During sex: Why is it OK for girlfriends to call their boyfriend daddy but it's not OK for boyfriends to call their girlfriend mommy?

[Unit1]

Double standards?
Why do girlfriends more than enjoy calling their boyfriend "daddy" during sex? Do they have a sex-fantasy with a father role or maybe even their own father? I'm sincerely asking - Are these daddy issues or just sex fantasies or am I missing something?

And why is it not acceptable for boyfriends to call their girlfriend "mommy" during sex? Surely there are some of us, who have that sexual fantasy, where we curl up with our beloved woman (pretty much motherly*) and things "go from here to there". But women say it's too weird and it turns them off 😒😑

*motherly
[ˈməT͟Hərlē]
ADJECTIVE
of, resembling, or characteristic of a mother, especially in being caring, protective, and kind.

[MissKittyz]

"Whocouldibe" has a very good answer to that!
In my relationship, I like to call my partner daddy because I'm the submissive one while he is the dominant one. If he called me mommy, then I'd feel like he isn't dominant anymore and I'm the one taking care of him instead of the opposite. He is the one with power who controls me sexually. Not the other way around.

People gotta stop relating the word "daddy" as having daddy issues or wanting to have sex with their real father. It only has to do with dominance and having someone take care of you sexually. Nothing to do with wanting to fuck your own father. I don't have any problems with my real father and he has always been in my life. So it isn't related to that at all.

[musicbrain5]

I’m guessing it’s because anyone who says “daddy” in bed is generally in some kind of dom/sub relationship, and in probably 99% of them the man is the dom. So the girl sees the guy as an authority figure of sorts in bed, hence “daddy”.

That’s only my theory. The whole thing is weird to be, to be honest. I just can’t call a guy daddy, ughhhhh. Ew

[musicbrain5]

Oh yeah, a downvote! 👍

[CubsterShura]

I think it's just giving the male partner the dominant role, like he has that position above her in bed. Of course, it has to be consensual in the end and both partners have to be comfortable with it. I'm personally quite neutral about it. I do believe mommy can be said in bed, usually if the female is dominating.

[Whocouldibe]

Probably because daddy equals power/ domination/ control etc most men enjoy stepping into that sexual role. Women more often prefer the submissive, surrender, role so mommy makes them think of having to be in a controlling role which isn’t always what they want.
For others neither term is used

[Daniela1982]

The only reason I can think of why they would call you daddy is if they were used to having sex with their dad, Chester Molester and you reminded her or him.

[Browneye57]

Unfortunately a lot of guys never come to the realization that no woman is ever going to love them like their mother did - it's just impossible. Maternal love is a completely different thing than romantic love.
And really, most guys are simply not into fucking their mother. You? LOL

[Unit1]

Well there are middle aged women or MILFs, who are attractive and sexy still. I never said i wanted to have sex with my mother 😣

[Browneye57]

No proper woman wants to 'mother' her man. Period. How is a woman going to have awe and respect for her man if he views her as his mommy? It's just sick.

[Unit1]

I know right? But that was not the point here.

[Browneye57]

Accept the fact that things will NEVER be equal or the same. Regardless of what feminism tries to espouse.

[Princeofaljaz]

Women are weird.

[markscott]

For me, it's not OK to call me daddy.

[RaindropSparkle]

I could NEVER call my boyfriend Daddy 😂 not a chance!!!

[October808]

I'd be concerned if they called me daddy (wait are you pregnant?)

[Exorcist_Rampage]

I think many women would love their own daddy to help her orgasm when she is early 20s. Women are horny as the devil despite what they say.

Am I right or wrong, women?

I'm not meaning you specifically but most women in general.