Honestly, it doesn't matter if it's 'considered cheating' or not. If his actions make you doubt him and if on talking to him about it he doesn't seem to care that you're feeling the seeds of doubt growing within you because of his actions, I'd suggest ending things. At least that's what I would do. Any relationship is based on trust, mutual respect and communication. I feel like love just follows. However, even if one of those things are not there and efforts aren't being taken to ensure that it grows, then it's not the kind of relationship you should be in for the simple reason that you don't want to be in it. I'm not going to tell you what to do. I'm just going to ask you to think about this: do YOU want to be in this relationship with the kind of trust, communication and respect you have for each other?
Good luck, sweetheart!0 0 0 0He got sexually involved with another woman. Insertion isn't the only way to have sex. If she gave him a blow job, you'd be angry right? Same difference. I would dump this manipulative repulsive loser.
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Your initial reaction is correct, it is cheating and you know that. His argument is hollow and that of a cheater. If he wasn't in the wrong why wouldn't he tell you about it? I doubt he would be ok with you sucking another guys dick.. you should break up with his dumb ass.. and if you dont then be prepared to be wondering or hearing about whos ass he is putting his tongue in or what girl is blowing him when you aren't around.
1 1 0 0Maybe it's cheating. How bad it is really depends on what he thinks of that other girl. Does she mean nothing to him? Was it just for physical pleasure? Is he emotionally intimate with her? To me, this is a complicated matter.
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9 10Well he did something sexual with another girl and hid it from you. That is the definition of cheating. Dump his ass.
3 2 0 0Cheating!!! You KNOW IT IS... He touched Another One's Dirty Ass, No Ask.
Anything that Involves This Here, Dear, I FEAR. He may DO IT AGAIN. xx0 0 0 0Not Over Reacting but Acting a though it was a SECOND NATURE. xx
It’s 1000% cheating. Girl you need to raise your standards by about ten miles at the very least
0 0 0 0I sincerely hope this is a troll 😭😭😭
No, it´s just some ass eating. Everybody does it to other people, nothing to do with cheating. He was just being friendly.
0 2 0 1that’s right 👍🏽
You should have him eat yours for forgiveness then after pull up your pants and tell him to go home and never come back.
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0 1 0 0Still cheating! Dump on his ass! 💯
0 0 0 0He is cheating. Don't fall for his lies. Eating ass means she was naked, naked means sex, yeah he is cheating on you with the bimbo
1 0 0 0Oh that's definitely cheating
0 0 0 0It was a shitty thing to do. lol
Seriously though, as gross as that was, it was cheating too.0 0 0 0You really think he stopped at her ass? Dont be naive
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I would dump his dirty cheating ass0 0 0 0Yes it is cheating... No dought
it is cheating
0 0 0 0Omg ass eating is sooo hot. And yes its cheating
0 0 0 0Yes, he cheated on you, but if he did anal sex with another girl it means that you denyied him anal before. So if that was the case, I think he was more than right to do it.
0 0 0 0It does not have to be sex just sex to be cheating. Anything done with sexual or emotional intent is cheating. This was done with sexual intent, and without your knowledge and approval.
Dump this ratbag!0 0 0 0Lmao /)_-
0 0 0 0Yeah my girlfriend she sucked another guy's dick and said it wasn't really cheating
0 0 0 0Honestly people are fucking stupid, what is with this site 🤦 Rimming is a SEXUAL ACT, did you think it was a walk in the park? Unless you count sex as not cheating then yes, he's not cheating.
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