgasm but I feel like it would be weird to tell him now.

[wonder1985]

Tell him it will really boost his confidence and make him happy I promise you and when you're about to come next time or you feel like it's filling good to where you could tell him to keep doing what he's doing and baby I'm almost getting there it feels good keep going and then AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH BABY I CAME MMMMMMMM

[buttcrackjoe]

My ex was always honest about when she came or not and I appreciated her honesty and it gave me a challenge which i found sexy. So be honest with him it will feel like an accomplishment guys have deep insecurity about not pleasing a girl in bed

[Asker]

Yeah I’ve been honest about everything so far, but I guess I’m just not the type of person who announces that I’m cumming so in that moment I didn’t even know what to do. I’m also used to not making sounds because I’ve always lived with other people so with him I’m still getting used to just letting sounds out so maybe the next time I’ll be louder or even just tell him. Thanks!

[buttcrackjoe]

Well my ex just told me after we were already done and just laying there if that helps she wasn't very vocal either

[Asker]

Oooh okay, yeah, I was debating whether or not to say “hey by the way I came” when we were just chilling afterwards

[Anonymous]

Honestly I wouldn't say anything maybe next time you have sex and you orgasm make some noises or say oh baby I'm cumming

[meandane]

I'd just text him "come over and make me cum again" 😁

[ImNewHere91]

Here i am hahaha

[jaygee933]

Congratulations! But seriously yeah, just tell him next time you talk to him. Regardless of how you tell him, it's gonna make him feel awesome

[noelic]

Let him know anytime

[CapnHawk]

Every woman I've been with verbally told me they were cumming.

[Asker]

Like they literally say “I’m cumming” or “I’m gonna cum” kinda thing.

[CapnHawk]

Exactly

[Sweetlife66]

And orgasm is the best feeling ever. I have never had sex before, never had a girlfriend, and never dated but I do masterbaite. Masterbaiting feels so great. And when I start to have an orgasm white I am masterbaiting my head will life if my pillow and my legs will start to shake till I cum. It is literally the best feeling in the whole world

[chrishall4102]

Be honest with him

[megaman242]

You can tell him that what we did there, what you did there, I enjoyed that extra more. Not really Shure how, just compliment the bits you like to enforce his confidence in that earia.