Why would a men ejaculate in a woman's Virgina without asking if she's on any birth control?

[Erica34]

So. I can and can't be mad at him, but him and I was already doing freaky stuff without any protection. And I should have made him wear a condom smh. But anyways- he didn't ask or say could be cum inside of me. He basically was telling me, what he was going to do. At 1st, I didn't think that he was being serious until he came. Now, I'm glad that he isn't some creep off the street or some random stray. Yes. He is someone, I actually no. But, how I would identify our relationship, we aren't close like that we are just good friends. Like, he means well: but are Vibes are just completely different, and our connection is not strong like that. But moving on, yes: he was drinking and under the influence of alcohol. But, yet! he didn't even ask if it was Ok for him to cum inside of me. Like, part of me wants to be mad at him, then part of me is mad with myself for allowing that. But anyways- I asked him, has he cum inside anyone before, and he was like... yea his old ex girlfriend. But mentioned that she was on birth control, so if probably figured that I was too. But, he never asked to begin with. So. I'm just like, why would he think and feel that it's okay to cum inside of me, smh. ?

[Anonymous]

Yeah most guys take it as a sign that it’s ok to cum inside you if you don’t tell them otherwise. Even then they sometimes get carried away. You have to remind them. My boyfriend knows not to cum in me but sometimes he gets so into the sex that he has this distant look in his eyes and I know he’s totally thinking with the small head. I’ll tap him to get his attention and tell him “remember to pull out baby” and then he does.

[Britantic]

Why would any woman engage in full intercourse with a man with no form of contraception being used, that's just stupid and irresponsible.

[jakeofalltrades]

that's why you worry about a condom at the beginning not the end. if you were worried about something like that you should have made him put one on first not expect him to think about it in the middle of the act. cause at that point he just doesn't care

[Erica34]

Right! My manager that I told this to she said he's trying to get you pregnant. But he already made it clear that he didn't and wasn't ready for kids. And, also him and I just rekindle and got connected back to each other this year after many years of middle school and high school. We didn't do none of this stuff before. And also he was drinking! But he wasn't that drunk.

[HeavyRoller]

Please, for the love of all that's holy, stop having sex until you grow up and can have safe, responsible sex. YOU need to be in control of this before you catch and spread a disease or bring another unwanted child into the world.

[abc3643]

I've only been ejaculating in a woman's West Virgina.

[Erica34]

What?

[abc3643]

Never mind...

[Erica34]

👌..

[Britantic]

Lol...

[Sevenpointfive]

time to take a couple steps back to hand jobs with this guy

[Loving_Husband]

He should have asked. A guy should always ask for permission to cum inside them

[Erica34]

Thank You!! And he didn't. The 1st time we had sex, he pulled out and I said A Plus, plus for you. And he was drinking a bit at that time too. But then when he realize that I wasn't cool or liked the fact that he came inside of me, he was like. Oh my pull out game is -weak- like he seemed like he wasn't being serious.. About what he just did.

[Loving_Husband]

He's making a joke about it but it is serious. I even ask my own wife for permission to cum inside her. I respect that it's her body and her decision.

[Erica34]

Facts. You sound like a good guy! And a good husband. Babies aren't cheap and their big responsibilities. But, like even when I was talking about going to CVS and getting a pill to kill off the sperm. He just wasn't moving fast enough for me, like you have those guys that would be like, oh I'm sorry. I didn't mean to cum in you: it was just feeling really good but we need to go to CVS, I don't want you to get pregnant. I mean he kept asking from time to time was I good and okay. And was watching video's and stuff on his phone from time to time. Like, i said! He was very aware of what just happened. He even told me, what he said he was going to to. And also, check this out, he said that he would buy the pill for me, but mention and said how he was going to steal it. Then when we arrived at CVS I came across that. He was like, oh hell that thing is expensive. Maybe he didn't have enough or maybe he wasn't willing to use his money but he'd rather steal out the store smh.

[Loving_Husband]

That's crazy that he'd steal it. At my wife and I'd age her getting pregnant would be rare but I still ask for permission to cum inside her. When she gives me permission it feels great! But when she says no I have no problem willingly pulling out before I cum. It still is her body.

[Erica34]

Exactly. But, i did mention to him and said if we're going to keep hooking up, then you need to wear a condom. And, he was cool with it. :).

[Loving_Husband]

Ok that's good. My wife has made me wear a condom too. I have no problem with that.

[Erica34]

Nice. And one last thing! Why would he feel some type of way, when I said it mention to him about us not having sex anymore? He was like, soooo we aren't having sex anymore, he look sad and very disappointed lol?

