Do you lose interest in a girl after she sends you nudes?

[Kristie13468]

[honorboundHeart884]

I honestly feel , awkward all the time, i feel invisible. So answering this. I find mixed state of being. Im different than a large amount of the social world community. I ve been bullied as child, teenager. Some as an adult. Getting to the point, women and sending nudes. I honestly im not against freedom of expression. But who else did said lady send them too.

Im kind and loving man, but my hearts been hurt a lot by life.

So no pics have made their way to me in my life time.

So i travel a path less traveled until love find me wholly.

[MrOracle]

My interest in her rarely has anything to do with whether or not she has sent nudes. But if nudes were all a guy was after, then it stands to reason that he would not maintain his interest very long afterwards.

If you have a real relationship with a guy, that's another thing entirely.

[Daniela1982]

Apparently some girls can not win a guy with their charm and personality so try and attract guys with their body. Their body gets older and wrinkly while their personality and charm gets even greater as time progresses. I still can't figure out why they do it. The must have no self respect or dignity and low self esteem.

Rolls eyes

[Daniela1982]

Ha! The pink down votes are either fake pink accounts or are those sending the nudes. Good job girls!

[no1else]

I think sexual conduct of women has been scrutinised and morally defining for long enough. Im a demisexual gi. Slow to Make sexual advances or respond to them. But I think women need to stop harassing women and using the names that were ince used by men to control their behaviour

[InTimoreDei]

Yup. Girls that send nudes usually have really low self esteem. A girl sent me nudes before without me ever asking and she constantly told me how self conscious she was about her body. So she wanted me to react to the nudes to make herself feel better.

[no1else]

It's more so about how they feel worth is placed on them. In a society tulhat celebrates beauty and sexuality over knowledge and kindness, these people are just the symptom of our diseased collective consciousness

[InTimoreDei]

@no1else scapegoating will get you nowhere

[no1else]

Good response 🤗

[Kroakies_krickees]

I do it because I genuinely like the guy and want him to enjoy looking at me.

[no1else]

Once you are happy and safe from exploitation, I'm happy you've tuned into and found your uninhibited sexual self. Women get enough servings of shame from men.

[Unwaveringquestions]

I think it’s sad that you chose to put women down for their choices. Who cares! We should be supporting one another than just belittling for making choices. Women have enough criticism from men, and from themselves, they don’t need it from other women too. Isn’t that what this era is about? Women empowerment? Speaking up? womens strength in numbers? and if you truly believe that they are sending nudes out of low self esteem, then help those women feel confidant with themselves by being kind and supportive.

[Daniela1982]

@Unwaveringquestions The truth is girls today feel left out in teen social groups if they don't have a boyfriend. I know, it sounds crazy but that is how it is. They feel kike they have to give sex, even if they don't want to, because their boyfriend pressures them and if they don't they get dumped. These girls are usually from low income families and have lower self esteem and self image. They want to feel accepted and not be the odd girl out. Sad, but that is life in the big city.

[Unwaveringquestions]

@daniela1982 well I’m from a low income family, and deal with low self esteem. And I don’t have that view whatsoever. Every girl no matter what social economical background and personal views on themselves could deal with those challenges through their lives. It’s the support they have, the choices they make, and respect they receive and give that helps determine their views on relationships. Plus a lot of it is nurture. What the parents are like as role models. I don’t believe you can just pinpoint a group and say that they are more likely to be or respond a certain Way. I have met many girls who come from money, and who rarely self esteem issues who would put themselves out there towards men. And actually had a reputation for it. So it doesn’t matter what background they are from. Relationship are hard. And yes they do define sometimes our society. But again it goes into choices. Lack of support. And people putting women down for the wrong choice instead of helping build them back up.

[Lizzy3469]

Quite the opposite actually they possess the knowledge of their own unique sexual identities.

[MissKittyz]

When I first met my fiancé, before we started dating, he sure as hell didn't lose interest lol I've sent him nudes before we were bf/gf and it got him more interested lol

But, I'm not saying it works. Everyone is different. But it can with some guys, and can't with some.

[leinad122]

Agreed I think if the person loose interest after the nudes means either he didn't like the nude either he is already in a relationship and wanted only the nude then disappear

[AustinMan]

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[sugarchateau]

would it matter what they think if they lost interest after a damn nude?
sweetheart, people are dying

[harvest]

Depends on the type of nudes you send...
In some cases it may actually make me want you even more! But in other cases it crushes any "mistery" there is to be found about your body and it kind of kills the vibe :/

[Bub64xp]

Nah. I'm a fan. But personally, I think leaving some stuff to the imagination is really enticing.

[Claireluvskaren]

Could be interesting, I have received a few, one by mistake, it was from a friend, she accidentally added me to a text intended for her boyfriend. after she became aware of her error, she would send me pics as a joke. I would need to see the picture before making a judgement.

[Mcluven]

Maybe it wasn't by accident then

[Claireluvskaren]

@Mcluven very true, but it was a very provocative pose.

[Mcluven]

That can mean anything

[NightFlirt]

Not at all, anyone who dose ghost a girl after she sends them a nude is a dumb ass.

[GhettoGirl]

Even if she were a deliciously pretty girl sending me nudes or a guy I thought hot, they would immediately be blocked and unfriended in life for this egregious error.

[AbleLearner]

I don't mind if the woman sends me nudes. The female body is amazing.

[Adenn]

I dont think I would, probably more interest honestly

[Red_Arrow]

Nope. At my age I am not looking for a long term relationship. But I enjoy playful teasing. If a woman sends me nudes, I appreciate her for that and enjoy continuing the relationship we have. If I was younger and looking for an SO, I would probably increase my interest because she has opened up to me. Either way, I am not losing interest in her.

[molonski2]

If that's really what she is into it wouldn't bother me too much. I may have the thought however that I hope she does not send these with gay abandon.

[Flamdring]

No. If I am interested in her and she sends me nudes, it will increase my interest in her.

[Madhatter920]

Personally, I get more interested. I guess if you saw nudes and didn't like what you see, you might pull back a bit, but generally, I view it as a plus. It means she's really interested, a bit brave, and trusts you. All of which are turn ons.

[lightbulb27]

instantaneously, no matter what she looks like.

[xkildy]

I don't understand why a girl would send nudes in the first place maybe to mess around with the guy and send them other guy nudes. But honestly she put the camera away lol..

[BadApple1]

I don’t know... send me some and we’ll find out ;) lol

[SnowFoxy1]

I know I do.

[JackSmy]

NO! But I NEVER expect her to send nudes! I prefer to be with her, and experience her, close up and personal! Long distance, only when I ask her, and only when we are really CLOSE, and EXCLUSIVE!!
And then, only specific ones, with specific angles!

[Apple1996]

I think most guys gain interest

[SkipStop]

Not if I'm attracted to her. It makes me like her even more because she trusts me. Unless I knew from earlier that she's a slut and sends nudes to everyone.