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Yet another penis size question. Are size concerns age related?

We all know penises are like dogs. They come in a range of sizes from Chihuahua to St Bernard, they dribble a lot and want to play first thing in the morning but want to sleep the rest of the time. That doesn't stop the avalanche of penis size questions we get every day on here.
Porn is often blamed for distorting views on what a penis size should be for both men and women to the point that guys with perfectly average penises are being mocked by girls for being tiny.
But is this also age related. Is it just young people who lack real sex ife experience that worry about size. Or is it a case of older more loose saggy vaginal woman who need bigger and bigger penises as they get older. Have older more mature men become more relaxed with their size or do they become more anxious as their penis shrinks with age?
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To avoid confusion shall we say 7 inch is the non porn average.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I never bought any of that "size matters" crap. My boyfriend kumar lived in the dorms with his roommates John. Kumar was a pretty ordinary looking Indian guy, kinda quiet - but John was tall, lean, muscular and (according to him anyway) was hung like a bull. He used to joke about it a lot - even around me. I was a typical teen petite, shy and somewhat quiet. I didn't like it when John would make his "big dick" comments and jokes around me, but Kumar told me not pay any attention to him and truth be told, i really couldn't stand John.
    Kumar has a 4" dick and with me being so petite, it always seemed to do the trick as sex was always ok. He was the only the guy I'd ever been with sexually and only my second boyfriend - maybe my guard was just down but who knows.
    Anyway, one Friday night, Kumar and I were hanging out in his dorm room drinking, smoking some weed and watching TV. Everyone had both gone home for the weekend - or so we thought. At about 1AM (Kumar and I were pretty toasted by then), John walked in. He'd ended up hanging out with some of his friends off campus and had decided to just drive home in the morning since his parents only lived about an hour and a half away.
    He could see that Kumar and I were both pretty hammered. He grabbed a beer and sat down and we smoked somem more weed with him. I was pretty drunk and started giving John ****. John seemed to get a kick out of it and I could he kinda flirting with me. Then I noticed (and hoped that Kumar wouldn't) that John wasn't wearing any underwear.
    Feeling naughty started massaging Kumar's dick through his jeans and being so ****ed up, he judt laid his head back and enjoyed it - i couldn't believe i was doing that right in front of John! I heard John got up to pass me the joint we were smoking and I just gasped, long and deep and suddenly stopped stroking Kumar's dick. John stood right in front of me with a HUGE ****ing bulge in his pants - just inches from my face. The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop.
    He just stood there and I could feel my hand tremble and my her breathing quicken. I slowly looked up at him, almost in awe and respect, I could feel my heart start to pound in my chest. Then I softly whispered "ohhhhhhhhhhh" as I gingerly reached up to brush my finger tips across that massive knot in his pants. When i touched it, it throbbed - **** I could see it throb thorugh his pants - I just gasped again and looked up at him.
    "What?" John asked me and just kinda laughed. I did NOT laugh. Instead, I softly asked "can i see it?" John stopped laughing, looked at me very seriously and told me to take it out. I never even hesitated - or looked back at me for an "OK" - I just obeyed him and began to open his jeans. My nipples were rock hard under my t-shirt and I was practically panting.
    I opened his jeans and his big thick dick just fell out... and he had NOT been kidding. That cock was strong, thick, heavy and muscular. The head was a big purple mushroom that sat on top of the thickest shaft i'd ever seen. He was semi-hard and was HUGE compared to Kumar's little dick. I just gasped and kept whispering "ohmygod.. ohmygod... ohmygod". When I wrappedmy hand around it, my brow just knotted in disbelief and I almost laughed at how thick he was - my fingers couldn't even touch.
    John just stood there watching my me worship his magnificent cock. Slowly shaking my head in disbelief, I two-fisted him - one hand next to the other... and there was STILL a few inches left - and he was getting rock hard, too.
    I smiled and he patted the couch next to me and John sat down, his cock standing straight up. Honestly he had to be almost 10" (judging from the size of my little hand). Kumar opened my pants and took his own cock out& started wacking off.

    Yet another penis size question. Are size concerns age related?Yet another penis size question. Are size concerns age related?

    • I took Kumar's cock in my left hand and John's in my right - but there was little doubt whose cock was getting more attention. I couldn't take my eyes off his Johns giant cock and my hand only occasionally stroked Kumar's dick... but John's I pumped with long, purposeful strokes until I finally couldn't help myself any longer and I knelt in front of him, kissing his cock and rubbing it against my soft pale skin. I sucked his dick until I CAME - just from sucking him! Kumar stroked the whole time as John pulled me toward him, peeled off my pants (I never even make the slightest attempt to stop him) and sat his on his lap, my back to his chest - the two of us right next to Kumar. I just rolled my head back to kiss him as he squeezed my tits through my shirt. My hands went down and pushed that big cock against my pussy and I groaned so loud when it touched me that I thought people outside would hear.

    • John's dick was so ****ing big that he easily penetrated me from behind with me sitting on his lap (something Kumar could never do). I arched up to take as much of it as I could and we started to **** right there next to Kumar. It shocked me how easily my petite little body accomodated that horse cock of his. John pounded me in positions that Kumar physically CANNOT do for over an hour - I came so many times i lost count- I was even in tears a few times (though I never once told him to stop). He asked me if I was on the pill and when I said I was on the patch, he told me that he was going to cum inside of me to mark me as his bitch - which only made me cum again! when he finally came, he had me on my back, my legs shaking violently as we both came together - and true to his word, John dumped his seed deep up inside my aching pussy right in front of Kumar. But **** - he didn't even lose his damn hard on! We ****ed for about another 40 minutes and he came once more. I was a wreck by the time we all went to bed. I look over at Kumar sad face with his limp penis and cum stained pants and knew things would never be the same between us.

