At what age did you discover how to masturbate?

How did you discover it?
Did you feel weird or guilty?
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mine when i was 12, and i was in bed, alone, no one was at home. i felt like touching my breasts and going down rubbing my pussy, and i felt so weird and so good at the same time. i didn't really understand what it was. i kept doing it secretly everytime nobody is at home. when i had my first bedroom when i can really sleep alone (around 15 yo), i did it like 3x a week. now i do it every night because i have high sex drive.
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  • I was...4, I think, when I discovered it was fun, and probably 10 when I realized what an orgasm was.

    I was always kind of that way, but also grew up with sex abuse from my grandma for years, so I'm not at all surprised that it was always there.

    Definitely felt both guilty and weird, because of the above bit. Never got any better about it, but hey, grandma's dead, so at least that's one less thing to face in life :)

  • I was 13 I was in the shower washing myself and it just randomly got hard lol, I played with it because it felt good and when I came I was rather confused haha, so glad I had that experience though otherwise I probably wouldn’t be as sexual as I am, how about yourself?

    • You had pubic bush at the time you were washing it in shower and it got erected?

    • God I don’t remember lol all I remember is I was touching/rubbing it and it felt good so I continued haha.

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  • I was pretty young, I would say 11 (if not younger) and it was on accident I just layed on my stomach and rubbed against my stuff animals, I had no idea what it was i just continue doing cause it felt good. i only ever felt guilty when I was older and understood what i was really doing it, I obviously grew out of it and now that it is completely normal and healthy :)

  • I guess I never really discovered how to masturbate correctly but I became aware of the activity when I was 17 and I decided to try it. I felt weird about it but I didn't feel guilty

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  • To me Its like asking when you started to look at girls, fancied about them, shaved your pubics - I really don't know - but it would have been a great day when it happened.

  • guess i startes the same, i didn't know what i was doing. just that it felt good

  • I was 11, the first time. I wasn't even physically capable of ejaculating yet, so all I had were "dry" orgasms.

    I didn't feel weird, or guilty, at all. I just knew it felt good, and wanted to keep doing it, lol.

    • not capable of ejaculating? really? i thought all boys/ guys will surely ejaculate quite a lot. i mean we expect it to be really wet. i just knew it. how often do you masturbate?

    • Well, boys don't typically ejaculate until they've gone through puberty. At 11 years old, I wasn't quite there yet. I started being able to actually cum within about a year, or so. It started to get messy from about 12 years old, onwards, lol. How often I masturbate now depends on whether I'm in a relationship, or not. I currently am, and we have a regular sex life, so I only take care of myself a couple of times a week, in addition to sex.

    • sorry, may i know how often do you have sex with your GF? so sex + masturbation? i thought having an actual sex life is enough for guy to not masturbate.

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  • Maybe like 9 - 10 yeas old

    I just wish someone taught me how to properly do it because I did it in a dangerous way.

  • When I was 11 years old. It was by accident

    • could you elaborate? mine when i was in bed, i was alone, suddenly i felt like touching my breasts and going down to rub and play with my pussy, so starting from there i felt weird and good at the same time.

    • Similar, but I was in the lawn playing when I did it

    • ok, interesting :) thank you for sharing

  • I was 9 or ten one night in bed I started to rub my penis in a upward motion. It just started to feel good so I kept on going I felt this what I called the boom! I was not ejaculating sperm yet
    I did not feel weird or guilty!
    I started to masturbate every day after that!
    I have been masturbating for over 50 years now!
    I say if it feels good do it and I do it every day!

    • Even you have sex that day, you still masturbate?

    • I don’t have sex that often but yes I will still masturbate!

  • I was about 9 or 10 and in a hot tub. A water jet hot down there and a wave of pleasure hit me. I started running it and it was over lol now I can't get it enough

  • Im still learning since 15 year's old

  • 10 or 11 years. I can't remember.

  • 14. Trial and error. Relieved I could do it.

  • I discovered it at 12 and was very curious about it but certainly not guilty or weird. I just kinda started exploring

  • I was about 14. It was weird and I was standing up when I orgasmed and I nearly collapsed. I felt guilty but it was like a guilty pleasure.

  • i think i was 12 or something. it felt kind of bad XD but to me that as just normal and i didn't feel "guilty". why would i

  • I was 10, almost 11.

    • What did u feel at that time? Was it weird? Feel guilty? Or was it like an "enlightenment" for you? Haha

    • Oooh it was an "enlightenment" alright. It was a bit weird, but good. Didn't feel guilty.

  • My sexually curious female cousins taught me how to masturbate. I must have been 8, Empire Strikes Back was in theatres.

  • I was 12. I started out laying on my bed and humping the mattress. After that I used a pillow to hump. The pillow was better because I could drop it on the floor when I was finished and didn't have to worry about a wet spot on my bed. LOL!

  • Think I was like 13. My dick got hard so stroked it. Felt good to blow a load.

  • i was like 8 or 9 lol

    • brother told me that guys have this super power lol and no i didn't feel guilty

    • Did it hamper your physical growth?

    • What kind of question is that? Lol

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  • At age 12. I was fascinated by it.

  • 10 and I definitely felt both weird and guilty afterwards. Amongst other things as well

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