Why do Americans pull out rather than cum you inside like normal men?

[purplepoppy]

A question I'm often asked by Americans online is where do guys cum. This is really confusing as logically if a man has his penis in your vagina that's where you expect him to cum. The same logic applies to oral and anal sex. However it seems our friends across the pond prefer to pull out and finish themselves off with a wank. Are American women not worthy of being cummed in? Don't they take offence at guys who prefer the feel of their own hand?
If their scared of pregnancy then contraception is easily available. There are even couples who've been trying unsuccessfully for years to conceive until the doctor discovers the guy pulls out and finishes with a wank.
Now I know in porn they do it for the cameras but is there any real reason you guys do it

[MrOracle]

Many women in the US would freak out and be super pissed off if you just assumed that you could cum inside her (which, I agree with you: why let a man inside you without a condom if you feel this way?), and many don't take birth control for a variety of reasons. Even those who do aren't always comfortable with it. So there's that.

There's also a good number of women who want to see and feel it or taste/swallow it, because it excites them, so they ask for it one place or another.

And, finally, there are girls like you who prefer and expect the guy to cum inside her.

The reason we ask is because we don't know which of these a given girl might be, and in most cases we're trying to take her wishes into consideration.

[Browser101]

I’ve traveled quite a bit and I’ve always cummed inside the vagina. No matter the country this seems to be a standard. The problem in America seems to be the worry of child support from a woman lying about her use of birth control. They get paid by the Government per child they conceive and also collect handsomely if the man can be sued for child support. Most countries however have no help for irresponsible behavior. I have cummed inside American women as well after being assured they are safe. It has been fine thus far.

[katiesmuff]

I totally agree with you that the cum belongs in the orifice where the penis was doing it's thing. I've never had or let a guy pull out and cum on my body, it's always been in my pussy or mouth.
I also am not certain there is all that much pulling out kind of stuff actually happening. Been in many sexual orientated conversations round tables with both girls and guys and can't remember much mentioned about pulling out and jacking off to finish.

[laurieluvsit]

It is suppose to be a birth control method.

My dad always told me there are two things that men say to never believe...

1) The checks in the mail

2) Don't worry, I will put it out before I cum

... lol

[Girther10]

There is also one more” it’s only a cold sore”

[Girther10]

“ The check is in the mail” “ I will still love you in the morning”🤣🤪😂😎

[PrudentGuy]

Wow! I read your details then all the Opinions.

You Americans are REALLY complex creatures!

Here, girls wears IUDs and guys wear condoms (except me) and we just fuck. Period. Why so complicated? Its just sex! OMG!

[ciitruskiwi]

Honestly the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Does someone need to explain to you where babies come from and that not everyone wants kids or wants to risk of having one when they aren't ready?

[ciitruskiwi]

And yes contraception is available but did you forget that they all have chance of failing? Yes it's small but some people like me don't want to risk it. So yes my boyfriend does pull out even though I'm on birth control. Why? Because neither of us want to worry if my birth control is going to fail. We enjoy our peace of mind.

[Katie1964]

Well as for this American, we don't pull out. Not sure where you get your info but doesn't apply to my marriage.

[desidoll]

Really? Not sure if it has to do with their nationality. My guy is an American and he loves cumming inside me.

[Apple1996]

I dont like being cummed in

[vald9inches]

Too bad! Its going to happen whether you like it or not!! Now take that cum!

[Apple1996]

@vald9inches okay but only for you😛

[Abdulwahh]

Really i love to creampie

[normalice]

I've never had a condom not break, so I stopped using them altogether. Pulling out is, thus, the only way to be sure that pregnancy is avoided unless I'm cerian a girl I'm with is on birth control. Obviously only applies to vaginal sex - being able to freely cum in a girl is half the appeal of anal/oral. But since I got a vasectomy I don't pull out at all anymore.

[Ccshots45]

Pussy getting cummed in to much does lead to infections and stuff, anyway he doesn't have to wank, I can help,

[Ccshots45]

So the guy must cum wherever he is, so maybe its vaginal, then anal then mouth, you suck that ass smelling dick and swallow, Or should he drop in everywhere?

[Lyndsielee666]

I can’t take birth control so my boyfriend pulls out because we don’t need not kids but I’ll finish him off myself. 🤷‍♀️

[vald9inches]

IUD?

[Lyndsielee666]

@vald9inches nope

[vald9inches]

why? 😢😢😢

[Lyndsielee666]

@vald9inches I have vaginismus so an iud is basically impossible. The pill, the shot and the patch fuck with the lump I have in my boob so 😔

[Lyndsielee666]

Unless they can put my ass to sleep to insert an iud it isn’t happening any time soon lmfao

[Manhart1999]

How does the vaginismus affect Ur sex life personally? Only if u don't mind me asking.

[Lyndsielee666]

@Manhart1999 it hurts like hell lmfao

[Manhart1999]

Ya, I would guess that. But I guess u r pretty sexually active right?

[Manhart1999]

I mean it always hurts that much or sometimes it's less or not there is when u do it?

[Lyndsielee666]

@Manhart1999 it’s always there. Can’t wear tampons either lmfao. I had to be held down to have my exam done when I was pregnant. It’s pretty bad.

[QueenBee001]

Also sometimes when a man ejaculates in a woman and she does not take the right precautions she can get bacterial infections!

[Girther10]

We don’t. It’s a stereotype because of porn, porn features Guys with huge cooks, and Americans have big cocks, so there’s that natural assumption that Americans pull out. It’s really more of an individual preference, for me, I do whatever she wants me to do- twice. 😎

[wankiam]

i think that in the same way most women now shave their fannies this trend has indeed been driven by porn... its actually hard to find porn where you get to see cum running out of her pussy which is odd because i for one aren't really interested in watching other men having a wank

[Avicenna]

Nah, a wank isn't anywhere near as good as finishing in her, so I cum exclusively in her vagina.

[Loving_Husband]

Some women don't want you to cum inside them. So I wouldn't go against their wishes and do it. I don't think that would be right.

[JaredNotLetoTho]

I pull out so I don't have to wear a condom

[Agape93]

Our health systems and wages are honestly garbage. Many women here can not afford birth control on their own and some insurances won’t cover it. I’m pretty sure more would do it if it was more affordable.

[Apope16]

I prefer to cum deep inside her with a condom. But if I have been dating one person for an extended period of time there is more pleasure in being deep inside her without a condom and then pulling out. Women actually like a guy cuming on their stomach or their clit or breasts because they get turned on by watching the cum come out. But for me the reason is pure pleasure intensity. Skin on skin deep inside her the real thing. I can control and know when to pull out and when I cum.

[alice55]

They don't want to have babies and I guess their women refuse to take the pills so they have no other choice (if they refuse / can't use condom).

[BillieJean1070]

I've never experienced a guy that wanted to pull out.

[bubbakong2006]

I’m going to fill you up my dear if I’m in your pussy I’m staying till your full a few times

[SOARER_]

You gave a bunch of answers for your own question.
I generally agree with you, I enjoy cumming inside. It feels amazing. much better than pulling out.