Guys, How long does it take for you to cum?

Do you I'm any faster with the following?
Masturbation
Anal sex
Vaginal sex
Oral sex
Handjob
My current boyfriend takes so long to cum and this can be good because I enjoy sex and him last long means longer sex sessions. However during oral I cannot go that long without getting a sore jaw. No matter what kind of sex we have , he has always taken a long time to cum.
Said its been like that all his life. So I know its not me or my techniques.
What is the "normal" (or most common) amount of time it takes for a man to ejaculate?
Guys, How long does it take for you to cum?
5 minutes or less
Vote A
5-10 minutes
Vote B
10-15 minutes
Vote C
15-20 minutes
Vote D
20-25 minutes
Vote E
25 or more
Vote F
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  • I "can" cum in as little as a few minutes if I want to, but I rarely do unless I'm just masturbating and want to reach the goal and move on. If I'm having sex with my wife I just exercise some control and don't cum until she has cum first.

    For me the quickest way to achieve orgasm is masturbating, followed by anal and then vaginal. Oral doesn't do much for me so my wife doesn't give me oral for more than just a few minutes during foreplay before we move on to something else.

    I typically start out in her vagina and finish in her ass. I'll spend 10 minutes or more in her vagina but we both usually don't orgasm until I'm in her ass. I will let her cum first and then I'll cum, and that usually happens within about 5 minutes after we start anal.

    Hope that helps.

    • I wanted to mention too that I cum pretty fast when she gives me a hand job. She is pretty good at it and I think the fact that she can squeeze more with her hand than her vagina or ass is why it happens so fast that way. Good luck to you and your boyfriend.

  • I don't really know, I picked a random one. I think it really depends on the person and the situation. You shouldn't really over think it. Neither should boy that cum too early. It depends on everyone. In the end, sex is a thing you do with someone else, you just need to find the good someone else.
    PS : I'm not saying your boyfriend is not the one for you, don't get me wrong, I'm just saying that sex is an "adventure" where you need to find the partner you want to go with that match your needs for this "Adventure".
    PS2: this metaphor was embarrassing

    • Well he's said no matter who he's been with he's always taken a while. When its normal sex I really love it. But trying to give a blow job for 30 or 40 minutes just isn't realistic so oral is more part of foreplay than the thing that actually finishes him off

    • Then there are no issue. You get to have great sex for the only issue being that he can't cum with your mouth only. I'd say you found quite the perfect guy for you. The only thing your should ask yourself is if you don't mind not being able to make him cum with your mouth only , if he can have sex with you for a long time without cumming. And I'm pretty sure you have your answer already.

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  • 30 minutes was the fastest until now 🤔

    Normally between 1h or 1 1/2h..

    And the most stimulation i get when having anal with a Girl 🤔

    So dont worry about it

  • It takes me about 10 minutes to cum when I masturbate. When I am edging I can last up to an hour before I cum!

  • I cum in 45 seconds or less. Normally around 30 seconds on average. Doesn't matter if it's a handjob, blowjob, or sex.

  • Do you I'm any faster with the following?
    Masturbation - Depends on porn
    Anal sex - Faster : Its tighter and makes girls squirm
    Vaginal sex - Slower as it loosens over time
    Oral sex - Slower can't be as into as you can when pounding away
    Handjob - for ever because im not 15

    Try taking dirty , or a fetish. Spice it up , he might finish faster. Also technique can ALWAYS be better , watch porn for some new tricks

    • I have watched porn for tips. I switch it up. believe me based on his moans and the look on his face I know he's enjoying it. Just wish I knew a trick to help him cum faster especially during oral

    • Finger in the butt?

  • It depends...

  • Masterbation is almost always faster, it's inconsistent now due to me having testicular torsion last April and I haven't been the same since. Anal I'm inconsistent as it depends largely on my pace, vaginal was a bit quicker, I haven't done just oral or a handjob. I've only had sex 4 times in my life

  • I can cum on demand. I usually let whoever ime with get off a couple times them I cum with them or a little after

  • 20 seconds

  • I cum faster on my own usually

  • Masturbation - edging = awhile/ just for a cumshot 30 secs to 5 minutes
    Anal sex - never have/never will
    Vaginal sex - 1st orgasm = fast
    Oral sex - less than 5 minutes
    Handjob - depends on her technique

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