Is there anything WRONG with hating PROMISCUITY?

[Anonymous]

I hate promiscuity, I think hook up culture is an abomination to society, but sometimes when I express my opinion over it people get offended.

I'm a full blown Atheist so this has no religious ties. I think people sleeping around with many different people is disgusting. Back in the day, being promiscuous was looked down upon, but these days people wear it on their sleeve. I also hate teenagers having sex, I think sex and dating in general should be saved at least until you're a bit older and you're able to make better logical decisions. I also think saying that "humans are naturally promiscuous" is a horrible excuse, if you're going to ignore the process of evolution that much then you might as well live in the woods like a chimp, sure our early ancestors were promiscuous so they could populate but after over 200,000 years of evolution we've become monogamist since we don't need to populate as much anymore. I'm not a hypocrite at all, I'm a virgin myself and is saving dating for later in life and is considering on waiting until marriage, and I would only date another virgin mostly because fuck the social norm. Call me a hopeless romantic if you want, I'm perfectly fine with living my whole life alone.

When I express my opinions, some people get upset and call me insecure, loser, etc. they say that I'm wrong and offensive and I should be ashamed. Look, my personal opinion is my opinion and I will always stand by it.

I don't have a double standard, I hate promiscuity amongst males as much as females if not more. Men who've had sex with tons of women are not champs.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think promiscuity should be illegal or anything and I don't think it's morally wrong. It's the same way I see smoking cigarettes, doing drugs and getting drunk, I don't want you to do it, I'll discourage you from doing it, but if you decide to do it anyway I'm not going to stop you, but leave me out of it.

[FakeName123]

No, there isn't.

Promiscuous people have been linked again and again to...
... mental instability and higher rates of mental illness
... higher rates of STDs (It's a numbers game)
... be more likely to be a single parent (numbers game)
... have higher rates of abortion (numbers game)
... have less stable relationships and higher divorce rates
... have increased chances of having been in an abusive relationship
... be more likely to cheat
... be more likely to become addicted
... be more likely to come out of a broken household.


Want some sources?

cdn.freedomainradio.com/...iage_Partners_Study.pdf
-> Page 19-25. Especially Page 24-25 is quite relevant.

www.everydayhealth.com/.../...eaten-longevity.aspx

medicalxpress.com/.../...partners-linked-drug.html

news-releases.uiowa.edu/.../061411paik_study.html

www.barbararisman.com/.../...earch_final_paper.pdf

www.ideals.illinois.edu/.../Saroj_Hardit.pdf
-> Promiscuity is linked to sexual aggression.
-> Page 59. "The number of sexual partners was positively related to parental violence."
-> Page 70. "As the number of sexual partners increased, so did the propensity to sexually aggression."

http://www.bradley.edu/dotAsset/165862.pdf
-> Page 4. "Perhaps the strongest personality correlate of risky sexual behaviour is impulsive sensation-seeking"
-> Page 8. Promiscuous people are more likely to be impulsive, have low agreeableness, low conscientiousness, sensation-seeking and a higher level of sexual infidelity.
-> Page 14. "People who describe themselves as more unfaithful tend to have personality traits linked to a lack of trust and empathy (i. e. low agreeableness)"

www.sociopathicstyle.com/psychopathic-traits/
-> Point 11. Promiscuity is a common symptom of psychopathy. Goes hand in hand with the other study mentioning impulsiveness as it shows it here on point 14.

ink.library.smu.edu.sg/.../viewcontent.cgi
-> Page 8. Higher amount of sexual partners is directly linked to higher degrees of psychopathy, narcissism, machiavellianism and an increase of any combination of those 3.

genepi.qimr.edu.au/.../CV262Bailey_UQ_Copy.pdf
-> Page 4, Table 1. (Note: Sociosexuality = Parameter for willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of comitted relationships)

To put it into my own words: I think promiscuity is a symptom of mental instability and is a way of self-destructive behaviour, just like i. e. Obesity (not physical-health induced obesity). It's a huge red flag objectively, biologically and evolutionary for anyone who wants a comitted and successful relationship.
Thus there is no logical argument to me that promiscuity is in any way to be seen as positive

[ROCKS128]

I wonder why some people get disturbed with others opinions. I always consider such people as opponents, like that lady/lada. Shld never trust them, even if they say i dont care!😂

[Asker]

I find it funny how everyone thinks we're the same person.

[ROCKS128]

If everyone thought like that, communication or so this community would not be existing.

[Dchrls78104]

I hate promiscuity. I hate its soullessnness, its cruelty, and its degeneracy. I hate its role in the spread of venereal diseases such as AIDS. I hate the its role in the increasing number of breakups and divorces and the decreasing permanence of marriages and interpersonal relationships. And I hate that in many places children of all ages are invited to participate in it!

[Asker]

Children are basically being groomed into it through what I'm seeing in today's cartoons and what's being taught in schools, it fucking disgusts me.

[CountessSarah]

FakeName123 responded with a wall of text, with several links, within 30 seconds of the Ask being posted. Did he post this anonymously via an alt account, then agree with himself?

No one cares about your personal preference.
It's mostly just the attempt at policing others behaviour.

"Don't get me wrong, I don't think promiscuity should be illegal or anything and I don't think it's morally wrong."
Good.
"... I don't want you to do it, I'll discourage you from doing it..."
Depending on what exactly this means, I can see how people would get annoyed with this.
If you don't want to fuck, don't. But don't lecture me because I'm doing what I want at no expense to you.

[VikingBlood86]

Unless fakename has insanely fast fingers or a saved response handy for just this occasion... it's the same person.

[FakeName123]

@VikingBlood86 Or maybe this topic came up so often that I simply saved it in a pastebin file and copy&paste it every time it comes up. Might as well use the hard work I did to research this.

[VikingBlood86]

I see you didn't actually read my comment fakename... or should I say... ASKER

[FakeName123]

@VikingBlood86 Think whatever you want to think. I could simply prove you wrong by screenshotting my questions, but it's honestly not worth the effort.

[VikingBlood86]

Looks like you didn't read countessSarah's post either

[Asker]

@VikingBlood86 @CountessSarah We're not the same person.

[VikingBlood86]

Suuuuure you aren't. 😉

[normalice]

Anything you can call "hate" is probably wrong.

But honestly what you seem to be describing is "disagreement," not hate..

[wankiam]

hate it all you like but dont tell others what to do with their lives... thats the key. you dont have to be into something yourself to respect freedom of choice and you will find plenty of potential partners that share your personal views

[Anonymous]

Nope.
We need more kids like you for our future...