    • Kumar said that he will never forget the look on my face - like I was afraid of John and in love with him all at once - the whole time we ****ed. I told me that there were no words to describe it - it was incredible but even that didn't seem enough. I continued having sex with John behind Kumar's back and if he knew he never said. He& I dated for about another year before we finally broke up but at that stage John had graduated. I always wondered what lucky girl ended up with John & his big dick. But one thing I know for sure - I was NEVER ****ed as good by Kumar like John did and the way things i said about John - the way I looked at him - and the way she was around him after that night (almost shy and meek) convinced Kumar that size really does matter which gave him performance issues and he insisted on wearing a penis extender sleeve but it was never as good as with John. With John it was like I "HAD to respect him" even if at the time didn't like him... and that I felt like he "had a right to me, like an ownership". I cried for a month after John left college.

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  • The level of serious answers you get surprises me every time. It’s beautiful

Most Helpful Guys

  • Wow you thought a lot about that didn't you. The last i remember 6" is the average size of a man's penis. 4" and below is small. And 7" and above is above average. In my experience it depends on how a guy feels about himself and his penis. I've known a guy who had more gfs and lovers than me and he had a 4" penis. I've known a guy with an 8" penis and liked to show it off. Me and my 7.6" long and 6.5" circumference in girth penis have had a great time and one girlfriend of mine broke up with me because my penis was too big. So. I guess it depends on the person but it doesn't help with society causing anxiety about it.

  • I think not age, but experience with sex.

    Speaking as a guy, well a shortee (LOL!) I no more care about my size after I had sufficient sex with my soon-to-be ex girlfriend.

    The key focus now is orgasm. As long as i can give her at least one orgasm each session, it's good enough for her to return.

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  • Average... normal... irrelevant. Health, hygiene, mutual respect and attraction are the keys for great sex and a pleasurable experience for both partners. As a man, I know the importance of my penile health so I make sure to use a penis health creme so that I'm damn certain my penis is getting the vitamins and amino acids that it deserves. I use Man1 Man Oil and find it online. Good luck y'all.

  • doubt it. def ask a medical professional if you're wondering about this stuff--- really helps to get info from a doc. I would also recommend using something like Man1 Man Oil-- with some great ingredients, like vitamins, amino acids and proteins. cheers and stay safe in this craziness...

  • The average penis size is 5 inches, not 7.

    The average penis size ranges from 4.6-6.2 inches depending on certain demographics, making the overall average almost exactly 5 inches.

    Girls assuming that the average is actually significantly higher than it is and then basing standards around that may be one reason that some men are so worried about their size.

    • 5.17 according to the best and most comprehensive research to date.

  • I got a notification to answer this question, but it says it's more than a year old... Anyway, I don't think age has anything to do with it, but I'm a baby dick, at half an inch less than seven...

  • This actually makes perfect sense since vaginas are cats

  • 7inch is average? I dont think so

    • 6 inches is

    • @apple1996 in Sudan possibly…but in the USA it’s closer to 5 in

  • Hey man, if you have these questions you should consult your doctor. Then, invest in a penis health creme like Man1 Man Oil. It's made such a difference for me. I struggled with a foreskin that would smell, collect bacteria, etc. I started using Man1 Man Oil after I showered daily, and all those issues went away. My sex life is 180 degrees different now and I'm so so much more confident. Highly recommend, esp for uncut men. Good luck!

  • Im pretty young at 17 and im comfortable with mine, im not gonna shout out what it is but with knowing the average size of like 5 something inches, as long as you're close to that average it doesn't matter

    • Well, almost 17

  • What is average size? 5 inches or 6?

    • I knew it wasn’t 5 inches!! In that case, I like average size penises

    • Average actually is 5. It ranges from 4.6-6.3, making the overall average 5.

    • @Chris4744 oh ok... I guess I've mostly been with bigger guys.

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  • most of the questions are actually one user using several accounts, even posing as a pinky anon on some occasions. best thing to do is ignore them and hopefully the 'little boy' will get bored and leave us all to talk about important stuff like boob size or libtards like me ;)

    • @update you can say that if you like but the real average is 5.9 inches... thankfully im massive lol

  • Haha I guess not: I didn't care when I was 10 and I still don't care now that I'm 44 :D

  • More ego and confidence related

  • Not sure it's she related as my wife is in her 40's and loves big, thick dicks

    • I'm way below 7 inches

  • Actually 6 inches is avg. Its not an age issue. Its just a curiosity. its asked all tge time out of curiosity rather than insecurity. Its also asked because of diverse opinions.

  • Not only is it about age but also how much fat you have at your stomach, not calling anyone fat but gravity work always and the amount of fat you have will have effect of your size.

  • At least you acknowledge that it's yet another one. Next step is not asking.

  • Not if older stretched out women that had had kids fit better already.

  • Porn is the primary reason for the concern about size. Are there women that prefer really big ones? Yes, but big to her might be normal to another woman and normal to one woman might be too big for another woman. Porn makes it seem like bigger is better, no matter what. But a lot of women have complained about it.
    The only thing that matter is what your partners says.

    • 7 inches isn't the non porn average though

  • i dont really care about all that mumbo jumbo, i just live and thats it

  • I think age has a lot to do with the size concerns. I'm above the 7" non-porn average mentioned but was still insecure as a teen and young adult. What really made me realize that I didn't have to worry about size was at about 25 when I went a nudist resort and got lots of looks and smiles.

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