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My wife says... she has the pussy so she makes the rules. Do you think that's an accurate statement?

Girls and guys do you think that's true? Please tell me why or why not and why you feel that way.
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  • No I do not believe it's an accurate statement. And I would immediately leave someone who seriously told me that and believed it. A relationship is a contract between equals, not a master-slave arrangement. I believe a relationship MUST be equal, not one-sided. Conflicts of interest must always be approached with a win-win goal in mind (via communication, consideration, and/or compromise). No one makes the rules; we each have obligations to the other (as in any fair contract). I will have things no other way.

    The statement also implies that the relationship is one between an addict and his dealer. I'm supposed to be so addicted to sex with her that I will submit to any of her wishes (even when they deeply hurt or upset me) because I'm terrified that I won't get to have sex unless I do. This is blackmail, and won't work on me.

    • I understand your point. She us the head of our marriage though. Thanks for your input.

    • I apologize if my original post was too harsh. In all honesty; I think that mutual happiness is the most important thing in a relationship. As long as you are both happy with the way things are; the relationship is good in my book. Just because I would not be happy with such an arrangement doesn't mean that some people wouldn't be. Cheers!

    • Thanks. We are happy. I'm content with allowing her to make the rules.

  • I believe she is absolutely right. What men require and fantasize the most is pussy. A woman should be in control of situation but she doesn't know well. Men have eulogized their penis superiority to such an height that women tend to believe it, whereas, pussy power is far far greater.

    • The power of the pussy is pretty great. Thanks for your input.

    • Welcome and thanks for accepting my opinion.

    • Thanks for sharing and adding to the conversation

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  • If that's the house rules and you're fine with it and everyone's happy, I suppose this is OK. I hope your kids see a sort of egalitarian setup instead of you being pushed around. You do seem to intimate it's "house" rules, so outside the home you run your show at work and elsewhere. It's unusual. As others have said, I don't think one or the other set of sex organs affords a person total control at home.

    • It is house rules. We have no kids though so it's just her and I. Thank you for taking the time to add to the conversation and add your input.

  • My relationship with my husband isn't just about sex. We have a great deal of mutual respect and we share in the rule making.

    Your house is different and if that's her attitude then you have to find a way to work things out with her. That statement is not true in our house.

    • It works pretty well in our house since she's the one that"wears the pants" in our marriage. Thank you so much for your input.

  • Yeah, I do think that’s true because that her pussy and her decision so that’s her rules😂😅😁😬

    • Sounds like you might know her! lol Thanks for your input.

    • Haha😂😅 No Sir😬 I don’t think I might know your wife. Lol. You are welcome😊

    • Thank you for MHO 😊🙏🏼

  • I mean, my genitals do not dictate who's the boss. To me, partners are equal.

    • That too

    • Yes Ma'am I understand. Thanks for your input.

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  • My wife says... she has the pussy so she makes the rules. Do you think that's an accurate statement?

  • I guess she's, maybe unknowingly, referring to basic mammalian biology: the males compete, the females choose.

    • You're actually very correct. Thanks for your input.

    • Sounds like you're married to a princess, either of your or her family's creation.

  • No a relationship is two people living together and respecting each other. It’s not one person controlling the other

    • She is the boss but that's just the nature of our marriage. Thanks for your input.

  • You want the puzzy or not?
    Accurate..

    • Exactly! Thanks for your input.

  • Only if you let her.

    • And I do. She's the boss. Thanks for your input.

  • Not really but it works for you so that’s good

    • Yes Ma'am it dies work for us. Thanks for your input.

  • No, she who has the pussy gets 50% input on the rules and the odd get out of jail free card for things like food cravings during pregnancy or infant-induced sleep deprivation.

    • Love the get out of jail free card ideas. Thanks for your input

  • And you married this woman, huh?

    • And live respect and obey her yes Sir. Thanks for your input.

  • True that, cz you know guys always want's it

    • Exactly! Don't follow the rules then you don't get pussy. Thanks for your input.

  • Nah. Guys can cheat.

    • You know I'm 100% faithful to her. I'm ok with her making the rules. Thanks for your input.

  • you should tell her you have a right hand lol

    • Haha if she allows me to use it! Thanks for your input.

    • no worries... anyway its not for others to judge if it works for you

  • Rules are best suited for kids, she should use her brain to make rules and follow them herself.

    • She's actually very intelligent and educated. She's just trying to make me a better man and husband. Thanks for your input.

  • I think she meant she has the pussy, that’s why she is always getting fucked over.

    • No she was pretty clear on what she meant. Thanks for your input.

  • To a degree I suppose it's right.
    If we are to take into consideration that a relationship is created from compromises, the statement would mean that if you wish to have sex with her you'll concede.
    But all I see here is just using sex to have the last say in it.
    Just know that to have sex it takes 2 parties, otherwise it's just masturbation.

  • Maybe for you, she makes the rules.

    • She absolutely does yes! Thanks for your input.

  • No. Thats no way to have a relationship.

    • It works well for us though. Thanks for your input.

  • If that was I would not be married for 25 years. Marriage is a balance and team work. No one shall have power over the other.

    Even that holds true for the Doms and subs relationships. They do have balanced power.

    • We have a pretty good balance I believe but she is the head of our marriage. Thanks for your input

  • Hmmm...46 and you're just figuring this out? The power of the golden-vagina. Some actually believe it has healing powers. Can turn gay men straight. Can fix broken guys.

    And why a SMART guy has options. Women are drawn to men that have options. The desperate guys are WAY easier to control.

  • That's a blunt way of putting it, but there is a certain truth to her perspective.

    • It's definitely a truth. I'm ok that she says it like it is. Thanks for your input.

    • Just because she has the power doesn't mean she shouldn't consider your needs though. As men, we give women power, and put in our effort to make sure that she feels like what she has power over is desirable. If what we give her power over is insignificant, then she can be the lady of her realm, but she still isn't very powerful.

  • Lol just humor her. we already know that statement is false

    • It's not false in our house. Thanks for your input.

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