How can you tell if he is really enjoying the BJ?

So I was giving a BJ to my boyfriend, he moned a bit through out, and over all it lasted about two and a half minutes before he finished. After coming, he said it was a “9.5 out of 10” and that it was “great”. But what I want to know is: What are the signs I can look for next time to see if he is enjoying it, or I need to change it up a bit?
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  • A great way to check if he is enjoying it is by teasing him a bit.

    -My fiancee right in the middle of it goes ham on me like she goes full speed and wild. Then she goes really slow and grips the base of my penis slightly hard to the point where the focus is on my mid shaft and tip licking and sucking. So I asked her yesterday for you on why she does that and she told me to tell you that she does that to see any physical responses on liking it. When she slows down she checks for twitching in her mouth or hand or if I go wild and thrust for more. She sees that as me loving it and SHE IS RIGHT!

    Long story short every guy has a different response if your guy says that it was 9.5 out of 10 and he meant it then there is a technique that you are doing that he LOVES. Find out what that is that you do and make it your "special"

    Tips that make me wild

    -Showing extreme enthusiasm
    -deep eye contact
    -changing pace once in a wild
    -varring techniques

    seriously the first two I mentioned will really spice it up and make it special every time. I'd say they are the two most important and it's what makes your bj special opposed to any other he had. Emotional connection and enthusiasm will really make him think "geez she really likes to please me I appreciate her so much". Try it you won't regret it.

    • Okay, thank you so much! Will try this.

    • Anytime I am always here to help message me if you want more tips or you can even ask my fiancee if that makes you more comfortable

    • Haha, okay that would be great. This helps a lot. If I have questions I will be sure to message you. Thank you! 😊

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  • If he had an orgasm in 2 minutes he loved it 100%. I like it when a girl first starts out with a handjob to get me close and then finishes with a bj. Did he return the favor? You deserve some great orgasms also. Teach him how to give you some good oral! Have you two had sex yet?

    Maybe get him to masturbate more often so he will not cum so quickly... yes all teen (and older) guys masturbate frequently they just will never admit it.

    • Lol thanks for the advice! We have slept together, yes. And personally, I feel like he try’s to please me wayyy too much, which is one reason I love returning the favor.

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  • Everyone is different. Most guys will grip onto something tightly if it's really good though. For me it's usually my hair or whatever they're sitting/laying on. Lol
    Moans are good, vocalizing in general is good. If he can't keep his eyes open that's usually a great sign. Lol
    This is only from my experience giving head though. No clue if I'm actually correct. XD

    • Lol, no worries. Thanks for the response, this helps a lot!

  • if he's hard as a rock and he cums in 3 minutes or less he enjoyed it too much... basically if he's hard he's liking it... if he loses his erection then your probably not exciting him then come on here... but you seem to be doing good with blowjobs... maybe too good... we can talk technique maybe not needed now.

    • actually It could be any amount of minutes long as he's hard he's probably enjoying the act

    • Okay, thank you. Good to know!

  • Literally just ask him

  • Guys really can't fake it like a girl can hun

  • Well the fact that it didn't last long and he finished is a good indicator. Just trust that he liked it (and if he asks again, well, you know he liked it a lot).

  • If he cums real quick

    • Can you message me

  • You have the enjoyment barometer in your mouth.

    • Now THAT is an amazing statement. 👍

  • If you can make him ejaculate, you are doing fine.

    Some women don't know how to do that.

    Some women can make any guy do it in 30 seconds whether he wants to or not.

  • How old are you?

    • I’m 17

    • If he's coming that quick he's enjoyed it. Everyone is different, whatvworks with one person won't with another. Best thing to do is communicate and keep practicing. But don't let him have all the fun, I hope he is reciprocating

    • Like the thumbs down i get. Amazing when this site is full of 13/14 yr olds or younger that people seemingly dont care how young an under 18 is before giving advice on sexual techniques...

  • Communicate with him and ask what he likes and doesn’t like.
    This is really easy.

  • The moaning is a dead give away.

  • the faster they cum, the better it is
    like, when my friend gave head for the first time it took so long that like his friend literally called him and he was having a convo with him while she was giving him head

  • Find out where he made the most noises or when his dixk twitched the most. Giving you a 9.5 is pretty good.

  • Ask him

  • If he comes in your mouth and is moaning its 👌

  • İs your boyfriend is uncircumcised or circumcised

    • He is uncircumcised

    • İs he have foreskin is very tight tight

    • Can you pull back his foreskin

  • He's getting head, as long as you're not using teeth he's gonna love it.

  • 99% of the time a guy is getting his dick sucked he’s not gonna have a single complaint

  • Moans or if he raises his head and stretches his neck up

  • If he is moaning that is a good indication that he is enjoying it