What matters in physical appearance?

[0112358]

The motivation for this question was … other questions people ask about things I suspect don't matter that much. If you ask what size areola guys like or what angle erection is optimal, some people will give an answer, but it doesn't mean it really impacts their attraction.

Build your perfect partner

Sooooo … the goal here is to imagine you're designing the most physically attractive partner possible, except at some point you will stop getting to pick things. So what things would you pick first? what details would you leave to the end? You can order ALL the choices if you want, or just do the initial ones in order and say 'I don't care beyond that'. Work with the list for the sex you're attracted to. If you're bi, suggest doing opposite sex. If you prefer to use 'tiers', go ahead.

The list for straight/bi men or lesbians:
1. Hair color
2. Hair length/style
3. Eye color
4. Lip size
5. Overall facial look
6. Skin color
7. Height
8. Overall weight (Thin, bit of a belly, pudgy)
9. Flat belly vs slight handles/pudge
10. Breast size
11. Breast shape
12. Ass size
13. Ass shape
14. Legs
15. Nipple size
16. Areola size
17. Pubic Hair style
18. Genital color
19. Labia size
20. Genital tightness
21. Anything about her feet
22. Other: let us know

The list for straight/bi girls or gay guys
1. Hair color
2. Hair length/style
3. Eye color
4. Beard/shaved/stubble preference
5. Overall facial look
6. Skin color
7. Height
8. Overall weight (Lean, bit of a belly, pudgy)
9. Flat belly vs slight handles/pudge
10. Body hair level
11. Chest & back muscles
12. Arm muscles
13. 6-pack visible
14. Penis length
15. Penis width
16. Penis erection direction (straight up, out, etc)
17. Circumcised vs intact
18. Pubic Hair style
19. Genital color
20. Anything about testicles
21. Other: let us know

[Aethereal]

Haha. This reminds me of character creators in video games.

1. Hair length/style: Thick and straight/slightly wavy. Hip-length.
2. Overall facial look: Kind or soft look
3. Overall weight: I'd go with fit or average.

The rest aren't important.

[jaygee933]

I think most people don't really think about even half of the stuff you listed. At least for me, I know what I like when I see it but I couldn't really say specifically what it is

[0112358]

The fact that people don't really think about half the stuff was partly what I was hoping to show. People ask about stuff here where it's like 'that's like 14 on the list and they're picking based on the top 5 anyway'

[VIVANT]

😅 Gag now gives homework assignments 😉

Actually, I like what you did with this, rather then “ what’s most important”

Still, I gotta think on it 😊

[wittymilf]

Hmm I only care about 8 and 9.. prefer my guys on the leaner side. But I’d add posture.. the way a guy carries himself is key.

[CubsterShura]

Ok lemme see... I have a LOT of 'preferences' but not many 'requirements'. I'm good as long as he looks normal, you know what I mean?1. Hair color: Brunette2. Hair length/style: no preference except can't have a partially bald haircut. Either keep it all or shave it all, for religious reasons.3. Eye color: I love green eyes.4. Beard/shaved/stubble preference: prefer fully grown beard with trimmed mustache for religious reasons, but wouldn't care if he does something else.8. Overall weight (Lean, bit of a belly, pudgy): don't care as long as he's not severely underweight or morbidly obese. Ideally prefer lean physique.11. Chest & back muscles: definitely one of the major muscle groups that impress me when a man has it well-developed.12. Arm muscles: huge plus.17. Circumcised vs intact: I don't get to choose that for religious reasons.18. Pubic Hair style: bald.20: Anything about testicles: better produce sperm, I want kids. Just lazily erased out ones that I have no comments on.

[CubsterShura]

Oh man people are gonna have fun reading this!

[TheEagle_000]

I had fun reading this that's for sure. And one question, why don't you get to choose "circumcise vs intact"? A Muslim man is surely circumcised so I expected you to say yes to circumcision.

[CubsterShura]

I said I don't get to choose because it doesn't even matter if I like cut or uncut, I'm getting cut anyway.

[TheEagle_000]

Oh okay.

[0112358]

@CubsterShura I had circ done as an adult, so having experienced both as an adult I'll assure your religion has chosen well for you and your husband lol. I'd forgotten I asked this question, which not many people answered. Partly I was interested, but partly I asked because people here often ask about stuff they are worrying about that I was pretty sure was going to be really low or not even on anyone's list. It's like some girl who is slim, nice face, nice hair, nice butt but her areola diameter is different from what she thinks her partner would like best, and even if you asked the guy 'pick an ideal areola' even if he WOULD choose something different it's just such a low priority issue, nobody should be stressing about it. It's like asking someone if they want the window up/down button in their car to be chrome or same color as the armrest. I mean if you're asked you can pick, but if someone gave you a car that it was the other choice, nobody would be like 'this car sucks I need a different one'. I will stop rambling now.

[CubsterShura]

Haha good point!