[Loving_Husband]

Well apparently he loves having sex with you!!! Just needs to start asking you for permission before he cums inside you 😋

[Erica34]

Okay. I have more one other question frfr then I am done frfr. So, it's really not a big deal, but it definitely brings my attention to. So I notice, him and I chill we text and we talk, and he lives right next store to me. He also has mentioned to me before, make yourself comfortable in my home, and there has been times he allowed me to spend the night over, and also treated me and my friend and her daughter to some food. But, also I notice when we have had sex: he just kind of goes MIA aka ghost me for awhile. I mean, there should be no excuse why he can't text Or hit me up. He has my # two of them lol. Like him and I do other stuff outside of the bedroom. And I know that he is a very Independence person, and enjoys his own space and time. And I am the same way, like! I don't expect or asking for too much or anyting. He says that sex won't change him or the relationship that we have the friendship. But, yet why disappear after all this time that we have spent together lol. Like, I don't give him hints or make it seem like I want him. When it's time for sex, we are fuck buddies, but when we are hangout out we are friends. I don't give him the Impressions that I want anything more. So could you tell me.. A But more about that, and his behavior?

[Loving_Husband]

Seems like that's a guy being a guy. I know it sounds crazy but sometimes after a guy gets pussy he's good for a little bit and if off doing his own thing not even thinking he should contact you or text you It's not fair to you.. since you have a friendshp and are not just strictly fuck buddies. Are you his only fuck buddy? Guys are weird. We're lucky you girls even want to be around us! Haha

[Erica34]

Yes lol very weird. And as far as I k. He hasn't mention to me about any other girl.. The only thing that he asked me. That him and some girl was going to hook up or so at some Hotel. But he said, that she wanted him to pay all and he was willing to do half and half: he was like. It will happen, but he wasn't for sure RN now. So, he may have sex with others - I don't know tbh. And even after when I leave his house, he's like hit him up. Like he starts avoiding me not responding to my text messages or phone calls. But yet, if we run into each other in public he's like a chatterbox and acts weird. But yes he is a very horny guy and his zodiac sign he loves sex. So I wouldn't really be surprised if he didn't have another. But, that's not really important to me, it just makes me curious to why he starts avoiding me.

[Loving_Husband]

Guys are weird!!! Haha You are pretty fantastic though!

[Erica34]

Like. The way I look at it. if this person and I are not close or in a relationship. I'm not allowing that person to spend the night over or get too comfortable in my house. Like, the only time I would do that. If they were too drunk to drive or too tired to drive. But if we are just a casual kind of thing. I'm not allowing someone to spend the night over. He's not my husband and I am not his wife. Sooo I'm not going to pretend and be married and play husband and wife.

[Erica34]

Aww thanks!! Yeah I try not to pay too much attention to his behavior. Lol.

[Loving_Husband]

True. It's not your role. Your role is just to get each other off and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!!!

[Erica34]

Lol. All I k.. he seems like he likes to be chased, but also had mention to me that he wasn't going to be down my throat. Lol Lmao! The last time we did talk face to face, he was like! See I kept my promise. I was like, what.. Huh.. what are you talking about. And he was like, you remembered my promise then I said I wouldn't be all over you. And I'm like, awkward looking at him: like yeaaaa... and he was like see I kept my promise. I really wanted to say idc what you do, near or far close are not. I just don't understand why he felt the need to randomly say that lol lol.

[buttcrackjoe]

You are particularly to blame for having sex with someone you dont see a future with

[Erica34]

I feel like crying :_ . I don't want any kid's right now, nor do I see him in my life as my husband or father. I told my manager about this earlier this morning, and she said! He's trying to get you pregnant. But, I don't understand- why he would want a kid, when he currently said that he wasn't ready for one himself. And, he was under the influence of alcohol, but he wasn't that out of it. He knew what he wanted to do..

[Erica34]

Maybe he watch too much porn.. Smh

[buttcrackjoe]

Cuz boys can be selfish it was probably out of shear pleasure for him instead of out of love and or children. It feels much better to cum inside a vagina than pull out and do it elsewhere

[buttcrackjoe]

Lol, “a woman’s Virginia” well Virgina is the state of lovers 😂

[Erica34]

Well the 1st time He did good, with his pull out. But this time around, he just let his Wild animal lose. But, when he realized that i wasn't okay with what he did, then he started to act like he felt sorry. And said, oh shit, my pull out game is weak. Like he wasn't taking what he just said serious.

[buttcrackjoe]

So he knows its bad thats good I think prob just drunk. Be careful lol dont wanna get preggers. If i were sleeping with someone i didn't want a future with condom always

[Erica34]

Facts. Yes: I mention that to him as well too. And he was saying Ok he was willing to use one

[TheFlak38]

Yeah! Ejaculate into the Virgina!

[DDpsy]

What is a Virgina?

[Surely]

He sounds like a guy that would hit the road if you would say " I'm late!"
Find someone more responsible, especially if you are going to allow him impregnate you.

[Uncut]

Because they are stupid

[Mcluven]

Its hard to pull out. Girld try and get ontop and just before you cum get off. See if you can manage that.

[Anonymous]

Likely he was just in the moment and being selfish and not thinking. To do this is the ultimate pleasure for us physically and it can be hard to control/stop in the moment because it just feels so good. But some guys don't care you're right, but it's also possible he just went with it in the moment and was only thinking about how good it felt physically and nothing else at the time? Does he seem selfish in general? Uncaring about your feelings?

[Anonymous]

to be a douchebag

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a good time to me.

[Erica34]

Nooo. It's not. :/.

[Opinion Owner]

😅 oh my bad

[Erica34]

😠😑