Is it better to be dead or a 25 year old virgin?

I'd really rather be dead than a virgin on my next birthday.
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To those of you saying its not a big deal or its not worth it. I would literally rather die than go through my whole life being a virgin and having no one.
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I still feel this way but I will wait till I'm 26
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I am still alive and a virgin at 25, been 25 for 3 months. I don't know sometimes I still think I'd rather be dead than still a virgin rn
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  • Well then I would have been dead. I didn't do it until I was 27.
    Stop thinking about and live your life. What if this was your last year to live and you sat pondering about it. It easy to get into the mind set of it's not going to happen. I've had a long dry season because of medical reasons and just too tired to get out and socialize. I thought I might die before doing it again but that's a bit negative on my part. My first time semi boyfriend was kind of a bust since he was a jerk but it was what it was.

    Go online to the site Meetup and sign up for some interest meetups and singles meetup and meet some people. If a 50 something woman like me has options (when I'm actually out and about) then clearly you do. I just didn't think getting involved with men who were 20 years younger than me was a good option when they approached me.

    It really all depends if you want a hook up or a girlfriend how you approach but go out and have fun so you attract someone by doing so.

  • A virgin at 25. Have you had oral? Played with a girl?

    • I've not had oral but I've made out with a girl. I really would rather die before my next birthday than be a virgin at 25

    • The last time I was in a relationship I was 21

    • You're being silly. It's not that big of a deal.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Retrospectively I wouldve rather waited for the first time to be with someone special to me. When everyones young and in a rush/pressured to get it done it usually ends up being a disappointment or something you later regret because of who it was or how it happened. (Tho tbh mine was pretty cool. 29y/o cougar got me when I was 15!)

  • Go to a prostitute if its that bad.
    Better safe for a nice girl. Do something about it. Go out. Or if you have a hard time approaching women. Try dating sites

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  • It's truly not that big of a deal to be a virgin, honestly it sounds like it's more of your own mindset that is torturing you. If it's that big of a deal and you aren't waiting for 'the right one' then nust hire an escort. I used to think this way too so I just asked a random girl I knew if she was dtf, sex isn't nearly as amazing or mind blowing as the media portrays it to be and personally I would rather spend hours just cuddling with my SO then have sex

  • No doubt, you are pressuring yourself and letting all that pressure beat you. We get that you're venting out and won't discourage you from releasing some steam here on G@G. It can help. Life is a gift and can be wonderful. There are so much more things to look forward to than sex.

  • That’s dumb

  • I've had sex , it's fun, it's not worth killing yourself over it's not that's good

  • It's exceedingly better to be a virgin at any age, than to be dead.

  • Why don't you just hire a prostitute? That's like 100 bucks... easier than killing yourself.

  • What's so bad about being a virgin?

    • The fact that no one will ever love me, I don't blame others, man or woman I hope they find happiness, but no one will ever love me and that means I'm better off dead

    • So issue isn't that you're a virgin, but that you're lonely

    • I guese it's botg

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  • How insulting..

    • Its the way I feel, no ine will ever love me, I'll never fall asleep next to a partner nor do any of the awesome couples things, I would rather be dead than turn 25

    • And the damn thing is that I can't off myself because of my family

  • 25 years old is not your whole life. It's not even a third of it. Things change as you get older and more mature.

    • Sensible move, but maybe leave it until you're 50?

    • No, if I'm still a virgin at 27 I'm done and killing myself

    • Split the difference: 47?

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  • Is prostitution legal where you live? Cause I suggest you hire an escort/hooker.

  • It's better to be a virgin forever then to be dead.

  • Fuck a fleshlight like me

    • Also find a different sin in life to obsess over like material things “cars, motorcycles, pets, hobbies” and let THEM consume you even if it makes you broke. Even the worst vices are better than suicide. Find passion elsewhere besides a most likely troublesome female.

  • I am 41 and a virgin. I would rather not have sex than have sex and regret it. Yours is an unfortunate attitude.

  • Wow man your way overly dramatic.

  • 25 year old virgin I would say

  • I'd rather be a 25 yr old virgin. I waited till i was 23 and it was good for me. Just cause it's not your time means you have a problem.

  • Tough one... I think dead is worse.

  • Whats the difference?

  • dead. Definitely dead