Is Sex About Constantly Pushing The Boundaries Or Playing By The Rules?

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BlackRoseFairy · Accepted Answer

It depends. If I am feeling good with my partner and we wanted to add something new, I wouldn't mind pushing the limits a bit.
But sometimes the known rules are all you need. Sex is more than penetration, it is the ultimate connection between two people who care for each other. It's intimate, tender, gentle, meaning to please and not to cause pain or discomfort.
(Or maybe I am being too romantic 😅 🙈 )

sheepiemama · Accepted Answer

The first step is to get turned on and then sex just kind of happens, like a blur. What does it mean to push boundaries?

Moonchild714 · Accepted Answer

Pushingvthe Boundaries but Respecting the other persons needs and their Boundaries!!!

Arlyss · Accepted Answer

It can be about several things. My favourite is when it is an exploration of your partners desires and when it is fun for everyone involved or even a little silly.
It's often an expression of commitment, and/or passion.

I find that you tend to push boundaries more at the beginning of a relationship before you find what your partner wants.

coolbreeze · Accepted Answer

I think both but depands on the person you are with and what they are comfortable with. Not everybody might not like what you like, etc

AustinMan · Answer

Pushing the limits.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I dont wanna schedule sex. But i do have boundaries that i dont wanna push. It won't be routine sex but it won't be no weird fetish shit either

Shahax · Answer

Both at the exact same time yet not at all

SydneySentinel · Answer

Hard boundaries

MecheD · Answer

It’s both... to me it just depends on the person

Loving_Husband · Answer

Both depending on the type of relationship

Agape93 · Answer

Both and neither

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Playing by the rules

BillieJean1070 · Answer

I like having my limits pushed.

ariadneR · Answer

A bit of both.  You have to find a partner that compliments you otherwise it defeats the purpise

Grond21 · Answer

Neither. It's about fun and a deep connection between two people.

fashionguy17 · Answer

Depends what your definition of playing by the rules is. For me, I look to push boundaries and explore new things.

MysticDevice · Answer

Pushing boundaries. I mean who are we kidding here.

Iuse2hands · Answer

Pushing boundaries because we make the rules.

justcurious2019 · Answer

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charlie_all_night · Answer

Its amazing to take a partner to new levels an have them experience things that they have never before... It's all about learning about one another

Kezzz · Answer

Sex is about an emotional connection through physical contact. It just gets better when you take risks and push boundaries because you start trusting your partner when things go right.