Are people who have a poop/pee fetish born with that sexuality?

[Anonymous]

[aa180]

I have that fetish myself and nah, it kinda started off as a normal ass fetish in high school (which a lot of guys have), and then it started to gradually develop and extend further over time and eventually lead to or "evolved" into a fart & poop fetish (through both porn and my own fantasies).

But yeah, perhaps you could hypothesize that it was always there from birth, tucked away deep into my brain and I simply had to "unlock" or "uncover" it bit by bit before it emerged as an integral part of me. Who knows 🤷

[Asker]

If you were to engage with a partner who is also into it, during the act, would you consider your behavior, or your partners behavior as submissive or dominant? Or maybe it’s more of an equal but loving thing?

[aa180]

Oh ffs, why does everyone have to attach a dominant-submissive dynamic interpretation to every single sex act? I personally don't subscribe to either category and to me sex is just about sex, not control or power. I know it won't make sense to you but I kind of think of my fetish as a weird way of being seduced, not dominated or even degraded (though I can see why someone would view it as degrading). To be fair though, a lot of (or perhaps most) guys with my fetish *do* tend to identify as submissive, I just happen not to personally.

[Asker]

I don’t know why you would get upset. I’m just trying to understand sexuality in general. I can easily understand how being submissive would work in the scar fetish world. But I know that sexuality isn’t locked into that. Which is why I asked. And also was hoping to see if any sort of further explanation could come out as a result of the question. I think a big part of understanding sexuality, is people inteospecting and trying to understand why they feel the way they feel. But obviously sometimes it’s not clear at all. It just turns you on and you don’t know why. The reason why I ask about dom/sub, is because I know dom/sub sexuality can be developed. It’s not necessarily because you were born like that. But if it’s not a dom/sub feeling, it’s something else that we have trouble putting our finger on. It’s very interesting.

[aa180]

Nah it's just that literally every person I come across is incapable of envisaging sex unless they include a dom/sub element into it which kinda annoys me since I seem to be the only person who never thought of sex in that way. But anyways, I actually don't view my fetishes as being mysterious or "unexplained" - to me they make perfect sense. I know that I find asses arousing cause they're round, soft, curvy smooth, warm - basically everything you'd want them to be. So I find that it's only a natural extension to then start incorporating even their scent as a source of arousal as well. A girl's ass scent is perhaps her most personal and private scent, it's naturally-occurring rather than artificially put, it's "dirty" which makes it "naughty", and a part of it just makes it feel animalistic. You're basically smelling her body's most raw scent, and I just find that to be really hot. The smell itself I find is rather pleasant too. Does that help you understand my fetish better?

[Asker]

Yes I think it is helpful the way you described it. Thank you, it makes a lot of sense.

[aa180]

You're welcome

[sugarchateau]

everything is a learned behavior, a choice- desire works due to emotional attachments which typically originate in early childhood development... Or if you believe in past lives... you could say that it is just shitty karma. and they probably deserve it. lol.

[Lauren-green]

No I think it something that they develop, either through weird misinterpretation which turns sexual if in that context. It's more a "fetish" that is learnt than anything else

[Neeceeb7]

No I think they learn it

[Iron_Man]

Im not sure