Guys who like MILFs like them because they're still physically attractive, and they tend to have more confidence and aren't afraid of a guy being direct and saying "I'm just looking for sex." Plus, they're often very good at sex and very uninhibited (I realize you might struggle to understand what being inhibited is like, since going by your other posts, that's not something you are, but a lot of women are pretty inhibited).
And those guys don't care if she has kids or is (or gets) pregnant because it's usually just a short-term thing and the guy will move on quickly - she might not even know his name. Anyway, he knows he's not going to have to deal with any relationship responsibility or any of that other stuff, so he doesn't care about any of it. Maybe he pays for a babysitter for a couple of hours when he wants to bang her, so the kids aren't around - and that's the extent of his having to deal with the situation.
There is a difference between a single mother and a "MILF".
A single mother is like the one you described and that picture in your description - they are damaged goods, have a kid or two from other guys. That most men don't want for obvious reasons.
MILFs are referred to mature or middle aged women, who could well be mothers (but often enough not necessarily the case) originating from a popular porn category. In that sense they are not portrayed as the damaged goods type but the beautiful type, who are taking care of themselves, their appearance and are attractive and don't let themselves be ruined by what life throws at us all.
And of course, the mature or middle aged women are SEXY!!! And beautiful!!! I am attracted to women, young and middle aged!!!
I am getting hungry for downvotes. Come at me you hideous bigots and show me how much you hate hearing the messenger delivering the truth!
Cameron Diaz a true milf that I love.
@cheer4life_xo I am not sure who that is of the pictures, that I provided but they are all lovely :D I especially like the teacher one ☺ She reminds me of one of my professors, who I still have a huge crush on since years. My heart is pounding wild and I get an adrenaline rush whenever I see her.
Could not have said it better!!
Milfs are not necessarily single moms. They are just beautiful mature women, who could be mothers. The way they carry themselves, how the look/act can play a big part in it. Also, because that’s a huge porn category.
For single mothers, on the other hand, usually deal with guys who want to hit it and quit it. People usually don’t want to date single parents (I wouldn’t date a single father), but enjoy sleeping with them.
Most accurate comment here ^
Thanks haha
I agree totally
I'm pretty sure guys don't use the term selectively. I'm 36 and the young guys like me because "I'm a MILF" but I've never had kids. I've dated a few of those young things but I can't say they wanted to hang around long term for me either.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some guys will fantasise about milfd because they like the idea of an older lady, not because they want the responsibility of a child. That shit is terrifying
I'm not sure but I love them. They are so fun and out going after they get a baby sitter.
its the "baggage" of the kids AND the ex that make a lot of guys not want to date a single mom..
the MILF image is the woman only, not her situation.
Most guy are still boys we grow up with fantasys of older women seducing us it start out in 2nd. 3rd 4th grade with our teacher we have crushes on them and it keeps going from there we stat liking older women we want older women from our babysitters to our teacher are best friends mom to our step mom's we are little horn dogs ,,, growing up I might have has 1 girlfriend that was my age,, all the girls I went out with were way older than me ,, don't know why but for some reason I didn't hang out withbgirld my age some how I was always getting hooked up with an older lady ,,, then around 29 years old started to date girls my age got married then divorced and now I still like older women. But now I find younger younger girls trying to flirt with me and I wonder if it's for the same reason I liked older women
Because men are sexual creatures and like to get down and dirty. A MILF is just as taboo as a cougar. Both just want one thing and that is to screw each other’s brains out. Should I mention the 100+ strains of hpv going around the universe? Lmao 🤣
Single mothers may want a man to marry them and help with the bills etc. Guys who like milfs generally just want sex.
Because men want a women that is experienced and that already had kids and is past the "baby fever" stage of life lol
True. Having sex with someone who says she has baby fever is scary tbh
@ecfresh that probably would be scary for a guy. Most guys want to be committed before having kids
Of course. That happened to me years back over the summer. She had 3 kids and was supposed to be ‘dating’ a guy. Turns out they broke up and I had been her friend for 3 months. Things heated up fast sexually between us but like I said she admitted to having baby fever. So ya: baby fever+lack of committed relationship+3 kids+ other guys lurking around= no bueno feelings and situation. You can imagine why it gets scary then, with the possibility of being attached to her long term. That’s real life.
I don’t know about guys but I love MILFS because they are experienced and so HOT!!! 🔥 Yum! 😜💋👠
I have had sex with a few women that had kids (two were even married). I would never have a relationship with one.
Why you like milf
@ashwini_opentalk In general, I don't. Having had kids is a negative trait. Sometimes other positive traits overcome that.
"does she get more points the more kids she's got or less " I couldn't tell you how many single women in their early 20's with two or three kids think they have a chance with a guy like me. They are complete basket cases, but somehow, they think a millionaire would date them.
I don't. They scare the shit outta me.
The woman in the image doesn't look like a single mom lol. Does he keep coming back or what?
Guys do have sex with single moms. What the single moms are complaining about is that they assume they should be getting better guys, generally at least the caliber of guy they could have gotten when they were younger and childless, yet they usually don't.
MILFs are still attractive and the sex is good with single moms, so of course guys like that.
I dated a single mom after I got divorced from my first wife. She had 3 kids.
3 kids from you?
@ashwini_opentalk NO! She had 3 kids before we met. From 2 different men.
I have dated and attracted MILFS. Single women. Older women. Mothers. For me the attraction is the confidence that a MILF has because she has already fucked and had kids. She is experience in sex. Also there is something sexy about maturity. Sometimes the ditsy or girlie girl or young girl gets tiring after awhile. There is something sexy about being inside a mature, bonafide adult woman. You are deep inside adult thoughts, adult mind, real lived experiences and travels, pains and heart ache, nostalgia and aspirations, all of that spiritual insight you get when you are deep inside her and she is lovingly stroking your hair.
The "M" in "MILF" is misleading. It doesn't necessarily mean a mother, rather a women who is old enough to be someone's mother.
A woman in her 30's who has never had children would still be called a "Milf."
There's a huge difference between being sexually attracted to an older woman and wanting to start spending your paycheck on her mortgage.
Just a fantasy darl.
Don't say anything bad about your local MILF.
If it wasn't for then there even a lot more guys running around knowing a lot less about sex than they already do.
And let's face it. The last thing you what is more guys knowing less about sex than there All ready is.
I think it's more the maturity aspect of it. Either that or they have mommy issues.
I think to most men milf is more like an age group than it's actual meaning. It's not about the kids but the easy life.
I think there is also the notion they could get pregnant, and you know how the idea of breeding turns on some people.
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