Hand job on a first date?

I gave a guy hand job on date 1. Have I automatically removed myself from relationship material? He put my hand on his dick and I pull away, but then he try to put my hand there again and again. I did it because I kinda like him ( But not a full hand job). I feel really bad because I don’t usually do this on the first date and I’m scared that he gonna view me as a sex doll. Am I too easy?
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  • I gave a guy hand job on date 1. Have I automatically removed myself from relationship material?
    *Not necessarily but the goal would be a short one ending in intercourse.
    He put my hand on his dick and I pull away, but then he try to put my hand there again and again.
    *You should have stopped the action.
    I did it because I kinda like him ( But not a full hand job). I feel really bad because I don’t usually do this on the first date and I’m scared that he gonna view me as a sex doll. Am I too easy?
    *You were then. Don't do that again.

  • if it wasn't a full hand job then you aren't ruled out. some guys do that to tempt. i've done that myself. i had one girl scream but she was happy about it.

    i had two girls smile and go with it.

    none of those experiences were with a naked penis. it was always covered.

    guys do that because they are horny and know you like them. they want you to feel them.

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  • I've been out of the dating game for a while now, but I'm pretty sure a hand job counts about as much as a kiss on the cheek used to, at the end of a date.

  • Nah, I wouldn't worry too much about that. Most guys aren't really going to change their opinion of you over something like that.

  • You probably did.

  • I think it was bad because he pressured you into doing it and that is a red flag that he expected that from you on the first date. His gonna be terrible to you if y'all get together

  • You increased your odds of getting a 2nd date

  • Yes too bad and wouldn’t have true love

  • Stop worrying.

  • I wouldn't think of you any less because of this

  • It seems like he tried to force you to do it when you didn't want to.

  • You pulled away right
    So, there is no chance of he thinking like that

    • I ended up giving him a hand job at the end

    • Not a deal... It's just a hand job.. Not a blow job

  • Is there something wrong with pleasuring your date?

    • I think it’s too soon

  • He was kinda an ass about it so it is unlikely it would be anything serious anyway. But as other guys have said, guy probably got yourself a second date but be ready for him to try even harder for sex this time and if you reject him he might get a bit hostile.

  • He's not boyfriend material, by what he did.

  • You are too easy.